Likes & Limits

• Orgasm control, denial, chastity, and edging - Over the years I have come to love these both as pure forms of sexual submission and for their uses as training tools.
• Pain play - Yes, I admit I am a sadist. A compassionate sadist, but a sadist. I like most forms of pain play from spanking, clamps and heat, to chemicals and electricity.
• Humiliation - I get a giant thrill from my sub/slave suffering humiliation to please or entertain me. What I love most is when they are turned on by my enjoyment their own shame. There are so many variations of this that I would find fun to explore as I discuss here.
• Anal play - Just one of my pet kinks, especially when paired with submission or humiliation.
• Bondage - I love creating that delicious feeling of helplessness and vulnerability in those I control, although I recognize that there are often significant safety considerations with online-only directed solo bondage.
• Training and self-improvement - This could be anything such as weight loss, study or improvement in submission itself. Is becoming slutty an improvement? I think so.
• Clothing control, toilet control, diet control - More control... I love it.
• Exposure - I love the way fear or shame can heighten arousal, starting with hidden public and moving up to explicit exposure.
• Sexual control - Yes, I love ownership of when, how & who you have sex with offline or interact sexually with online.

Too many things fall into this category that I cannot list them. Everything from wedgies to pet play. Some are very niche.

There is little I actively dislike that isn't a limit. I am willing to explore just about anything you want to play with. That said there are some things which I know from experience I am fairly neutral about in that they don't arouse me but I am willing to include in play if they interest you (such as messy, scat, and vomit).

• Dangerous/Self-Destructive - Anything with significant risk to your health (including mental health) or that of other people is out. Examples of this include cutting, breath control and choking.
• Illegal - Anything illegal is out, I don't want either of us in trouble with the law for obvious reasons.
• Disrespect - I expect to be accorded general respect for me as a person, regardless of any relationship.
• Dishonesty - Any deliberate intent to mislead me about something I consider significant will not be accepted.