Questions about begging

[Simi]

I know I am not that good at begging, but it's hard to know what makes sense to say and that is where these questions come in.

Feel free to only answer relevant questions. Some will be more for doms and others more for subs. If you want to expand on any points please go ahead, stories or understanding why can be interesting.

And as always thank you in advance for answering

More submissive questions:

Do you like being made to beg?

How does it make you feel?

What was the last thing you begged for

What are your favourite things have you been made to beg for?

Do you more often beg on your own, or need to be told to, or both. Which do you prefer?

Have you been at a stage where you couldn’t help begging/pleading? What happened?

Do you think you can beg well?

Do you want to learn to beg better?

Do you have any tips/guides for begging?

Imagine your dom was offering you something you really wanted… beg for it here:
(Demonstrate your begging, you can beg for an orgasm/strawberry cheesecake/whatever. I don’t mind. Just show off your best begging attempt)


More Dominant questions:

What was your favourite time someone begged you? Why?

What do you enjoy making subs beg for?

Do you prefer to order someone to beg, or do you enjoy more spontaneous pleading?

What do you like to hear from someone begging you?

Do you enjoy the sub trying to bargain during it?

If you enjoy humiliating subs when they beg… What was the most amusing outcome?

Do you ever make someone beg, while you know you still will say no?

What was the most sexy/subby thing someone did during begging? What were they asking for?

Do you have any tips for subs when begging?

[pluky]

Do you like being made to beg? I don't really love it but it can make me feel subby

How does it make you feel? Well, subby, but also usually desperate and unsure if it's wanted or annoying

What was the last thing you begged for? Being allowed to touch and cum

What are your favourite things have you been made to beg for? Begging for mercy during pain stuff

Do you more often beg on your own, or need to be told to, or both. Which do you prefer? I get anxious about whether I'm being annoying if I do it on my own and if my Dom would rather see me accept his decision rather than not letting it go, so I like being told so that I know it's desired and not annoying

Have you been at a stage where you couldn’t help begging/pleading? What happened? All the time, when I really want to cum and when Sir is mad at me and I beg for forgiveness

Do you think you can beg well? I don't know but I usually get what I want so maybe I'm just that annoying

Do you want to learn to beg better? It's always good to learn and get better at anything

Do you have any tips/guides for begging? No, I'm just being spontaneous, I beg because I am that desperate for the thing that I am begging for I don't even know what it comes across

[vibratoruser]

Do you like being made to beg?
Very.
How does it make you feel?
Submissive, humiliated, vulnerable, powerless.
What was the last thing you begged for
I think it had to do with a punishment, but I don't remember.
What are your favourite things have you been made to beg for?
I love having to beg to be degraded, or to be allowed to do something humiliating. That just doubles the humiliation.
Do you more often beg on your own, or need to be told to, or both. Which do you prefer?
Depends on the setting and my mood. If I'm being bratty, I'm clearly looking to be made to beg. But usually, I beg on my own tbh.
Have you been at a stage where you couldn’t help begging/pleading? What happened?
Quite often, yes. Can't list them all haha.
Do you think you can beg well?
I mean it works unless my dom doesn't want it to...
Do you want to learn to beg better?
Don't think so - it's a learning by doing experience anyways.
Do you have any tips/guides for begging?
Learn by doing. Ask a dom what they like when begging, maybe.
Imagine your dom was offering you something you really wanted… beg for it here:
I don't think that can really be transcribed. There's also definitely more than words that goes into begging, it's about body language and many other things.

[kittyknot]

Do you like being made to beg?
-> yes. it puts me in my place.

How does it make you feel?
-> lowly. Like I'm beneath someone.

What was the last thing you begged for?
-> to cum.

What are your favourite things have you been made to beg for?
-> Master's cock, Master's cum, to be fucked, to cum, ect...

Do you more often beg on your own, or need to be told to, or both. Which do you prefer?
-> both. I beg on my own when desperate enough, and am told to beg for things I want. I prefer to be forced to beg, it makes me feel like I'm put in my place.

Have you been at a stage where you couldn’t help begging/pleading? What happened?
-> my Master has been ruining my orgasms a lot lately,I was so sexually frustrated that I couldn't take it and just begged like crazy to cum. I was on my hands and knees groveling at his feet, begging to cum.

Do you think you can beg well?
-> I think I can beg pretty well. Always room for improvement.

Do you want to learn to beg better?
-> I want to learn how to beg desperately.

Do you have any tips/guides for begging?
-> if you want it badly, get on your knees.

[Jolly*FtM]

Do you like being made to beg?
It really depends on my mood and what to beg for. But I generally don't like it that much, but I understand that many Doms are totally into it.

How does it make you feel?
This can vary greatly from annoyed to uncomfortable or humiliated.

What was the last thing you begged for
I'm not entirely sure, but I think I had to beg for an orgasm.

What are your favourite things have you been made to beg for?
Depending on the context, but I think orgasm and punishment come first for me

Do you more often beg on your own, or need to be told to, or both. Which do you prefer?
As far as I'm concerned, I wouldn't or never beg, only if I was asked or forced to. Of course, I prefer to be forced.

Have you been at a stage where you couldn’t help begging/pleading? What happened?
Yes, if I can't go to the toilet and have to use the toilet, or if I have to wear a plug or something similar for a long time and can't stand it any longer

Do you think you can beg well?
Probably not, but I think it also has a lot to do with the fact that English is not my mother tongue and so from my perspective it always sounds wooden and artificial

Do you want to learn to beg better?
In any case, I think this is something that makes many Doms very happy.

Do you have any tips/guides for begging?
I'm probably not an expert.

[DahliaOnGetDare]

More submissive questions:

Do you like being made to beg?
no
How does it make you feel?
really subby and humiliated
What was the last thing you begged for
to be fucked harder
What are your favourite things have you been made to beg for?
more spanks, less punishment
Do you more often beg on your own, or need to be told to, or both. Which do you prefer?
beg on my own, but prefer to be told
Have you been at a stage where you couldn’t help begging/pleading? What happened?
yes, i really wanted to cum (locked in chastity). i wasnt allowed to cum.
Do you think you can beg well?
i dont know tbh
Do you want to learn to beg better?
yes
Do you have any tips/guides for begging?
no
Imagine your dom was offering you something you really wanted… beg for it here:
(Demonstrate your begging, you can beg for an orgasm/strawberry cheesecake/whatever. I don’t mind. Just show off your best begging attempt)
*fingers pointing together and blushing emoji* may i please have some cheesecake *pleading eyes*

[StrictSir]

More Dominant questions:

What was your favourite time someone begged you?
A sub repeatedly begging to go the loo on a long train journey, while drinking coffee and orange juice on my instructions. When the sub's begging became desperate, I allowed just 10 seconds of relief, followed by more fluids and begging.
Why?
The physical and psychological reality of the situation, the discomfort and suspense the sub was kept in, the tiny windows of relief granted, the increase of pressure with more fluids... all these made the begging genuine in tone, language, facial expression.

What do you enjoy making subs beg for?
(a) physical relief they desperately want (from discomfort, pain, frustration, etc.)
(b) forgiveness
(c) something they fear or dislike, e.g. near their limits, or something they agreed to when horny but now wish they hadn't (e.g. swallowing cum). Making them beg for such things intensifies their humiliation and fucks their minds.

Do you prefer to order someone to beg, or do you enjoy more spontaneous pleading?
For relief and particularly forgiveness, I generally prefer spontaneous pleading because it's more likely to be genuine, voluntary or at least a sign that a long-term sub knows what I expect.

What do you like to hear from someone begging you?
Respect, authenticity, creativity, self-abasement, desperation, perhaps a little weeping within the right context. (And if possible, a kneeling sub who makes eye contact with me while begging.)

Do you enjoy the sub trying to bargain during it?
When the sub wants physical relief, it can be amusing to hear what will be offered to obtain it. But even if the sub offers something significantly new or extra in return, I'll usually make a tougher counter-offer, giving the sub a hard choice predicament, which is amusing in itself.

If you enjoy humiliating subs when they beg… What was the most amusing outcome?
The desperate sub on the train rushing to the loo... only to find it engaged.

Do you ever make someone beg, while you know you still will say no?
I rarely know in advance whether I will say yes or no - that increases the suspense for me as well as the sub. It also gives the sub a genuine chance of making the grade. But I enjoy delaying my decision... and perhaps even reversing it.

What was the most sexy/subby thing someone did during begging? What were they asking for?
I can't recall any particular thing; but a combination of details (like a pleading look in the sub's eyes) can be really hot. In general, I believe, "'Tain't what you do, it's the way that you do it."

Do you have any tips for subs when begging?
Be persuasive and creative in your language, tone, expressions and actions (even if you're having to beg for something you don't want) without resorting to false dramatics. Respect your Dom's personal protocols, be sure to express gratitude if successful. But accept that the final decision is not yours and don't feel resentful if your begging fails. Just do better the next time!

[malykotek]

• Do you like being made to beg?
Yes but it mostly depends on my mood

• How does it make you feel?
Humiliated, powerless, submissive

• What was the last thing you begged for
I wasn't able to complete the dare, so begged for a punishment for failing.

• What are your favourite things have you been made to beg for?
Using a toilet, putting on diapers or changing them.
Begging for forgiveness for failing
Also being forced to beg for something what I don't want is even more funny humiliating.

• Do you more often beg on your own, or need to be told to, or both. Which do you prefer?
Both but I prefer to be told to. Being told to beg is more humiliating.

• Have you been at a stage where you couldn’t help begging/pleading? What happened?
Yes. I had to ask for permission to use a toilet and needed it at work

• Do you think you can beg well?
Maybe but not enough

Do you want to learn to beg better?
Yes

• Do you have any tips/guides for begging?
Don't forget to thank the dom for their decision even if you don't get what you wanted. They answered your question, you should be grateful for their attention.