A random assortment of reports, thoughts, ramblings and information. Pretty much a view inside my wonderfully complicated, sometimes broken, and entertaining mind.
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Posted 08-02-2018 at 01:56 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 08-02-2018 at 07:45 PM by Butterfly
One of my bucket list items has been to attend a kink convention. Earlier this year, I was trying to arrange a getDare getTogether with some of my long term getDare friends. When I approached IHeartFun, she suggested that we should all try to meet at a kink convention in Ohio in July. Mr. Devious and I both loved the idea and it didn't take long for us to start planning.
We were all lucky enough to get tickets and a room in the host hotel, so we just had to worry about getting there....
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Posted 07-25-2018 at 01:26 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Well ... our bags are packed and we are ready to go. Our plane leaves in about 10 hours. We have one suitcase full of toys, lingerie, condoms, lube, and of course extra batteries.
Where are we going? Well, a nice family vacation of course! Nah, I am kidding. Well ... kinda ... we are going to visit my mom and family, but first we are going on a very exciting road trip to Ohio.
In Ohio we will be meeting 5 of our getDare friends at a kink convention. So many exciting people...
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Posted 07-24-2018 at 09:00 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
I am a self proclaimed brat! I don't really think that it is a secret. I am proud to be a brat! I tend to get a lot of questions from people about my brattiness. People want to know why I brat or what it is that I do to be bratty. Well this blog is going to help explain! I have asked Icemaiden, the brattiest person I know, to help me as well! Her writing will be in pink and mine is in blue.
THE STIGMA
I think some people see the title “Brat” and they automatically think...
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Posted 07-24-2018 at 09:26 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
I am a big advocate of safewords. I have written previous blogs about them here:
Rainbow of Communication
Safewords in Online Relationships
To summarize, I believe that a safeword should be used in ALL D/s dynamics. I know that some people choose to play without them, but I think they are essential and I do not play with others without having a safeword, and actually I typically have multiple safewords.
That being said, one of the first things that...
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Posted 07-23-2018 at 09:00 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Since my mental health was recently mentioned by a concerned member of this community, I thought I would write this blog to help alleviate any concerns, and maybe shed some light on my mental health and how it effects my D/s relationships.
I am a fairly open person. I have over 320 blogs posted on getDare and they range from kinky reports to romantic/sweet love notes to my husband/Dom. It includes tales of my little adventures, and lists of toys and tasks that I want to do. You can read...
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Posted 07-23-2018 at 11:00 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 07-23-2018 at 11:01 AM by Butterfly
Denial
Jaro has been in denial for over 70 days currently. It is a new record for him and Icemaiden and I are so so proud of him. There is no way that I could imagine being in his position, and I really do think he is the best, and most loyal sub that a Domme could ask for.
We love to tease our worm. We love to tell him that he can't cum until Christmas, but as much as that thought excites us, he really does deserve the occasional release.
On Sunday, Jaro had finally...
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Posted 07-22-2018 at 06:56 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 07-23-2018 at 06:34 PM by Butterfly
The one question I get asked the most about being in a blackmail relationship is:
Will you actually go through with it?
I always tell people YES! But they are skeptical.
The thing is, as much as I care about Jaro, if he deliberately broke our contract, I would be obligated to go through with our blackmail plan.
For those that haven't read our blog about how blackmail works for us, we have a three step plan.
STEP ONE
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