Do you make your Sub cry ?

pluky · 03-13-2024, 08:17 AM

Intentionally or unintentionally. I'm just wondering how common it is in people's dynamics.

BiEmily · 03-16-2024, 12:42 AM

I cry quite a bit lately. It's due to my prolonged orgasm denial and frustration so nothing too serious~

pluky · 03-16-2024, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by BiEmily

I cry quite a bit lately. It's due to my prolonged orgasm denial and frustration so nothing too serious~

So I'm not the only one who feels this kinda orgasm control affects me emotionally. Never "being on edge" was so true.

footlover.london · 03-16-2024, 12:48 AM

Wow….getting to a point of crying is tough. Though I’ve never been in a real life long term position like that so can imagine some extreme frustration and disappointment coming over like this

Aneri · 03-16-2024, 12:03 PM

I do cry with their kind word towards me not from task or punishment...
Master is kind to when I feel sad... He always cheers me with words so sometimes I cry bcz very less people say kind words to me. Even though it's just GD relation still be is so best and kind

littleraisin · 03-16-2024, 01:34 PM

I'm sensitive and my Mistress loves making me cry both happy tears and tears from tasks or punishments.

Simi · 03-16-2024, 04:31 PM

As a dom I don't really want to be causing that unless its a cathartic release. That said if someone tells me they want me to make them cry I am happy to through pain/humiliation but its only a direction i would do if the sub wants it.

As a sub, it happens sometimes when i am with my Owner when we are being pretty intense but its normally a good thing/release. Also i am a wreck when i get complimented but that's me in general.

Never had denial get me to a point of tears, done 11 months before and currently on over half a year of ruined/interrupted/numb orgasms without receiving a full orgasm (hypnotically triggered/effects, its weird and I am happy to explain but its a bit of a tangent)

TimFords · 03-16-2024, 06:52 PM

I don't want my sub reduced to tears in a negative way. (Tears of happiness, and a little eye-watering from pain or endurance are ok, of course).

I'm quite protective of my subs. They've given up their power to me, but having that power is also a responsibility, not an exploit. Being a good dom is more than just being an asshole.

Sure I might push boundaries, edge them for weeks without release, put them in embarrassing predicaments, or stick large things in every hole while they're risking public display. But you can bet I'm thinking about keeping them safe while do so (emotionally and physically).

Plus, sex play should be enjoyable for everyone involved. So communication in advance is probably the key. Some people want to be dehumanised in the extreme... others just want to be told what to do for an hour. But if some type of humiliation-play is actually damaging the sub emotionally, I'd prefer to do something else.

Agni_Roop · 03-16-2024, 07:11 PM

Sadist - I like to break her and watch her sob, helplessly begging for my mercy as I sit back and watch her soul melt away in her tears.

Daddy Dom - When she's having a tough time, I would like to have her lay her head on my chest and cry it out as I pamper her and make her feel protected and cherished as if she's the most precious thing in the world to me.

Garry0993 · 03-16-2024, 08:14 PM

I enjoyed making my past sub cry only when 1) they would like it and suggested themselves; 2) its a involuntary reaction from the play such as impact play which are in the perfectly tolerable range and not remotely close to their limit. 3) from mental aspect of the frustration caused by edging and denial.

Like someone mentioned above, it is okay in my mind to make them cry for cathartic release.

But I am not interested, nor have I tried to make them cry because of bad treatment or injustices. There are quite a bit difference.

Pet Ra · 03-17-2024, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by pluky

So I'm not the only one who feels this kinda orgasm control affects me emotionally. Never "being on edge" was so true.

Good to see that I'm not the only one as well

But my Owners want a happy sub so mostly I shed some happy tears because something is so nice

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Quite often, they are sensitive	2	7.69%
Quite often, I can be too harsh	1	3.85%
Every so often	11	42.31%
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03-13-2024, 08:17 AM	#1
pluky getDare Devil Join Date: Aug 2022 Posts: 1,037 Blog Entries: 90	Do you make your Sub cry ? Intentionally or unintentionally. I'm just wondering how common it is in people's dynamics. __________________ Disclaimer : a message that you send me can be seen by Sir at any point unless you stated otherwise or obviously contains sensitive or personal data. About kik games : I don't want people who don't have a GD account to contact me for kik games which are aimed at the users of this site. Also, I do not respond to accounts that aren't at least as old as mine. 29 F Likes, Dislikes, Limits.

03-16-2024, 12:42 AM	#2
BiEmily getDare Addict Join Date: Jul 2018 Posts: 2,177 Blog Entries: 4	I cry quite a bit lately. It's due to my prolonged orgasm denial and frustration so nothing too serious~ __________________ 28/Female/'Bisexual' Likes & Limits PM Dares Clothes Edging Thread Subscription Link Last orgasm: Dec. 17, 2023 Send me edge-material

03-16-2024, 12:48 AM	#4
footlover.london Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: UK Posts: 6,772 Blog Entries: 3	Wow….getting to a point of crying is tough. Though I’ve never been in a real life long term position like that so can imagine some extreme frustration and disappointment coming over like this __________________ I’m a Pussyfree Beta Slut 37m Denied Sub Kik - footlover.london Add to my 2024 denial challenge here Last orgasm: 26 Mar 2024 Orgasms in 2024: 7/22 (was 25) Total 2024 edges: 3,801. Love: Feet, humiliation, denial, edging, messy Interests: Dares, sissy, cum eating, sph, cam Dislike: Pain, piss, anal Limits: public, hard pain, scat, illegal My PM Dares

03-16-2024, 12:03 PM	#5
Aneri Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2023 Posts: 20 Blog Entries: 2	I do cry with their kind word towards me not from task or punishment... Master is kind to when I feel sad... He always cheers me with words so sometimes I cry bcz very less people say kind words to me. Even though it's just GD relation still be is so best and kind __________________ PMDARE RULES Edges to do - 8/215 Limits - anal play, no videos and pictures, public display, pee poop play Likes - pain, torture, humiliation, bondage, corner time, spanking Tools - clamps, clothe clips, hair clip, rubber band, wooden and plastic sticks, thick and thin belt, hair brush, ropes, USB cord mobile and laptop, ruler, wooden paddle, rubber pipe

03-16-2024, 01:34 PM	#6
littleraisin getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: European Union Posts: 278 Blog Entries: 3	I'm sensitive and my Mistress loves making me cry both happy tears and tears from tasks or punishments. __________________ 27 Years old, EU. Likes: Bladder control, Nudity(hidden), CBT, Pet Play, Cum(as in eating/drinking), spanking, extreme pain Will do(don’t like nor dislike): Semi-Public, lines Dislikes: Anal, Messy Limits: Needles, Involving Family/Friends, Wetting, Permanent, food and blood. Don't be nice, treat it like an object. That's what it is.

03-16-2024, 04:31 PM	#7
Simi Moderator Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 3,017 Blog Entries: 6	As a dom I don't really want to be causing that unless its a cathartic release. That said if someone tells me they want me to make them cry I am happy to through pain/humiliation but its only a direction i would do if the sub wants it. As a sub, it happens sometimes when i am with my Owner when we are being pretty intense but its normally a good thing/release. Also i am a wreck when i get complimented but that's me in general. Never had denial get me to a point of tears, done 11 months before and currently on over half a year of ruined/interrupted/numb orgasms without receiving a full orgasm (hypnotically triggered/effects, its weird and I am happy to explain but its a bit of a tangent) __________________ 30 year old, British,Female, Pan, Ace, Switch, a Proud Puppy Owner and an Owned Piggy Come join our free Getdare Minecraft Server! More players are always welcome! Want to be interrogated? Assorted questionnaire links! Fancy a pounding from a piggy? Check out my anal stretching dice dare! Training Threads: Fantasised about being hypnotised and trained? Visit the Hypnosis Training Advice thread! Become a piss slut at the Piss drinking Academy About me, and likes/limits My bdsm test Torment a Piggy (Pm Dares)

03-16-2024, 06:52 PM	#8
TimFords Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2022 Location: Australia Posts: 9	I don't want my sub reduced to tears in a negative way. (Tears of happiness, and a little eye-watering from pain or endurance are ok, of course). I'm quite protective of my subs. They've given up their power to me, but having that power is also a responsibility, not an exploit. Being a good dom is more than just being an asshole. Sure I might push boundaries, edge them for weeks without release, put them in embarrassing predicaments, or stick large things in every hole while they're risking public display. But you can bet I'm thinking about keeping them safe while do so (emotionally and physically). Plus, sex play should be enjoyable for everyone involved. So communication in advance is probably the key. Some people want to be dehumanised in the extreme... others just want to be told what to do for an hour. But if some type of humiliation-play is actually damaging the sub emotionally, I'd prefer to do something else. __________________ 39 / M / Australia Kik: ThrowMeFar14 Easy going aussie guy, enjoy a bit of banter and I don't take things too seriously. Dare-play should be fun! Into: being a 'dare master', edging, denial, dice, cmnm, ruined orgasms, mild risk/public, short term exposure, sph (but generally good natured, not abusive). Not Into: ABDL, mess, crossdressing, body-writing, pup play. Limits: face, pain, blackmail, scat/piss, illegal, permanent, degradation, social suicide.

03-16-2024, 07:11 PM	#9
Agni_Roop Junior Member Join Date: May 2019 Location: India Posts: 10 Blog Entries: 8	Sadist - I like to break her and watch her sob, helplessly begging for my mercy as I sit back and watch her soul melt away in her tears. Daddy Dom - When she's having a tough time, I would like to have her lay her head on my chest and cry it out as I pamper her and make her feel protected and cherished as if she's the most precious thing in the world to me. __________________ 32/Male (Straight)/Master Likes: Spanking, discipline, physical and verbal humiliation, degradation, nipple/breast torture, clit torture, ice play, wax, light bondage, watersports, discreet public, micromanagement, DD/lg Limits: Scat, blood, permanent damage, extreme pain or torture

03-16-2024, 08:14 PM	#10
Garry0993 getDare Devil Join Date: Apr 2020 Location: USA Posts: 1,318 Blog Entries: 3	I enjoyed making my past sub cry only when 1) they would like it and suggested themselves; 2) its a involuntary reaction from the play such as impact play which are in the perfectly tolerable range and not remotely close to their limit. 3) from mental aspect of the frustration caused by edging and denial. Like someone mentioned above, it is okay in my mind to make them cry for cathartic release. But I am not interested, nor have I tried to make them cry because of bad treatment or injustices. There are quite a bit difference. __________________ 30 M Straight Asian Dom My kinks and limits What to expect if you want to play with me? Looking for my sub girl. Want a punishment or test your luck? Feel free to send me a pm as long as you find me interesting, whether be my posts or just about me lol. Chats are always welcome!! Looking forward to hear from you!