what do you do when your stressed or crying

princessjessie · 08-08-2011, 01:06 AM

recently i have been quite emotional and have cried alot tbh and i found a good way to make myself feel better is to make something like an avatar or whatever and today i was wondering what other people do when they get upset. just for my interest really and i might also find another why to help myself when im down.

please dont start calling me things cos i get upset i want some help x

think this should go in the advice section but not sure so can you please move it if wrong, thanks x

yours_slave · 08-08-2011, 01:34 AM

I don't know if this will help you. But for me, this works.

I usually help out people (online or offline) when I'm stressed out. There are many people like us who are stressed out, need a chat or even worse, need to cum (As you are underage and as your female, I strongly suggest you to not to help with people in that case). lol

So I'm helping out them by any mean they want so they can have some sort of relief. When I feel they are not stressed anymore that helps me to relieve my stress. Thinking about I make some people happy and thinking about I make their day, makes me happy.

It depends on the person. But talking nicely with someone really helps me to get over from stressed out situation.

Do not forget there are many people out there who are stressed out. Help them, talk nicely, never ever let someone down. It will help you to overcome the situation and I wish you will never face with such a situation again!

Wish you all the best and take care!

yours_slave · 08-08-2011, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by princessjessie

recently i have been quite emotional and have cried alot tbh and i found a good way to make myself feel better is to make something like an avatar or whatever and today i was wondering what other people do when they get upset.

Creating avatars, playing games, watching movies/cartoons etc. all will help you temporary. There is a chance that in a matter of time, you will stress out again. You will forget about movies, games you played and avatars.

But if you help someone it will remain in your heart forever...

Try to make someone happy and it's a kind of permanent happiness. Even if you stress out again, you can get over that situation by thinking about that.

Star Shadows · 08-08-2011, 02:36 AM

I agree with yourslave to an extent with the helping people thing, I find it really theraputic and rewarding to help people when I'm stressed. It has got me through a lot of hard times. It doesn't work for everyone tho. It's harder to find a long term relief but i'll be there for you as much as I cam when I back home xx promise

Blackjack · 08-08-2011, 02:44 AM

I end up doing exercise of some sort when upset like going for a run or to the gym. Good way to clear head I think!

Hope you feel better soon!

Rogue · 08-08-2011, 03:16 AM

Some things I enjoy doing when I am upset is watching a funny and enjoyable movie while snuggled in my blanket and slurping on hot chocolate.Sometimes I will listen to motivating songs that help me feel better afterwards.Taking a nice walk along the beach is refreshing too (especially with an ice cream afterwards)

Hope you feel better soon Jessie
x

rhode64 · 08-08-2011, 03:45 AM

I wander off on my own some where away from people to have a good cry .Problem with that ,is because no one is around ,I have tried suicide 3 times pity is I am still here .I suffer badly with depression .

yours_slave · 08-08-2011, 03:54 AM

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Originally Posted by rhode64

I wander off on my own some where away from people to have a good cry .Problem with that ,is because no one is around ,I have tried suicide 3 times pity is I am still here .I suffer badly with depression .

Oh my god! Never even think about commit suicide again. Please!!!

Do some meditations or yoga. Don't even think about loosing your life. Your life may not value to you. But I'm sure you are a nice person and there are people care about you.

Asmodeus · 08-08-2011, 04:11 AM

Most times if I am really sad, watching "Mary Poppins" the disney movie always helps me. (sounds a bit strange if you look at my avatar but thats how it is

)

If I am stressed I listen to ska-punk music, like "Reel Big Fish". The fast rythm and the trumpets always make my mood a lot better and helps to overcome the stress.

Rachie · 08-08-2011, 04:33 AM

It realy depends what the problems are.

Sometimes i will just switch down (so to speak), or try to do something to take my mind off things, think happy thoughts, what positives their are in life, what is coming up to look forward to etc.

Another thing i do is call a friend, or family member. I often try to chat about it, sometimes with close friends on here, but sometimes find it hard, as don't want to involve others and make them worry.

But it really depends what i'm stressed about. Other things include; watching a happy film, colouring, making something, looking through catelogues, making christmas list, silly rhymes.

Spoiler:

Two kisses for jessie
Two hugs for me

Two hours ago
I went for a wee

As i say silly but cheers me up

If you ever need to talk about anything you know where i am, and always willing to listen (similar to becca).

Love Rachie
x x x

Blank · 08-08-2011, 04:39 AM

When im upset, I tend to just listen to linkin park or talk to people I care about, I dunno why you get upset jessie, but Ill be here for you if you ever need a friend I promise =) also have a song from me =D http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MsJ9EIbDjg8

CollaredBlondie · 08-08-2011, 07:25 AM

I let it all out and then indulge in my favourite activities; reading, writing, journalling, watching my favourite tv shows, listening to my favourite music, to make me feel better. Failing that, I go and have a nap.

It may sound selfish but I don't really care, but, if I'm unhappy I'm not going to be in the right mindset to help anyone else, not properly, so I don't. I'd probably do more harm than good.

Feel better Jessie

Blondie

XxxXxxX

yours_slave · 08-08-2011, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by CollaredBlondie

It may sound selfish but I don't really care, but, if I'm unhappy I'm not going to be in the right mindset to help anyone else, not properly, so I don't. I'd probably do more harm than good.

XxxXxxX

No it's not selfish CB. It depends on the person. Personally, for me, that works. It may not work for some other person.

hornyj · 08-08-2011, 10:29 AM

Usually when I'm stressed out I play the piano and/or sing. I find playing/making music really helps forget about anything I'm stressed or upset about. Often making a song about what you're upset about helps too, even if you're not a good song writer, like me, but it does help.

If not this/or as well as I usually make myself cry. I'm the sort of person that seldom cries so when I'm all alone and it's quiet I just let it all out. Sometimes I do this even when I'm not stressed or upset and for me it keeps me calm and it's kinda relaxing.

Also I'll do a bit of character acting and just make up a monologue to myself which helps get emotions out in a different way, but that's just me because I love acting. Just find something you enjoy doing and use it to take you're mind off everything or like I do use it to cry more, which for me personally helps.

Dark_Delight · 08-08-2011, 10:39 AM

Whipping, tit twisting and spanking a submissive always helps me de-stress and most of them like it, it even de-stresses some of them.

08-08-2011, 01:06 AM	#1
princessjessie Distinguished Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 968 Blog Entries: 1	what do you do when your stressed or crying recently i have been quite emotional and have cried alot tbh and i found a good way to make myself feel better is to make something like an avatar or whatever and today i was wondering what other people do when they get upset. just for my interest really and i might also find another why to help myself when im down. please dont start calling me things cos i get upset i want some help x think this should go in the advice section but not sure so can you please move it if wrong, thanks x __________________ Hiya, im Jessie 26/female/uk

08-08-2011, 02:36 AM	#4
Star Shadows Prodigy Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 4,707 Blog Entries: 13	I agree with yourslave to an extent with the helping people thing, I find it really theraputic and rewarding to help people when I'm stressed. It has got me through a lot of hard times. It doesn't work for everyone tho. It's harder to find a long term relief but i'll be there for you as much as I cam when I back home xx promise __________________ Do not ask me for to be your slave, your mistress, or to give you truths or dares. You're wasting your time. Informative threads: Anonymous S/M advice service Threads of note PM MEGET S/M ADVICE WORSHIPS RACHIE**

08-08-2011, 03:45 AM	#7
rhode64 getDare Patriot Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: England south coast Posts: 3,043 Blog Entries: 3	wander I wander off on my own some where away from people to have a good cry .Problem with that ,is because no one is around ,I have tried suicide 3 times pity is I am still here .I suffer badly with depression .

08-08-2011, 04:33 AM	#10
Rachie I am the cutest butterfly ever Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: In my Bed, Posts: 6,606 Blog Entries: 2	It realy depends what the problems are. Sometimes i will just switch down (so to speak), or try to do something to take my mind off things, think happy thoughts, what positives their are in life, what is coming up to look forward to etc. Another thing i do is call a friend, or family member. I often try to chat about it, sometimes with close friends on here, but sometimes find it hard, as don't want to involve others and make them worry. But it really depends what i'm stressed about. Other things include; watching a happy film, colouring, making something, looking through catelogues, making christmas list, silly rhymes. Spoiler: Two kisses for jessie Two hugs for me Two hours ago I went for a wee As i say silly but cheers me up If you ever need to talk about anything you know where i am, and always willing to listen (similar to becca). Love Rachie x x x __________________ RACHIE'S GETDARE USER GUIDE / MANUAL STRIP POKER WITH A TWIST (Story) BED HABITS LOLA.FOX WISHES SHE WAS MY FAVORITE USER <3

08-08-2011, 04:39 AM	#11
Blank Account Banned Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 410 Blog Entries: 3	When im upset, I tend to just listen to linkin park or talk to people I care about, I dunno why you get upset jessie, but Ill be here for you if you ever need a friend I promise =) also have a song from me =D http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MsJ9EIbDjg8 __________________ [SIGPIC]http://www.getdare.com/bbs/images/u_pics/sigpic/sigpic18319_4.gif[/SIGPIC]I like Turtles ;D

08-08-2011, 01:34 AM	#2
yours_slave Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: In your dreams Posts: 934	I don't know if this will help you. But for me, this works. I usually help out people (online or offline) when I'm stressed out. There are many people like us who are stressed out, need a chat or even worse, need to cum (As you are underage and as your female, I strongly suggest you to not to help with people in that case). lol So I'm helping out them by any mean they want so they can have some sort of relief. When I feel they are not stressed anymore that helps me to relieve my stress. Thinking about I make some people happy and thinking about I make their day, makes me happy. It depends on the person. But talking nicely with someone really helps me to get over from stressed out situation. Do not forget there are many people out there who are stressed out. Help them, talk nicely, never ever let someone down. It will help you to overcome the situation and I wish you will never face with such a situation again! Wish you all the best and take care!

08-08-2011, 02:44 AM	#5
Blackjack Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 225	I end up doing exercise of some sort when upset like going for a run or to the gym. Good way to clear head I think! Hope you feel better soon!

08-08-2011, 03:16 AM	#6
Rogue Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: UK Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 4	Some things I enjoy doing when I am upset is watching a funny and enjoyable movie while snuggled in my blanket and slurping on hot chocolate.Sometimes I will listen to motivating songs that help me feel better afterwards.Taking a nice walk along the beach is refreshing too (especially with an ice cream afterwards) Hope you feel better soon Jessie x

08-08-2011, 04:11 AM	#9
Asmodeus Junior Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Germany Posts: 26	Most times if I am really sad, watching "Mary Poppins" the disney movie always helps me. (sounds a bit strange if you look at my avatar but thats how it is ) If I am stressed I listen to ska-punk music, like "Reel Big Fish". The fast rythm and the trumpets always make my mood a lot better and helps to overcome the stress.

08-08-2011, 10:29 AM	#14
hornyj Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: south england Posts: 106 Blog Entries: 1	Usually when I'm stressed out I play the piano and/or sing. I find playing/making music really helps forget about anything I'm stressed or upset about. Often making a song about what you're upset about helps too, even if you're not a good song writer, like me, but it does help. If not this/or as well as I usually make myself cry. I'm the sort of person that seldom cries so when I'm all alone and it's quiet I just let it all out. Sometimes I do this even when I'm not stressed or upset and for me it keeps me calm and it's kinda relaxing. Also I'll do a bit of character acting and just make up a monologue to myself which helps get emotions out in a different way, but that's just me because I love acting. Just find something you enjoy doing and use it to take you're mind off everything or like I do use it to cry more, which for me personally helps. __________________ pm me, add me on msn ([email protected]), Really I don't bite... but I do ocassionally have an unconscious nibble

08-08-2011, 10:39 AM	#15
Dark_Delight Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 190	Whipping, tit twisting and spanking a submissive always helps me de-stress and most of them like it, it even de-stresses some of them. __________________ I'm the demon