Coming Out (gay,bisexual,lesbian)

jaredlowrie · 10-10-2010, 10:10 PM

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian?
2.How did your parents react when you came out to them?
3.How old were you when u came out?
4.Did you tell friends before your parents?
5.Are you happy you came out to your parents?
6. If you havn't come out yet then why?

1.Im a bisexual guy
2.They reacted pretty well at first until they found out i told some of my friends already.
3.I was/am 15 years old.
4.Yes i told about 10 friends before my parents so i could have a support base.
5.Yes and No. Now my whole family knows so i dont have to keep it from them but it caused so much fighting for 3 days and now my parents and i are not on the greatest terms.
6.I have come out.

Posh · 10-10-2010, 10:14 PM

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian?
none. im straight

2.How did your parents react when you came out to them?
N/A

3.How old were you when u came out?
N/A

4.Did you tell friends before your parents?
N/A

5.Are you happy you came out to your parents?
N/A

metzgermeister · 10-12-2010, 12:53 PM

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian?
- Lesbian.

2.How did your parents react when you came out to them?
- They weren't surprised.

3.How old were you when u came out?
- 15

4.Did you tell friends before your parents?
- I told my best friend.

5.Are you happy you came out to your parents?
- Sure.

WowwieGoesWoof · 10-12-2010, 01:10 PM

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? [I]Gay.[/I]
2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? Mom "whatever"'d me. Lol!
3.How old were you when u came out? 13 to my friends. 16 to my mother.
4.Did you tell friends before your parents? Yep.
5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? I guess, nothing changed for better or worse so I'm content with not having to worry anymore.
6. If you havn't come out yet then why? N/A

Dareholic · 08-16-2012, 06:40 PM

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian?
2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? I have the most relaxed parents in the world. They could careless one way or the other. They always told me to just be true to myself.
3.How old were you when u came out? I learned I was bi when I was 13 and told them the soon after.
4.Did you tell friends before your parents? They day before I told my parents. .
5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? Like I said, my parents could care one way or the other.
6. If you havn't come out yet then why? They know.

321tt · 08-16-2012, 11:12 PM

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? I'm not sure about my sexuality. Probably I'm bi.
2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? n/a
3.How old were you when u came out? n/a
4.Did you tell friends before your parents? Yes, I speak about it with some of my friends (like 3 or 4 people).
5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? n/a
6. If you havn't come out yet then why? I don't know who am I and I don't think that telling my parents would help.

SilverScar · 08-17-2012, 05:53 AM

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? Gay
2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? I didn't come out, but they are not stupid. They know it, and I know they know it, but neither of us want to talk about it. It's fine by me.
3.How old were you when u came out? -
4.Did you tell friends before your parents? I told some close friend, yep.
5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? -
6. If you havn't come out yet then why? Why should I? This situation is okay for me, for them as well. It's my business, and I don't want to talk about it with them.

Vela · 08-17-2012, 12:25 PM

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian?
Lesbian

2.How did your parents react when you came out to them?
My mom was really supportive at first, but then had trouble dealing with it for a few months. She's fine with it now.

3.How old were you when u came out?
14

4.Did you tell friends before your parents?
I told some friends before and some friends after.

5.Are you happy you came out to your parents?
Yes

MeisterDerWagt · 08-17-2012, 02:29 PM

I'm still quite convinced that bi people like dares more than lesbian, gay and straight people. Usually a minority.

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? Bi
2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? not told them
3.How old were you when u came out? not told them
4.Did you tell friends before your parents? not told either
5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? not told them, but I am happy
6. If you havn't come out yet then why? Only worked out I was bi when I was 18, don't think it should be that big a deal, you wouldn't announce that you are streight, so to be truly unbiased nobody should come out they way they do, just say for example: "this is my boyfriend" if you have one. I think I've said one or two thinks that made my parents suspect I'm gay. I'd probably tell people if I was to have a boyfriend. I'm not as romantically attracted to boys as I am to girls, but I certainly am as sexually attracted.

EmmaW · 08-17-2012, 05:56 PM

1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian?
I suppose Bi, but mostly Lesbian

2.How did your parents react when you came out to them?
They were amazing, they were so supportive, they even let me girlfriend with us when she came out to her parents and her mum kicked her out. Although they wouldn't let us share a room

3.How old were you when u came out?
17

4.Did you tell friends before your parents?
I didn't have to, me and my first girlfriend met at college and most of them figured it out, most of them were great with it

5.Are you happy you came out to your parents?
Yes, although I can't imagine not doing it, but they've just been so great.

6. If you havn't come out yet then why?
N/A

givemedares · 08-17-2012, 06:43 PM

How about none of the above? :P

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10-10-2010, 10:10 PM	#1
jaredlowrie Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 48 Blog Entries: 1	Coming Out (gay,bisexual,lesbian) 1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? 3.How old were you when u came out? 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? 6. If you havn't come out yet then why? 1.Im a bisexual guy 2.They reacted pretty well at first until they found out i told some of my friends already. 3.I was/am 15 years old. 4.Yes i told about 10 friends before my parents so i could have a support base. 5.Yes and No. Now my whole family knows so i dont have to keep it from them but it caused so much fighting for 3 days and now my parents and i are not on the greatest terms. 6.I have come out. __________________ 28 Male Gay Likes: Wedgies, masturbation, anal, some cbt, messy, cum control, edging, milking, bondage, etc Dislikes: toothpaste, ice, hard cbt, spankings, longer term chastity (more than a few hours), golden shower Limits: Xdressing, scat, public, other people, pics (sometimes) Toys: Butt plug, dildo, clothespins, rope, lovesense hush PM Dares! Must put ice down my underwear when nifoc_uk says so and for how long. Last edited by jaredlowrie; 10-10-2010 at 10:17 PM.

10-12-2010, 12:53 PM	#3
metzgermeister Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: England, UK Posts: 180	1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? - Lesbian. 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? - They weren't surprised. 3.How old were you when u came out? - 15 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? - I told my best friend. 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? - Sure. __________________ Dixie, 19, Lesbian, Engaged, United Kingdom Loves: Anal, Wet & Messy, Submissive, Diapers, Humiliation, Piss, Pain, Bondage Okay with: Scat, Edging, Overnight, Restrictions Not a fan of: Overly public, Permanent My Photos Metz's Guides: - Scat Metz's Stories: - Coming soon... I'm NOT looking for a master - Mistress Michelle is the only master for me. I will NOT send pictures, I'm faithful to my partner's wishes.

08-16-2012, 06:40 PM	#5
Dareholic getDare Addict Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: 3rd Rock from Sun Posts: 2,329 Blog Entries: 37	1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? I have the most relaxed parents in the world. They could careless one way or the other. They always told me to just be true to myself. 3.How old were you when u came out? I learned I was bi when I was 13 and told them the soon after. 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? They day before I told my parents. . 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? Like I said, my parents could care one way or the other. 6. If you havn't come out yet then why? They know. __________________ Brian (布莱恩) - Bi-Male (双男性) - Edge Master (边缘大师) RETIRED: THANKS getDare, I HAD FUN. OH, JUST REMEMBER: "Life is not fun, unless you are having fun." - Dareholic "Adam was but human - this explains it all. He did not want the apple for the apple's sake, he wanted it only because it was forbidden. The mistake was not forbidding the serpent; then he would have eaten the serpent." - Mark Twain Yamask Last edited by Dareholic; 08-17-2012 at 12:29 PM.

08-16-2012, 11:12 PM	#6
321tt Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 778 Blog Entries: 28	1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? I'm not sure about my sexuality. Probably I'm bi. 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? n/a 3.How old were you when u came out? n/a 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? Yes, I speak about it with some of my friends (like 3 or 4 people). 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? n/a 6. If you havn't come out yet then why? I don't know who am I and I don't think that telling my parents would help. __________________ Male, 18+ Likes: Underwear/swimwear, Anal toys, Some pain, Slight humiliation, Safe public, Naturism/nudism Curious about: CFNM, CMNM, BDSM, Public Limits: Public (reveal of identity), Too painful, Family/friends, Anything messy, Illegal, Dangereous Blog: my little encounters diary

10-10-2010, 10:14 PM	#2
Posh Account Banned Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 107	1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? none. im straight 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? N/A 3.How old were you when u came out? N/A 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? N/A 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? N/A

10-12-2010, 01:10 PM	#4
WowwieGoesWoof getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 415	1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? [I]Gay.[/I] 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? *Mom "whatever"'d me. Lol!* 3.How old were you when u came out? 13 to my friends. 16 to my mother. 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? Yep. 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? I guess, nothing changed for better or worse so I'm content with not having to worry anymore. 6. If you havn't come out yet then why? N/A

08-17-2012, 05:53 AM	#7
SilverScar Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Eastern Europe Posts: 179	1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? *Gay* 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? *I didn't come out, but they are not stupid. They know it, and I know they know it, but neither of us want to talk about it. It's fine by me.* 3.How old were you when u came out? - 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? *I told some close friend, yep.* 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? - 6. If you havn't come out yet then why? *Why should I? This situation is okay for me, for them as well. It's my business, and I don't want to talk about it with them.* __________________ Likes: control, humiliation (but everything is OK what not's in my limits Maybe: anal, bondage, messy Limits: illegal, family, permanent, diapers, crossdressing, feminization I'm a 24 years old gay male. Sorry for my english, I know it's not perfect.

08-17-2012, 12:25 PM	#8
Vela getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: In your socks. eatin' your lint. Posts: 398	1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? Lesbian 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? My mom was really supportive at first, but then had trouble dealing with it for a few months. She's fine with it now. 3.How old were you when u came out? 14 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? I told some friends before and some friends after. 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? Yes __________________ rawwwr.

08-17-2012, 02:29 PM	#9
MeisterDerWagt Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: My place. Posts: 132	I'm still quite convinced that bi people like dares more than lesbian, gay and straight people. Usually a minority. 1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? Bi 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? not told them 3.How old were you when u came out? not told them 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? not told either 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? not told them, but I am happy 6. If you havn't come out yet then why? Only worked out I was bi when I was 18, don't think it should be that big a deal, you wouldn't announce that you are streight, so to be truly unbiased nobody should come out they way they do, just say for example: "this is my boyfriend" if you have one. I think I've said one or two thinks that made my parents suspect I'm gay. I'd probably tell people if I was to have a boyfriend. I'm not as romantically attracted to boys as I am to girls, but I certainly am as sexually attracted. __________________ =MeisterDerWagt= A shy, bi boy with a very cool first name; that's all you'll ever know, probably... Likes - pee, bondage, naked, sub, tight briefs! Limits - drinking it, poop, public, messing up my place. Last edited by MeisterDerWagt; 08-17-2012 at 02:39 PM.

08-17-2012, 05:56 PM	#10
EmmaW Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 69	1.Are you Gay, Bisexual, or Lesbian? I suppose Bi, but mostly Lesbian 2.How did your parents react when you came out to them? They were amazing, they were so supportive, they even let me girlfriend with us when she came out to her parents and her mum kicked her out. Although they wouldn't let us share a room 3.How old were you when u came out? 17 4.Did you tell friends before your parents? I didn't have to, me and my first girlfriend met at college and most of them figured it out, most of them were great with it 5.Are you happy you came out to your parents? Yes, although I can't imagine not doing it, but they've just been so great. 6. If you havn't come out yet then why? N/A __________________ 23/f/uk, bi but mostly lesbian lately : Humiliation, public, masturbation, weird insertions, orgasm control, oil, food, candles, body writing, nipple play, dressing up : Bondage, toys, mild pain : Pee, spanking, ice, anal, strong pain : Poop, blood, vomit, family, animals, extreme pain, illegal, permanent, etc. Experimenting with being dominant, don't laugh if i'm bad at it! I'm trying...

08-17-2012, 06:43 PM	#11
givemedares Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 140	How about none of the above? :P