07-18-2009, 09:05 PM | #16 |
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Once you've stuck around for awhile, you're able to see the difference between those who are and aren't a waste of time. Yet there's always the disadvantage to a "great" match-up. These things take time...binging out on sweet treat isn't the way to go. It ruins what could've and should've been.
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05-19-2010, 01:21 AM | #17 |
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One thing is, all of what depp said, is just basic gesture to talk to people. I've learnt similar things from " psychology books" and particularly, books based on "how to get things done from others" Certainly, I've seen people, coming into the lounge, saying, "Hey I want a Mistress" and things like that. I don't believe a long term, healthy relationship can start this way. |
01-04-2011, 03:56 AM | #18 |
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just joined an hour ago... looks very interesting and the advice on how to put up an ad, is very true, also informative...
hopefully, i ll have good time here, in europe, but hope to go to south america this year.. hope you all get at least some of what you want..hope i do too !!! happy new year to you all... |
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A brilliant thread Hampers, with some very good points, should do the site a great help- should the people who are the worst offenders actually take the time to read it. Probably won't but its worth a try... Just a few things I'd like to ad before getting back to revision on developmental psychology... see it is such a good thread I booted up my laptop just to comment.
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COMMUNICATION PATIENCE AND SOCIAL STRUCTURE ARE KEY! NOT SPAMMING CHAT. THAT IS ALL! xx Shadows
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01-04-2011, 12:02 PM | #20 |
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As it has been said numerous times, Communicate! If you come into chat and immediately say "19/m looking for Master" You are going to get someone, 9 times out of 10, that just wants to play right that second but the next day may ignore you, or not even sign on for a week. That goes for both sides slaves and Masters. Get known, get pick for who you are not for your age and sex. I assume you want to be known as your username, not as Age 18 female slave.
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01-06-2011, 11:17 AM | #21 |
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Great thread, hopefully it will help some people. Unfortunately I can't see it doing enough.
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01-08-2011, 10:18 AM | #22 |
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Hi everyone
I am also a newbie to this site and just stumbled upon your thread and it's the first one I've read. And I must say, it made me feel very welcome and more at ease. So a big thank you there. |
07-28-2012, 09:54 AM | #23 |
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Hi
I am looking through the site as per normal, and have stumbled upon this one entitled so you want a slave/master well done. Would like to say a big thank you to you for writing it, just what I’ve been looking for, just reading in it I have found it’s been a big help (no don't worry I will be reading the rest of it ) not just that bit, having posted for advice on the advice post I received two replies, equally as helpful. Only being a member for a few day now and not receiving any replies concerned me, but after reading this section you have posted I can see why know coz I’ve prob made myself look like a prat, but I am now getting to find my around it and understand it a bit better. my concerns are that being a new master without experience is keeping people away should I not advertise this fact, I only do this so people are away and can help and advice but most importantly is that I would never wish to endanger anyone, could you please advise due to you working here have you seen much success for new start masters so on closing I would just like to make one point and that is if only they had squeezed this type of site into one lesson a day when I was at school then I would of 1) not bunked off so much 2) paid more attention while there 3) learnt the ability to speed type earlier on in life 4) won awards for spelling and grammar 5) to be able to sit down and read more. Once again thanks and keep up the good work
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06-25-2013, 10:37 PM | #24 |
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Thank you! That was helpful. I pretty much always used to burst in a room and just declare what I am looking for. Generally not finding anyone ever. Also, I just learnt the hard truth. I lie at the bottom of the demand pool. :sob:
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