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Join the latest fashion of Promises.
Ever tried one of my fap roulettes?
Did you know about PM dares? A nice and gentle way to start playing here.
You can get a lot of PM dares by sending them in the PM dare bashing game.
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The Fake I am
Quote:Originally Posted by MasterMichaelNYYup, and the real girls wonder about the picture problem on the site. It's bad enough the site has trust issues, but fuck it, just fan the flames for shits and giggles. Thank You.
If you dont ask, while having a possible problem with it, I think you lose all of your rights to feel like someone did you wrong.Posted 03-10-2020 at 02:22 PM by Unidentified -
The Fake I am
I think the picture problem is one that I have come across in some posts... Some Dom's and Masters think you are not a girl at all if you are not willing to give pictures because they think we are all fakes that are actually guys looking for guys to Dom them... Or just doing it to irritate the hell out of Dom's and Masters...
I prefer to use your own term for yourself Dr Cass... No gender specified and reminds a person that professions aren't based on gender either...Posted 03-10-2020 at 02:03 PM by SilvertongueLyra -
The Fake I am
I don't have a good sense of sarcasm and irony, just in case, I might have missed it.
I don't get the link to "the picture problem" you mention. Maybe you can enlighten me. Or just in case you brought up any opinion or arguments, because I didn't get any so far.
Anyway, shits and giggles sounds awesome! And I didn't believe that I had much of a brat in me, until now. Thanks for luring it out with your choice of words.Posted 03-10-2020 at 01:57 PM by CSasha -
The Fake I am
Yup, and the real girls wonder about the picture problem on the site. It's bad enough the site has trust issues, but fuck it, just fan the flames for shits and giggles. Thank You.Posted 03-10-2020 at 01:08 PM by MasterMichaelNY -
How to make friends (and how definitely NOT ;) )
Well, if your a girl all you have to say is. You want to see my tits, friend me.Posted 03-02-2020 at 12:24 PM by MasterMichaelNY -
How to make friends (and how definitely NOT ;) )
Interesting read. I think you make a lot of good points.
Unfortunately the people who need it most are the least likely to read it or learn from it. If someone is willing to spam someone for attention it shows that social etiquette isn't high up there in their priorities. I imagine that they are not looking to make friends and are simply looking for some kind of instant gratification.Posted 03-02-2020 at 07:33 AM by LittleMissSass -
Hello
Thank you! I am really glad I didn't offend you, and you were truly a great help Dr CassPosted 03-01-2020 at 04:35 PM by SilvertongueLyra -
Hello
Hah, I didn't mean you.
Probably most of us are guilty of small things like these. The communication with you was very fine from my perspective, including your first contact.Posted 03-01-2020 at 03:59 PM by CSasha -
Hello
I find myself guilty for this. I did contact you when I had a problem and didn't really get to know you before then. My sincerest apologies for that.
I have since then tried to get to know you through your posts and interactions and it's been amazingly fun and exciting. You are always warm and kind and generous and caring and it's been great.Posted 03-01-2020 at 03:53 PM by SilvertongueLyra -
What name do YOU put on that box?
My pleasure. It's just small compared to your efforts with the list and program/website. You are welcome. Many thanks for your efforts.Posted 02-23-2020 at 06:18 AM by CSasha -
What name do YOU put on that box?
As always: thanks a lot for your help Cass! It is much appreciated!Posted 02-22-2020 at 08:52 PM by Jaro -
What name do YOU put on that box?
Thanks for the plug Cass! I also struggle with labels, but we are hoping to make a tool that is a great starting point for communication. We will also have a list of our own definitions just to help everybody be on the same page, but we all interpret things differently, so it is just a gateway to the land of communication and exploration.Posted 02-22-2020 at 05:57 PM by Butterfly -
What name do YOU put on that box?
I am also opposed to labels in the same way.
"I think therefore I am". Nothing more, nothing less.
That's a GREAT list btw, and I did look through it and all I could think of was "computer 'bondage'". Mainly because I am working on a method of safely locking myself and placing my own restrictions
My latest blog post is all about it.Posted 02-22-2020 at 04:52 PM by RubinPhoxx -
Posted 02-07-2020 at 12:10 PM by Jaro -
Welcome to getDare 2020
Many many thanks.
I suppose I might need to update that questionaire link somewhere in the future.Posted 02-07-2020 at 10:41 AM by CSasha -
Welcome to getDare 2020
If it isn't Dr. Cass from the welcoming comittee. I think you provide great help to people with these kinds of blogs.
And thank you for including my questionnaire!Posted 02-07-2020 at 10:39 AM by Jaro -
Posted 02-07-2020 at 09:44 AM by SilvertongueLyra -
Dr. Cass replies: What am I doing wrong?
Quote:Many thanks. I think we got better guides for uninitiated like this one from Butterfly. I also wrote one some time ago. I am tempted to write a new one. But I also think there are plenty more of them out there.
What we need is spread the link to new users when we see them struggle with anything for these reasons, like writing us a random PM for instance. It's in our interests to keep new users and educate them how to behave in their best interest, how to get along on getDare.Posted 02-06-2020 at 03:20 PM by SilvertongueLyra -
Dr. Cass replies: What am I doing wrong?
Many thanks. I think we got better guides for uninitiated like this one from Butterfly. I also wrote one some time ago. I am tempted to write a new one. But I also think there are plenty more of them out there.
What we need is spread the link to new users when we see them struggle with anything for these reasons, like writing us a random PM for instance. It's in our interests to keep new users and educate them how to behave in their best interest, how to get along on getDare.Posted 02-06-2020 at 02:46 AM by CSasha -
Dr. Cass replies: What am I doing wrong?
Well said! This should be a guide to GetDare for the uninitiated.Posted 02-06-2020 at 01:33 AM by SilvertongueLyra -
Dr. Cass replies: What am I doing wrong?
wow thank you for that. I agree.Posted 02-05-2020 at 05:24 PM by shyguysub -
Current rules and playtime balance
Oral. He didn't specifiy much. But, since he hasn't even logged in for 3 days, I dropped all that. It was wonderful while he was taking care.Posted 02-05-2020 at 03:03 AM by CSasha -
Current rules and playtime balance
Looks like someone's having fun! What kinds of actions do you have to perform to get credit for Oral Time?Posted 02-04-2020 at 09:28 PM by SilverSwitch -
Posted 02-01-2020 at 01:36 PM by CSasha -
General (re)view on chastity devices
Very good to here that, Jaro. Is the holytrainer a help for you to stay chaste? If yes, then how much? Could it or is it a solution to not wear it at night? Do you enjoy wearing it?
You are right about the erections as well. It might even add to the joy of it.Posted 02-01-2020 at 01:32 PM by CSasha