Welcome to getDare
Join the latest fashion of Promises.
Ever tried one of my fap roulettes?
Did you know about PM dares? A nice and gentle way to start playing here.
You can get a lot of PM dares by sending them in the PM dare bashing game.
Join the latest fashion of Promises.
Ever tried one of my fap roulettes?
Did you know about PM dares? A nice and gentle way to start playing here.
You can get a lot of PM dares by sending them in the PM dare bashing game.
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Heya! Glad you're getting fucked well
I've been having a bit of a tough time with some parts of dating lately, particularly being uncertain as to where and how to focus my efforts in finding someone who can do me the way I want to be done. I really appreciate you taking the time to write this, it makes me feel quite a bit better and more motivated! I'll be patient and persistentPosted 03-05-2021 at 03:54 AM by 420jenni -
I discovered a New Limit: some people
Thank you very much for the encouragement. It's a process to find how to get along with the binary concepts. So often, it's either about anatomy or stereotypes.
Anyway, a little update, I now mention that I have cock and balls. I now find it weird that the men and women I encounter don't state what genitals they have. It's not a given!
So far, feels better for me. I am more sure right from the start that my partners don't assume something different in my department that I have stored.Posted 02-24-2021 at 04:52 AM by CSasha -
I discovered a New Limit: some people
I'm pansexual and in a polyamory relationship. All my friends are queer, most of them also pansexual.
I know that some of my friends have preferences.... some are lesbians, so no penises.... some are gays, so only penises... But me being pansexual, I can't really understand their preferences. I like everyone and I can have sexual relations with anyone that really interest me... whatever their equipment or their gender identity.
I will talk to everyone because I'm civilised... some will end up being my friends.... I'll be sharing my body and my bed with a few. Others: no, nothing. Sorry.
I'm happy with who I am and with my life.
As long as your happy, that's all that matters to me.Posted 02-23-2021 at 09:44 PM by Red Rrbel -
How PM dares and add threads work for me
Wow, you invest a lot of effort for the very first dare you give out to a new person. Respect!
I do it differently. I invent a dare that should be easy enough for everybody (off course I also look at the likes and limits of that person, that is the minimum I have to do), and still a little bit challenging. Only when I know, this person is worth it, because I like to chat with him or I like his report, then I start thinking more about it and investing more time and effort in even better and custom tailored dares.
But this is just a rough guideline. Sometimes I am really motivated and I spend 20 minutes to custom tailor a dare for a stranger. But only for some where it is clear that they already wrote some reports, so you can expect something from them.Posted 02-19-2021 at 03:02 PM by Manarus -
Posted 01-16-2021 at 07:08 PM by CSasha -
Posted 01-16-2021 at 01:38 PM by Bdsub -
Ten facts I wish all knew (about gender and sexuality)
There's a youtube video which hits your number 9 pretty much: "Tea and Consent"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQPosted 12-15-2020 at 12:19 PM by use-me -
I discovered a New Limit: some people
I agree on filtering people by attitude. But that's something I find out in first contact and also something many people are not aware of that they have it.
The call out on this particular issue is good since it makes me feel way about being contacted by strangers I am not sure about how much they read my profile or other information, and how serious they take my declared gender.
I don't like to shove intimate details in people's face right at the start of a conversation, so this limit is something I can do to reject those who tend to be surprised and disappointed later.Posted 10-05-2020 at 01:15 AM by CSasha -
I discovered a New Limit: some people
It’sa pretty unique limit, and not one I’ve seen explicitly mentioned before. And I’m somewhat surprised it deserves an explicit call out, too - but I’ve always been more attracted to who a person is, personality, chemistry, etc. - which matters a lot more to feel close and connected in one way or another. I hope you’ll enjoy exploring with new open minded people in the time to come!
When I read the title, it’s certainly not what I expected - we all have people we don’t want to play with, and for me just attitude initially matters a lot, and what I exclude most people on.Posted 10-04-2020 at 10:27 PM by knorke -
Posted 10-04-2020 at 05:49 AM by lilith_ -
Why I hate ASL - AgeSexLocation
My most recent asl conversation:
Him: Anyway whats your asl?
Me: 40, non-binary, Germany
Him: What are your Likes and Limits?
Me: My Limits are illegal, permanent damage, life ruiner, and any people who don't play with people with a penis.
Him: I don't play with people with a penis
Me: Then sexually playing with you is against my limits. Sorry.Posted 10-04-2020 at 03:03 AM by CSasha -
Why I hate ASL - AgeSexLocation
I used to come across this on Omegle.
Stranger: A/S/L
Me: I'm age/sex/location
Stranger: left the conversation
Me:Posted 10-04-2020 at 12:45 AM by SilverBlue -
14,000 posts celebration promise
Ah, I guess that would be too much. It takes me roughly an hour for a red card.
I gave him the links at the start but it takes plenty of time reading them. Those threads aren't well readable necessarily.
Me, a celebrity? I think there are way more famous people out here. Thanks for the compliment anyway.Posted 09-07-2020 at 04:59 AM by CSasha -
14,000 posts celebration promise
you didnt give him a resumee of what you have done? i mean you are kind of a celebrity here
and i meant while talking to him. tell him that every time you say a certain word to him he is allowed to add cards. if he catches it tough luck.Posted 09-07-2020 at 04:19 AM by ScarletMaid -
14,000 posts celebration promise
My keyholder isn't on getDare (yet). He is busy with important projects, other lockees, and me.Posted 09-07-2020 at 04:03 AM by CSasha -
14,000 posts celebration promise
Why dont you give your Keyholder a Keyword you can use with him. so he adds more Red cards
if you get horny you will most likely give him the Keyword and then screw yourself over constantly
TBH i am thinking on getting on chastity after reading your thread. its so.... fun i guess.Posted 09-07-2020 at 03:15 AM by ScarletMaid -
14,000 posts celebration promise
Thank you. Maybe a little bit too creative for my own good, sometimes.
Yes, it's gonna be a while. I actually want to do the Locktober, at once from now, and then maybe even continue into No-November and Denialcember.Posted 09-07-2020 at 01:07 AM by CSasha -
14,000 posts celebration promise
i gotta say Cass. this promise is beautiful. i always get inspired by you but damn are you creative.
i downloaded chastikey after reading one of your roulettes to se how bad was the damage we did last time. i dont think you are getting freed any time soon, and yet here you are doing something so... daring.Posted 09-06-2020 at 04:08 PM by ScarletMaid -
Chastity rules
i think it should be for all Yellow cards .
i mean if the rule was given by them. they should know who you are and how easily you can do them.Posted 09-06-2020 at 04:05 PM by ScarletMaid -
Chastity rules
I still got to ask if it's for all yellow cards, or just the yellow cards adding red cards, or just the yellow cards adding 2 red cards since those are the ones that got added due to a lost bet.
And I got to ask if it's just for the next 7 yellow cards or for the whole remaining lock. Still have my first yellow card now and need to do these before drawing the next card, just to be sure.Posted 09-06-2020 at 03:00 PM by CSasha -
Posted 09-06-2020 at 02:55 PM by ScarletMaid -
Posted 09-06-2020 at 02:18 PM by CSasha
Updated 09-06-2020 at 02:59 PM by CSasha -
Chastity rules
Is 28 days your record or am I reading it wrong?Posted 09-06-2020 at 01:18 PM by Clueless1 -
Why nobody wants you as a slave (and how you can fix that)
I want to say that I especially like the advice of making friends. I was lucky enough to have someone that gave me a chance and kind of introduced me to chat. I have made so many friends there that are both dominants and submissives. I think that it was the best introduction to kink that I could have gotten. I immediately had a support group and people that I could learn from and talk to. I met my Master in the chat and we oftentimes hold our play in the chat for everyone to watch.Posted 08-19-2020 at 04:30 PM by SlutGuy -
Posted 08-19-2020 at 01:13 AM by CSasha