In my vast, worldly travels, I've realized that there are different types of verbal humiliation. There are more than I'm going to talk about, but I've only dealt with these two.

Degrading Humiliation: Slut*, whore, bitch, not good enough, pathetic, worthless, ect.
"Is this really turning you on you disgusting cunt? God, you're not even worth my time."

Condescending Humiliation: Sweetie, sweetheart, adorable, so cute, honey, ect.
"Aw, is something...

So, recently I've discovered that a lot of people (mostly doms, but some subs as well) don't think they can be a good dom unless they have enough money to buy their partner things.

Not saying that everyone feels this way, and you definitely shouldn't, but I know a lot of doms that have felt almost pressed into buying things for their subs. So, anyone struggling financially can sometimes feel as though they aren't good enough doms.

This. Is. Bullshit.

Let me...

If I hurry, I can finish this before IceMaiden posts her version. Take that!

Now, I talk about this in my How to be a Brat post, but this is more advice on how to dominate a brat, from a brat's perspective.

For simplicity, I won't write my advice as vague, in my opinion sorta things. I'm going to essentially talk about how I like being dominated and you can use that as a comparison for how you dominate others.

So, disclaimer: These are my opinions and are...

One thing I've discovered about myself is that I view any sort of a authority figure as being higher up than I am.

This can include:

• Parents
• Teachers
• Boss
• gD Staff
• Coaches
• Doms
• Anyone with more experience than me (especially if they are older)

And I have learned that believing I have disappointed, upset, or angered anyone I view as an authority figure truly upsets me.

I know some of you might say that no one likes upsetting an authority figure, and not to make...

So, as I've begun to grow and mature, I realized that I was attracted to women, but I also liked boys. Guess who was trying to figure out their sexuality at fourteen! Me.

Some of you might be thinking, But techie! I thought you were a lesbian. In fact, it says so in your signature! and you would be right! I am a lesbian (or well, homoflexible) but when I was fourteen, I thought I was bisexual. It's only recently that I've realized there are so few men I'm attracted to that I classify more...

Safe words are phrases or a single word decided upon in a D/s relationship before a scene starts or any kinky activity is engaged in.

The most typical safe words you might here are Green, Yellow, Red. These are actually the safe words I use. Usually, the usage of these words are universal.
Green: Everything is fine. I'm okay. More.
Yellow: Slow down. Change what we're doing.
Red: Stop. I'm scared. I'm hurt. No more. End the scene. No.

Why not just say...

It really isn't that difficult and this will be a pretty obvious explanation, but whatever.

Some of you know that I enjoy playing with ice, specifically inserting ice into my ass. I've done it so many times it's amazing it even affects me.

A few things you should keep in mind

• Everyone is different
• Anal isn't for everyone, even if it's just ice
• Water will leak out of your ass
• It isn't really an enema, but it can sort of be used as one if you want
• It's cold. Like

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