Over half of my D/s relationships have taken place, largely online, so I am used to having the challenge of working with different time zones. I have successfully dealt with differences as little as 1 hour and up to 18 hours.

It is manageable if you have compatabile schedules and work together to overcome some of the challenges. However, there are some serious disadvantages at time.

One of the biggest disadvantages is that I am sometimes I have to sleep (albeit some people...

So in typical new year fashion I have decided on making it my goal to get back into shape and lose some weight. One injury followed by a pandemic equals the need to get back into shape!

I joined a new gym and talked with a trainer about a nutrition plan! So i thought the next step was accountability and why not have some fun with that! I decided that blogging here and maybe having some rules and incentives here would help with my journey!

I will chart here weekly about...

WAND X - I'll hold my wand against my clit for up to fifteen minutes
GAG X - I'll gag myself with your choice of gag for up to an hour
EDGE X - I'll edge up to a max of twenty times
NOT QUITE - I'll come close to the edge then stop before I reach it up to thirty times
FORCE X - I'll make myself cum up to five times in one session (on hold until my denial is finished, but sending these will stack them to complete together after denial ends)
VACUUM X - I'll suction my...

Likes

gags (especially long term)
suction
pain
sensory deprivation
overstimulation
orgasm denial
edging
forced orgasms
being controlled
stacked odds
having something in all three holes
verbal humiliation, name calling
bondage
anal
nipple torture
clit torture

Limits

piss
scat
vomit
blood
messy
wedgies
ass to mouth...

2020 was a heck of a year for all of all...in different ways with different challenges, for all that survived it we can consider ourselves warriors or extremely lucky!

For me the year started with me coming out of a haze, rebuilding a life and soul that had been broken.

I spent time with friends, going out and socialising, climbing and exercising, dealing with a certain Toxic Ex in the office...

The beginning of the year brought my first taste of travel for...

The last minutes of 2020 had me submerged in pleasure, swept away by one orgasm after another. The first day of 2021 brings a new promise—a year of denial.

When I joined getDare in October, kink was mostly about anal fun and the pleasure of pain—spanking, clamps, the idea of giving someone the power to hurt me and love it. I rarely went more than two days without an orgasm. On lazy days, I used to have more than one over the course of a day. Pleasure was uninhibited. When I submitted...

In my last blog post I told my coming out story. I came out as a crossdresser to my partner of 2 years and surprised to say its been a weird few days for the 2 of us.

The past few days have been full of emotion for both of us, there have been so many questions and I have tried to answer all of them as truthfully as I can.

My partner is still very confused and has been very truthful in saying that she's not completely comfortable with the idea.

Her first 3...