28/F - Ask Me Anything :)

[missdimples]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

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Do you like being slutty? I know you have some slutty thongs lol.
It depends a little on how you define being slutty. If you're talking about the kind of being slutty while playing with someone then it's a yes, I like doing kinky things and some of them surely feel quite slutty sometimes. If you're speaking about in public though, then that's a no. I'm not a fan of wearing any slutty or very skimpy clothing myself. You might ask yourself why I own these pearl panties then, but a) for me they are more sexy and teasing than slutty and b) they're fully hidden even if I should go outside in them, so it's a different thingy for me.

What other slutty things do you have?
Nothing extraordinary in terms of clothing. Just like probably everyone on here I have both more and less revealing clothes, but there are not any especially slutty/skimpy ones in general. You might consider some of my toys or likes slutty, but they're all listed in my blog, so unfortunately I do not think I can say much more to that question.

[missdimples]

Originally Posted by 2bchew

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Thank you for your questions and you even included three as well, so that's another edge... I should probably work on them soon

What things do you think about when masturbating?
The specific things I'm thinking about while masturbating vary a lot and greatly depend on my mood and feelings, but overall I tend to either fantasise about various submissive scenarios (e.g. that bondage fantasy I mentioned earlier on in this thread), do it while lurking on getDare or simply thinking about past plays/experiences I had with others on here. Another thing I sometimes do, although less often since quite a while, is reading some erotic BDSM stories online.

Have you ever been caught masturbating?
Luckily no! While it's not an uncommon thing for sure, I wouldn't be keen on actually getting caught doing it by anyone, so I'm kinda glad I managed to avoid such a probably quite awkward situation. The closest I've gotten too was being in the middle of masturbating and then having my doorbell rang from someone I know (spontaneous surprise visit), but obviously I was not caught that way and could cover up all the 'evidence'.

What porn, if any, do you read or watch when masturbating?
I'm really not much into porn myself, so I rarely get to watch any. Sometimes I got sent some links for inspiration or as part of a dare and then did not mind watching it a bit, but I usually don't go watching porn myself when I'm masturbating. As written in my first response though I do sometimes tend to read erotic stories online, where I do not care all that much about the specific genre/fetish as long as it's somewhere within the BDSM spectrum.

[wolf82]

1. As you are bi, is there a particular way you tend to lean?

2. Which of your PM dares is your favorite to receive?

3. How many edges do you think you will do before you feel like you truly must have an orgasm?

[Guv'nor]

Do you prefer to give or recieve oral sex?

What types of panties do you wear?

How often do you go commando?

[Red!]

Good to see you more active. Sorry for my slow PM reply but in the meantime here are some questions... Also, instead of edging once, why don't you give yourself a wedgie and keep it in while you answer these questions! 🤭

1. Over the years, have you had a task that you feel went too far?
2. Did you ever mention or hint about your kinks to a partner? How did they react?
3. Have you had a wedgie since the last one I gave you?
4. Do you have any pets?
5. What did you eat for breakfast?
6. Have you ever had a golden shower?
7. How do you feel about getting older?
8. Do any of your friends suspect you're kinky?
9. What's your fashion sense like these days?
10. What's the worst spanking you've had? How did you behave to deserve it?

[Andrew 25:17]

Here is another round just because I know how much you like to answer our questions

Spoiler:

and even more to edge for us :p

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What's the kind of pain and/or the pain implement you enjoy the most?

There is some kink/fetish that you haven't explored yet that you're willing to explore very soon? If so which one?

Do you have tattoos and/or pierciengs? If so how many and in which spots?

[missdimples]

Originally Posted by wolf82

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Thank you for asking some more interesting questions, appreciate it!

1. As you are bi, is there a particular way you tend to lean?
I honestly can't really tell right now if I'm leaning more towards one or another gender. A couple years ago I still identified myself as straigh, although maybe wrongly so, but eventually learned more about myself and accepted some things I might not have accepted before. This kinda made me feel bi-curious, which ultimately led to further events and nowadays I identify as bi. As a whole I'd say though that I still have more experience with males than females.

2. Which of your PM dares is your favorite to receive?
This answer feels a little cheaty, but my favorite kind of PM dares would be the ones combining 2 or more, as that is usually more interesting than just having to do a single task. As a whole I like all of them though and if I had to pick any favorite(s) I'd probably go for a) TREASURE, as it isn't picked all that often but provides some great teasing and arousal over a longer timeframe and b) CROP as I'm a bit of a sucker for pain and I like how precise that one is. But I seriously like all of them and maybe come up with some more one day

3. How many edges do you think you will do before you feel like you truly must have an orgasm?
I'm not quite sure yet how many edges I'll eventually end up with, but I'm sure glad I only added edging as an AMA and not like any sort of keyword thread, haha. I'm giving this whole orgasm denial thing a try with someone I know and keep it slightly random that way how long it will still be going on, but I'll probably won't go on all that much longer. I'm not thaaaat experienced with denial and if it wasn't for me recently being on a trip where I was too busy to have any kind of sexual thoughts I'd probably be insane by now after so many days of teasing.

[missdimples]

Originally Posted by Guv'nor

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Thank you for some more lovely questions

Do you prefer to give or recieve oral sex?
If I would only think from a non-submissive perspective I might probably pick receiving oral sex, as it is obviously an awesome feeling and can be very relaxing as well, depending on how it is done. Everyone probably loves being lazy, getting to lay back and just get to enjoy things without having to do anything. I'm very submissive though, which isn't that much of a secret, and when I consider that perspective as well my answer would change to giving oral sex. My reasoning behind that is that I'm definitely more of a "pleaser" and get lots of joy from pleasing my partner and doing things for his pleasure.

What types of panties do you wear?
Just like most here probably I have varies sorts of underwear, but most of them are hipsters which are very comfortable to wear. Then I also have quite a few thongs in various colors, a couple bikini-style panties too, two boyshorts as well, some g-strings, some low-rise panties and some other more exotic choices which I could not really fit into any category. But I think I've drifted a bit away from the original question, so to answer what I wear most of the time is either hipsters or thongs, depending on my mood and desired level of comfort.

How often do you go commando?
I do not really do that myself at all and always tend to wear underwear myself, but I've did some tasks/dares in the past where I went commando on certain occasions. But if it's my choice I always go for underwear (as in panties + bra), with the exception of staying at home where I usually skip the bra for comfort.

[missdimples]

Originally Posted by Red!

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Thank you for all these questions. I certainly do not mind getting them all at once instead of three individual ones Let me answer them one-by-one as usually and no worries about slow PM replies, we are all busy in life sometimes. And I'll stick to the edges just for simplicity and fairness, but if you insist on a wedgie feel free to send me a PM.

1. Over the years, have you had a task that you feel went too far?
That was a question I had to think about for a little, but actually I would answer no to this. I'm able to judge myself and what I can handle / what I want to do fairly well and if I'm unsure about a certain task I usually rather postpone and think about it with a clear mind, so like without any brain fog from horniness If I would have been doing every single dare/task I ever got sent, then that would be a clear yes, but as I always identified any potential issues or discussed uncertainties beforehand it never went too far.

2. Did you ever mention or hint about your kinks to a partner? How did they react?
I did slightly mention and hint towards kink with some previous partners and they were even willing to give it a try, but obviously it was kink on a whole another level and I did not like whip out any of the crazy stuff. So it was mostly limited to some soft bondage and spanking, but not further than this. Certainly not an easy feat though to find a great partner who is also into kink, so the latter isn't as important for me as answered in a previous question in this thread.

3. Have you had a wedgie since the last one I gave you?
Nope! Still not that much into wedgies myself and I rarely ever got asked to do them at all, so actually the last time was when you suggested me to give it a try by PM.

4. Do you have any pets?
I had pets in the past, both cats and dogs once, however right at this moment I no longer have any pet unfortunately as they died of old age. I'm thinking about getting new one(s) next year though, but nothing set in stone yet.

5. What did you eat for breakfast?
No breakfast today at all as I was staying up late last night, which is a pretty common thing for me during weekends or when I got some days off. I'm very much of a night owl and when I can do it I rather stay up very late and then sleep until 1-2 hours before lunch, so no reason to get any breakfast any more

6. Have you ever had a golden shower?
Another nope. I did not do any kind of pee play with another person in real life yet and never got one, also while I like bladder control as soon as it gets to pee it's more a humiliating dislike/almost-punishment depending on the specific task, so it's not on my bucket list.

7. How do you feel about getting older?
I'm usually not feeling that old, but I realize that my 30s are approaching and that is indeed a little weird. Just recently there was some discussion in the gD chat about old music cassettes / tapes and damn, that made my realise how many years ago that was and then I certainly felt old. Luckily that's not a topic that is being brought up daily

8. Do any of your friends suspect you're kinky?
I wouldn't say so, as said earlier I certainly do not dress slutty/skimpy and it's also a bit more of a secret thing. My bestie knows about parts of it and she's pretty chill and open about any sexual things, so sharing some thoughts with her was a nice thing and I was glad that I one day took the courage to open up a bit as well. But others certainly have no clue and that is also how I prefer things to be.

9. What's your fashion sense like these days?
Fashion sense, phew... I couldn't name any specific one honestly as I never cared all that much for any fashion trends or similar weird stuff like "its <some month> you have to wear <whatever>", I always just had my own style of clothing. For work that's a fairly professional look with like blazer or similar, for my own free time I pretty much wear whatever I feel like it. And I prefer wearing "happier" colors instead of darker tones.

10. What's the worst spanking you've had? How did you behave to deserve it?
I once got some punishment for failing a task+rule combination I agreed on and the punishment involved tons of clit teasing, pinching and more, while also spanking my pussy and clit every so often. That was definitely very painful to take and got quite punishing after some time, but I also really screwed up and more than once even, so it felt kinda deserved. Punishments are certainly not a thing I'm looking for, probably also due to me rather wanting to please the dominant other instead of chasing for funishments.

[missdimples]

Originally Posted by Andrew 25:17

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I see what you did there with your spoiler Thanks for sending in some more questions, here you go:

What's the kind of pain and/or the pain implement you enjoy the most?
Good one! I don't think I could pick a favorite pain implement, as the variety is actually what I like a lot. I've got a few toys already as you can see in my blog and I love when I sometimes use this, sometimes that, combine this and that, etcetera. These kind of tasks/dares/plays are always very intriguing and combining them is a lot of fun.

I can list however in descending order which body regions I prefer for pain tasks, which in my case would be: pussy, boobs, butt, allotherplaces. For a bit of explanation, continue reading: Messing around in various ways with my pussy is certainly my favorite, it has so many sensitive spots and seems quite vulnerable, so doing pain tasks for someone elses pleasure is a big turn on for me. Very close follow-up would be my boobies, as they can also be lots of fun and used in various ways. Then with a bit of distance I'd head for butt, like spanking it is nice and all but I do not like it as much as the other two, just like I do not like anal itself quite as much. And all other places like feet do not do that much for me, but they can certainly be fairly cruel!

There is some kink/fetish that you haven't explored yet that you're willing to explore very soon? If so which one?
I would not really say so right now, usually when I hear about something it's while talking to someone else and when it does not sound all too crazy I like giving it a try fairly quickly afterwards. Experimenting with new things and discovering if I like or dislike them is a lot of fun for me in general. And obviously it is also always nice to further strengthen my experience in some kinks, i.e. I have not done much hidden public and it can be intriguing to gather further experiences so I can better judge how I feel about them.

Do you have tattoos and/or pierciengs? If so how many and in which spots?
I don't like tattoos myself, like as in not on my own body. I do not mind others having some and I've seen some nice ones, but I could not imagine getting one myself. Also there's always the risk of how they'll look when you get older or suddenly no longer being "cool", so that is a clear "no thanks" for me. I do not mind piercings as much but I also don't have any, unless you count that I pierced my ears many many years ago for wearing smaller ear rings.

[Guv'nor]

Have you ever sat on anyone's face?

Would you rather be able to hug one person an unlimited amount of time, or as many people as you like but for only 10 seconds per day?

Have you ever dated anyone into kink?

What does your butt look like?

[missdimples]

Originally Posted by Guv'nor

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Have you ever sat on anyone's face?
This is actually something I've done previously, but it wasn't done due to me trying to be dominant or anything like that. It was more that the other person involved wanted to give that a try and that's how I ended up sitting on someones face. Getting oral is certainly nice as answered earlier on but it's not like this specific position does something for me.

Would you rather be able to hug one person an unlimited amount of time, or as many people as you like but for only 10 seconds per day?
It's not quite clear if you mean 10 seconds each per day as that would allow for quite some generous hugging! Nonetheless the specific wording though, I would pick the latter as I could not imagine limiting hugging to a single person in my life. There are several great people around me and I want to be able to hug whoever I want whenever I want - would be fairly weird otherwise if you could no longer hug a family member just because you already hugged your best friend. And even if it was 10 seconds overall per day... it would still allow for a couple shorter hugs. There is one big downside though: If I was not single and had a partner, I would surely want to hug more than 10 seconds a day. So ideally I would just be able to alternate between the two choices as I please and need, but that feels a bit like cheating.

Have you ever dated anyone into kink?
Well yes and no, kinda depends a little again on how to interpret the question. I never dated someone where I knew from the beginning that he/she was into kink, so if you meant if I specifically went for dating such a person then it would be a clear no. But there were some relationships where, after some asking and discussion and experimenting, light kink was a thing.

What does your butt look like?
Good question and not that easy to describe. Overall I'd say my butt has about an average size and is neither especially small nor big for my body as a whole, while being fairly heart-shaped and more firm. Hopefully that roughly answers your question.

[Guv'nor]

Thank you for those very thorough answers!

What things do you enjoy most about receiving oral?

Have you ever fallen in love with someone you cannot be with?

If you could only have one sex/kinky toy used on you for the rest of your life, which would it be and why?

What do you find attractive in a potential partner, and why?

[lotusdriver81]

What is one kinky toy you would really like to get - money no problem

[Andrew 25:17]

When did you realise to be submissive and how?

Do you like wear heels? If so how high?

What's the physical tract that attracts you the most in guys? And in girls?

If you chould have one super power what would you like it to be?