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Old 08-10-2023, 06:11 AM   #1
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Male 24/male/dom seeks 18-30/female/sub in any place

24/male/dom seeks 18-30/female/sub in any place

ABOUT ME


I am 24 and I'm currently living in Canada. I've been involved in the BDSM community for some time now but I've only had one or two lasting dynamics. I know what I'm looking for in a sub and in a dynamic and this has lead to a fairly large gap sine my last dynamic. I can be a little picky but I think it's worth it to find the right person that I can enter a serious long term dynamic with.


I love sports. I played baseball growing up and I still love it to this day. I also am a big fan of football and basketball. I also really enjoy the MCU, DCU, and Star Wars/other movie franchises like that. I like to game too when I can find the time. If you are someone who has any of these interests than that would be great, I can talk about these subjects for years and I find it so attractive when girls are into stuff like that as well.


What I'm looking for

I am looking for a Total Power Exchange 24/7 Long Term Dynamic. This is something that is a huge commitment when done right and it's not something that you can do half heartedly. I want to control most aspects of your everyday life, like what you wear, what you buy, when you wake up, when you go to sleep, when you use the bathroom ect. Again, this is a commitment and if you don't think that you could see yourself fully submitting to that kind of lifestyle then maybe this isn't the right fit. I am fine with taking on someone who is willing to work her way up but the goal would be to get to this point.

I am also looking for someone that I can build a very special and close bond with. BDSM to me is so much more than ropes and whips and rules. I want to have real chemistry and a real connection with my sub. I want to get to know her fears, her insecurities, what makes her happy, what makes her sad, all of it. I want a relationship with my sub, not just a dynamic. I want to be able to talk daily, for hours a day, I want to be able to talk about what is happening in our lives and what we are striving for in our lives. I want more than just someone who will do what I ask without any further dialogue, if this kind of dynamic were to ever work out it will only be because of the foundation our relationship has built.


ABOUT YOU

Something that is very important for me is that you are willing to take pictures/send videos. I'm not saying you need to send me a nude photo with your face right away, but as trust builds I would need you to be comfortable with sending pics/vids. I don't really get any enjoyment out of talking to a random profile picture and I feel as though we can't build that connection if I can't see you. This is a deal breaker if you're not willing to do this.

Experience isn't important for me although the less experience you have the better. It's very difficult to always be compared to previous Dom's you've had so if you're coming into this with no past experience, great, if you're coming into with with a lot of expertise, also great, just keep your past relationships and experiences in the past.

MY KINKS


I will get into a few of my bigger kinks and then list off a bunch of other ones that I have.

-TEP: This one has been talked about already

-Praise/Worship: I love to be praised by my sub, I love it when she acts like she just can't get enough of me. I find it so attractive when my sub will randomly send me dirty texts/messages throughout the day. It is such a huge turn on for me.

-Lingerie: This probably sounds stupid. What guy doesn't like lingerie? I just feel like for me, seeing my sub in sexy lingerie is even better than seeing her naked. The effort that it takes to put it on and to style it, it just means more. So if you have a lingerie collection bonus points

-Collars/Leashes: I always want my sub to be collared at all times. Just as a semi public kind of way of showing the world that she's owned

-Semi Public: Going into a public bathroom while your at work or shopping and taking a picture for me is such a huge turn on. Wearing a butt plug in public or no panties at all... Semi public stuff is a huge turn on for me.

-Humiliations/Degradation: Another big kink of mine is verbal degradation/humiliation and making you do humiliating tasks

Some other Kinks


-Bondage
-Blindfolds
-Handcuffs
-Butt Plugs
-Voyeurism
-Orgasim Control


CONCLUSION


If you've read the ad to this point then I'm hoping something about me has caught your eye. If you want to reach out to me and see if we'd be a good fit then please either message me here or on Kik (preferably) @Judgih and please answer the following questions

-Name
-Age
-Location
-What is your experience as a sub?
-What is your best attribute as a sub?
-What do you like most about your body?
-Why do you want to be my sub?

I hope to hear from you soon!
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Old 08-10-2023, 11:41 AM   #2
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I appreciate it. Really hoping I find the right person!
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Old 09-07-2023, 11:01 AM   #4
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Still looking, please feel free to message if you think that we might be a good match!
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