Post your random thought at the moment

[Azyliux]

Originally Posted by Garry0993

Regarding post replies on here, or specifically within ad threads. Would people really respond to single replies like “ message me on my Kik @xxxx so we can chat?” Or “message me because we think it’s a good fit” with no extra context. If so why did you choose to message back to them?

I think the answer to this is heavily dependent on the "demographic" of who is advertising and who is responding. Generally female advertisers are likely to have more responses (although not necessarily more quality responses) than male advertisers, so are likely to ignore these messages. As a male advertiser I have certainly at least investigated every response I received no matter how unpromising it may have initially seemed in part for the reason Pluky gives that the right person may be hiding behind it. That said, I haven't found any gold nuggets hidden behind poor quality responses so far, so chances are I will be less likely to investigate these in the future.

Also as Pluky does, I will research the responders profile, blogs and posting history where they exist before further interaction. However my longest lasting and most fulfilling dynamics so far have been from users with almost zero footprint here on gD, so lack of a posting history is definitely not a red flag. But I can afford the time to do this because when I have actively advertised, I haven't received all that many responses (perhaps because my ad is specific enough to narrow down the field such that only promising candidates tend to respond).

I think that female advertisers need to weed out poor quality responses quickly simply because they receive significantly more responses overall and need to focus their time and attention on those they perceive as most likely to be fruitful. (It can suck to be on the other side of this and have your messages be silently ignored without knowing why, but I do understand it.)

Originally Posted by Garry0993

They are the least effort replies I can ever think of and frankly I don’t think those people are worth replying back to. In my opinion if I would like to reach out to someone, I would at least introduce myself and send a proper message. But there are certainly a large amount of people here who still does it so it makes me question whether people do reply to this kind of things o not.

I suspect some of these response are simply playing the numbers game and responding to everything with low effort. After a while of putting effort in to carefully tailored ad responses and not even getting a reply back, this certainly might seem like a tempting approach for some.

Azyliux

[Thifr]

Intentionally, i began the No But Novembre. I didn't c✓m for maybe one week now... So yes, I'm in. I think it's gonna be easier this year for me ...

[pluky]

Sir's doll would like to share new pictures of her in lingerie but has to wait for permission, she might sleep by the time Sir msg her back.

[GivingWantingDares]

I'm sure we would all like to see them

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by pluky

Sir's toy isn't sure but thinks that sometimes the most interesting person or right fit for you could be hiding behind a very silly or short message, however you will never know because you didn't go beyond that initial wall. Some people might not be willing to waste their time writing a lot before being sure someone's worth it. But then they also lose opportunities. That's life.

Sir's toy will usually look into everything a person posted somewhere else, like their other threads and blogs, so it doesn't matter if they only sent a short message. The length of the message isn't as important to Sir's toy as the vibe she gets from it.

Thank you for replying! this is very helpful.

I hope you enjoy replying in third person.

[pluky]

Originally Posted by Garry0993

Thank you for replying! this is very helpful.

I hope you enjoy replying in third person.

Sir's doll doesn't know why trying to answer if she's enjoying it made her repeatedly use first person in her head, she almost accidentally broke the rules but realized before starting to type her answer.

Sir's toy struggled to understand how she felt about this and still does. She was a bit turned on but also disoriented and scared, and other emotions were in the mix. It is a very confusing experience for her.

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by pluky

Sir's doll doesn't know why trying to answer if she's enjoying it made her repeatedly use first person in her head, she almost accidentally broke the rules but realized before starting to type her answer.

Sir's toy struggled to understand how she felt about this and still does. She was a bit turned on but also disoriented and scared, and other emotions were in the mix. It is a very confusing experience for her.

I hope you can figure out your final decision about this soon.

At the same time, try to enjoy it!

[pluky]

Originally Posted by Garry0993

I hope you can figure out your final decision about this soon.

At the same time, try to enjoy it!

Sir's toy doesn't have a decision to make, she has been ordered to talk like this for a week. She will try to enjoy it.

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by Azyliux

I think the answer to this is heavily dependent on the "demographic" of who is advertising and who is responding. Generally female advertisers are likely to have more responses (although not necessarily more quality responses) than male advertisers, so are likely to ignore these messages. As a male advertiser I have certainly at least investigated every response I received no matter how unpromising it may have initially seemed in part for the reason Pluky gives that the right person may be hiding behind it. That said, I haven't found any gold nuggets hidden behind poor quality responses so far, so chances are I will be less likely to investigate these in the future.

Also as Pluky does, I will research the responders profile, blogs and posting history where they exist before further interaction. However my longest lasting and most fulfilling dynamics so far have been from users with almost zero footprint here on gD, so lack of a posting history is definitely not a red flag. But I can afford the time to do this because when I have actively advertised, I haven't received all that many responses (perhaps because my ad is specific enough to narrow down the field such that only promising candidates tend to respond).

I think that female advertisers need to weed out poor quality responses quickly simply because they receive significantly more responses overall and need to focus their time and attention on those they perceive as most likely to be fruitful. (It can suck to be on the other side of this and have your messages be silently ignored without knowing why, but I do understand it.)



I suspect some of these response are simply playing the numbers game and responding to everything with low effort. After a while of putting effort in to carefully tailored ad responses and not even getting a reply back, this certainly might seem like a tempting approach for some.

Azyliux

Thank you so much for the detailed replies.

As a regular male advertisers, I do sometime still receive those short replies from females. And like you mentioned, I can afford the time to try to reach out and see if they would open up and tell me more. My own ad is very long and have detailed instructions on what kind of replies I want to read. So even when I reach out, it was easy for me to see who might be a good fit and who might not.

However I was more referring to male user replies to the female ad when I posted my initial question. I have been here a bit while now, maybe not too long but I have read quite bit of posts. I am kinda sure that I have seen people who have posted and complaining about how they can't get a meaningful long last relationship they liked yet still see them just post those short brief in female ads trying to get their replies. I think that's the part that confuses me the most. I would expect anyone who claims to have a less success rate would try a different approach. I think what you mentioned about playing the numbers game is right. Maybe some poor girl would reply but then there's a less chance in my mind for things to be a long run.

I still think even it sucks to have no feedbacks about what I get rejected for my tailored responses, it is a better thing to do.

[Randy Magnum]

There's so many threads from people asking for requests to do in X,Y,Z situations which are obviously fantasy and the person isn't going to do.

Do people just not realise that they are fantasy or are they happy to give ideas to help the fantasy ?

[pluky]

Sir's toy is going to miss her Dom deeply when he's away for a day. She hopes time flies and she doesn't feel it happening.

[pluky]

Sir's property fell asleep wearing a collar bought from an animal store yesterday. The collar had a bell that kept making noise whenever Sir's toy moved.

Sir's toy doesn't like to wear uncomfortable things like lingerie or collars when she sleeps, but yesterday her Dom was leaving for a day and the collar made her feel comforted by the sense of being owned it gave her.

[pluky]

Sir's toy can't find any girl sharing pics on threads now that she's allowed to ask just for today, what a bummer.

[pluky]

The other day someone from a messenger thread told Sir's toy she looked fresh out of the box, that they couldn't believe she's 29. They could tell that despite not seeing her face. Sir's toy always gets "misaged" IRL. People IRL tell Sir's toy she looks no older than 20, usually they think she's even younger. Sir's doll doesn't know why her body seems to be stuck in time, sometimes she feels like a ghost who keeps the same appearance forever, she wonders if she's dead or in a coma and this is all not real. It's so weird to keep looking this young while approaching your thirties. Sir's doll isn't looking foreword to being even older in numbers and having to tell people her actual age, the bigger the gap between her looks and her age the bigger their shock, Sir's doll got tired of this kind of surprise and reactions from people, she just wants to look her age.

[Masterwants]

Originally Posted by Randy Magnum

There's so many threads from people asking for requests to do in X,Y,Z situations which are obviously fantasy and the person isn't going to do.

Do people just not realise that they are fantasy or are they happy to give ideas to help the fantasy ?

I’ve raised this concept before, it does seem that some people don’t care about reality or truth and are happy to go along with the fantasy and get off on this. Not for me, but I guess we’re all different.