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Old 12-23-2010, 10:11 PM   #1
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Okay the title is misleading but I am very curious as to what the response will be.

I suppose the question that I want to ask is how many slaves would be willing to share the one Master? and i suppose from a Master's point of view how many have found their slaves interested with introducing another slave?

Of course this raises all kinds of questions like if it is truly a M/S relationship if you add another human aspect to the relationship. The only way around this, that I see, is if one of the slaves is sort of the head slave but then again like i said before that isn't really a true M/S relationship. I am a little bit hesitant in posting this but than I thought what the hell, may as well lol.

So all that's left to say is post away. What is our opinion/experience if there is any.
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Old 01-17-2011, 03:56 PM   #2
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It most definietely depends on the dynamic of the relationship as well as the time that the Master has to spend with his slave/slave. My Master likes to own more than one slave and he also like to play with other girls for short periods of time. For our dynamic that works because he is still able to give me the time and attention that I need as his slave and he is able to do this with any other girls he has around as well. It all depends on the Master, but also the slave's reaction. However I will say I used to be very jealous of my Master's other slaves, but I got over it. It was something Master and I worked through together.
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Old 01-17-2011, 03:59 PM   #3
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I get really jealous and I would not like to share a Master.. Maybe as a punishment or a rare "cuck" tease, but as a full-time thing, no.
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Old 01-19-2011, 07:38 AM   #4
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I'm not a "slave" but I really like monogamy. In a D/s relationship I compromise though because it's not forever and ever, love and romance and all that stuff.

So my ideal would be no sharing but I take the other person's wants and needs into consideration.
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I personally see no problem, from a Master POV, in this but the slaves must know, and take their emotions into account. You have to make sure you show equal attention to all slaves.

This however could be used to make a slave jealous if they were extra disobedient or such.
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Old 01-19-2011, 11:07 AM   #6
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I'm not a "slave" but I really like monogamy. In a D/s relationship I compromise though because it's not forever and ever, love and romance and all that stuff.

So my ideal would be no sharing but I take the other person's wants and needs into consideration.
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I personally see no problem, from a Master POV, in this but the slaves must know, and take their emotions into account. You have to make sure you show equal attention to all slaves.
These. I'd have to know I wasn't the only slave/sub and even then, I'm not sure I'd be happy with it. Although, it'd be easier to share an Online Master than a Real Life one I think.
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Old 01-19-2011, 11:32 AM   #7
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I think I am too monogamous to to ever be totally happy with it. I'd hope hypothetical dom would consult me first, I guess if i knew about it, with time I might be able to accept it but I don't think id ever be Happy if he chose to have additional subs. I am one of these people that probably couldn't deal with it emotionally.
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Old 01-19-2011, 09:46 PM   #8
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I think I am too monogamous to to ever be totally happy with it. I'd hope hypothetical dom would consult me first, I guess if i knew about it, with time I might be able to accept it but I don't think id ever be Happy if he chose to have additional subs. I am one of these people that probably couldn't deal with it emotionally.
I agree with Star, I am too monogamous to be totally happy about it. But, depending on the relationship, and if the master had slaves before you, there really isn't anything you can do. xD But as long as the master gives equal amount of attention and time to each one, I think it is fine; it would just take a while to get over the jealousy stuff. but if I had it 100% my way, picture perfect relationship, i would be the only slave, and the master would be my significant other. XD which is not what I have right now. But I am happy with the relationships I am in now.
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Old 01-21-2011, 10:42 AM   #9
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From a master's point of view, it takes a lot of work and creativity to properly use my slave. So much so that I doubt that I would be able to give two slaves what they deserve at any given time. That being, said I could see some sort of short term (< 1 week) sort of thing, if my slave were comfortable with it. Maybe in the future when I get more experienced, but as for now, one is more than enough for me.
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Old 01-21-2011, 12:16 PM   #10
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Aslong as the master had time enough time for me then it wouldnt bother me at all.
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Old 01-26-2011, 02:41 AM   #11
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For online at least, which is where my experience lies, I am totally fine with it. I know for sure that my ex Mistress had at least one other slave, if not more. It was simply not my place to question that anyway. It was my place to please her.
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I'm not monogamous, so I'm fine with it. My master can do as he pleases, and I don't mind as along as I still get some attention. I wouldn't even mind if he had a switch who was submissive to him and dominant to me or if we met irl and he had another sub and made the two of us play together. I think it would be really fun!
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