A random assortment of reports, thoughts, ramblings and information. Pretty much a view inside my wonderfully complicated, sometimes broken, and entertaining mind.
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Posted 08-30-2018 at 10:41 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 08-30-2018 at 11:41 AM by Butterfly
A few years ago, ispuds ran the official getDare Presidential Election. Lola.fox won (by a very slim margin) and became the first getDare president. She has done such a wonderful job that we couldn't possible think of removing her from her position. Instead, I think it is time that getDare elects an official King and Queen!
That's right, I said elects. For getDare is a democracy, and the people of getDare should get to choose their King and Queen.
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Posted 08-30-2018 at 08:32 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 08-30-2018 at 10:51 AM by Butterfly
Mr. Devious and I recently attended a kink convention with some getDare friends. One of the classes that we went to talked about urethra play and how to do it safely. This is something we always been a little intrigued about, but also very intimidated with. We have always said we didn’t think we would ever try because the risks were just too high for us.
However, there was a volunteer demonstration at the class we attended, and after hearing the presenter (who was a nurse) talk about...
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Posted 08-29-2018 at 11:50 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Continued from Part 1 here
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Originally Posted by sciencegal
If given the opportunity, would you want to live a 24/7 lifestyle as a sub/slave (i.e., you would always be in a submissive role to a live-in dominant)? Assume that any financial burdens will be taken care of and not a limiting factor.
My initial reaction to this question would be ‘yes’. This has been a fantasy of mine since I started getting into this whole kink thing. Save for one instance with a professional Domme, I have never experienced real...
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Posted 08-29-2018 at 11:40 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 08-29-2018 at 11:50 AM by Butterfly
For the August writing of the month contest, the theme is collaboration. Jaro and I went back and forth between possible blog topics and couldn't quiet settle one one so we decided to open a new joint AMA and answer some questions here for all to read. Make sure to check out our AMA to read all of our answers and to ask your own if you wish.
We hope you enjoy!!
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Originally Posted by Mr. Devious
]Who (between the 2 of you) could take the most spanks?
Now there’s an interesting question. Assuming...
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Posted 08-26-2018 at 04:48 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Mr. Devious and I recently decided to try a new kink. This mystery kink (which will be revealed in our dual blog for the dare of the month) requires that everything remain as sterile as possible.
So one night last week as we were discussing this new kink, we decided to look around on amazon for sterile lube. The most important part was that the lube came in individual packets.
We found a few different options and decided that in order to save a bit of money we would order...
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Posted 08-23-2018 at 01:44 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 08-23-2018 at 02:06 PM by Butterfly
I want to preface this blog by saying that I respect that everybody has limits. There are many different reasons for somebody to list something as a limit. It may be a mental or physical health thing, it could be that you just hate it, no matter what the reason, it is valid.
However ... I am sick and tired of hearing D types say that they can't or won't do something because they are a Dom/me or top. That is just dumb.
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Posted 08-21-2018 at 10:35 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
I crave submission. I crave giving up control.
When my life is crazy and chaotic, I need to submit in order to keep myself sane. It is my way to let go of everything and just be. To put my trust in somebody else to take care of me, to make me feel safe, to control me.
Lately I haven't had the opportunity to submit too often. Especially over the last month. We went on a two week trip which left us almost constantly surrounded by family (sleeping in my moms living room which...
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