Choose Life?

Tribulation · 05-25-2011, 07:54 PM

I admit, I've never been much of a contributor to this site. I've always been interested in reading through the posts on here and never made an account until today. Part of my reasons is to try and get some support for this...

My friend suffers from depression and has made a plan to take her life. I wanted to show her that people do care, even strangers. I was hoping to have people post their user name with or without a message just to show that they care, and after awhile I will show her this. I love her a lot and I can not bare to have another person I love walk out of my life. I have been trying to do everything to convince her to hold on longer.

Please. Help me show her that she matters. Help her conquer life and not be
beaten by it.

Tribulation · 05-25-2011, 07:58 PM

ugh i meant to put this in the lounge. help with deleting? :/

Star Shadows · 05-25-2011, 11:45 PM

Starshadows:

Please don't give up- things will get better. Depression really sucks but you have to fight it. Don't let it win. There are people who can help you.

Rachie · 05-26-2011, 03:03 AM

Things will improve, you never know what is around the corner.
Think of all the positive things you have

Love Rachie
x x x x

PS -- Moved to the Lounge

Pet Phoenix · 05-26-2011, 03:28 AM

Everything will be okay in the end, if it isn't okay, it's not the end.

*hugs*
Phoenix

dragonator · 05-26-2011, 05:51 AM

im not very good at being comforting without using religion and i dont no if your christian so... yeah.... *insert inspiring and comforting speech here please because im not goo at it*

please dont kill yourself, there are so man better ways to die that you cant do to yourself and you wouldnt want to miss them anyways, even if you dont want to live anymore...

Drilldon · 05-26-2011, 07:46 AM

Drilldon-Scott Hardy

I think about that sometimes too, but you got to be stronger then these kind of thoughts. You have to beat them, be a better person then that type of person.
Its hard.
But you got to keep fighting.

Midnight · 05-26-2011, 11:32 AM

Midnight

I suffer from depression and have also considered taking my own life. You have to find something to keep you going. What do you love to do? Shop, read, watch movies, hang out with friends?

Find someone who cares about you (not necessarily in the romantic way but a friend that can be there for you in your time of need). You have a friend already that does care. Perhaps you need to see someone? It helped me.

Don't take your life. You are here and you are going to do great things! I'm not sure what...but if you take your life, you'll never know.

CollaredBlondie · 05-26-2011, 12:02 PM

Please, please don't do it. Think of all the friends and family you'd leave behind. Just go and talk to someone honey, anyone. As others have said, don't let the depression win. You can fight it, we know you can. Your friend who started this thread obviously cares and thinks that you can do it. I think you can too, with your friend's help. And our's, hopefully.

Say strong, things will always get better, even though at the time it seems like they won't.

Blondie x

florida87x · 05-28-2011, 01:34 AM

Four things I can think of to help. The things that helped me. Good food. Good music. Good friends to talk to.

And most of all, time. Even if you can't feel it, it's still moving. And eventually it can wear away even this. Hell, the others were just to help pass the time.

Slut-laura · 05-28-2011, 05:42 AM

Girl or Boy(I don't know sorry)
It gets better. I promise. I would know I've been suffering from depression for over five years. I've attempted suicide a few times but failled. Just at the behind of this year I told someone and am now getting help. It maybe scary but its worth it. By telling your friend here your plans of suicide means you really want help. You can do it.

Here's a number for either one of you when you need help.
800-784-2433

Sasahara · 05-28-2011, 05:46 AM

Find a reason to stay alive each day. If you can't find one, talk to a friend and they can help you find one. But every day, think of at least one thing that is worth staying alive for. And find someone who will let you call them, 24/7, if you feel like you *are* going to follow through on your plan. Call that person when you think you can't go on. They will be there for you.

Sasahara

Anjelen · 05-28-2011, 06:15 AM

Don't give up hope. And if you have given up hope, don't stop fighting. Only when you stop trying to improve your life in little bits at a time does life become unbearable.

Wanting to end your life is a want for change - which means that you wish for things to change, one way or another.

Cliché as it may sound, ending your life is not the way - not only will you cease to improve your own life, but you will drag a great many people down with you - reflect for a moment upon how ending your life will affect those around you, those you care for and those that care for you.

Do you wish to inflict this on them - or do you wish to make a positive change? There are any number of groups, institutions, or even individuals who can help you through this struggle you are going through. The only thing you need do is stuff your pride somewhere the sun doesn't shine and admit - to yourself, and others - that you may need some kind of help with your trials.

Finding the people who can help you is as easy as asking around - your parents, your school councilor or even the internet - and explaining your situation and hurts. You may have to do this a few times. It's okay. People will ask you a lot of stupid questions. That's alright. They'll be doing so because they, to some degree or other, want to help you get back to your feet, get some footing from which you can fight without having that constant sense that you're drowning.

Remember - when you've hit rock bottom, you can't go anywhere but up!

Best regards, and may you find strength in unexpected places;

Anjelen.

cbtslave4u2 · 05-31-2011, 11:14 AM

I'll be so freakin depressed if I fouund out she killed herself. You may feel like what happened in your past is taking away your future but that only happens when you let it. I was extremely depressed and had suicidal thoughts. I never acted on them but I didn't tell anyone. I have to live with what happened but it is her loss not mine. I just try to not think about it. You don't want to kill yourself, you told your friend you wanted to but that just means you don't want to. Good luck, don't kill yourself. Don't make your friend depressed too.

Invisible · 06-04-2011, 08:26 PM

Invisible:

Taking your own life may seem like the only way out but it is not the answer. As mentioned by others there are people who can help with the treatment and battle with depression. There is also very good material available on the internet - here is one website:

www.depression.org.nz

Look for the positives each and every day, for example, you clearly have people that love and care for you. Get plenty of exercise and eat well.

05-25-2011, 07:54 PM	#1
Tribulation Junior Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 2	Choose Life? I admit, I've never been much of a contributor to this site. I've always been interested in reading through the posts on here and never made an account until today. Part of my reasons is to try and get some support for this... My friend suffers from depression and has made a plan to take her life. I wanted to show her that people do care, even strangers. I was hoping to have people post their user name with or without a message just to show that they care, and after awhile I will show her this. I love her a lot and I can not bare to have another person I love walk out of my life. I have been trying to do everything to convince her to hold on longer. Please. Help me show her that she matters. Help her conquer life and not be beaten by it.

05-25-2011, 11:45 PM	#3
Star Shadows Prodigy Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 4,707 Blog Entries: 13	Starshadows: Please don't give up- things will get better. Depression really sucks but you have to fight it. Don't let it win. There are people who can help you. __________________ Do not ask me for to be your slave, your mistress, or to give you truths or dares. You're wasting your time. Informative threads: Anonymous S/M advice service Threads of note PM MEGET S/M ADVICE WORSHIPS RACHIE**

05-26-2011, 03:03 AM	#4
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05-26-2011, 03:28 AM	#5
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05-26-2011, 05:51 AM	#6
dragonator getDare Devil Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,477	im not very good at being comforting without using religion and i dont no if your christian so... yeah.... insert inspiring and comforting speech here please because im not goo at it please dont kill yourself, there are so man better ways to die that you cant do to yourself and you wouldnt want to miss them anyways, even if you dont want to live anymore... __________________ male likes: sexual public humiliation, sexual, public, and humiliation i also like anal as long as its safe. limits: family, and illegal to the point il get caught i must do any dare that i get as long as this is a part of my signiture I was dared to post my full erect length. my full erect penis length is 3 inches.

05-25-2011, 07:58 PM	#2
Tribulation Junior Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 2	ugh i meant to put this in the lounge. help with deleting? :/

05-26-2011, 07:46 AM	#7
Drilldon getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: England Posts: 402 Blog Entries: 9	Drilldon-Scott Hardy I think about that sometimes too, but you got to be stronger then these kind of thoughts. You have to beat them, be a better person then that type of person. Its hard. But you got to keep fighting. __________________ Read about my slaves: http://getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?u=22543 comments are welcomed If you liked my Dare/Comment leave me a visitor message. Im aiming for 1000 http://www.getdare.com/bbs/member.php?u=22543#

05-26-2011, 11:32 AM	#8
Midnight getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: When I'm in one location, I'll let you know. Doubt that will be any time soon. (Thanks work!) Posts: 438	Midnight I suffer from depression and have also considered taking my own life. You have to find something to keep you going. What do you love to do? Shop, read, watch movies, hang out with friends? Find someone who cares about you (not necessarily in the romantic way but a friend that can be there for you in your time of need). You have a friend already that does care. Perhaps you need to see someone? It helped me. Don't take your life. You are here and you are going to do great things! I'm not sure what...but if you take your life, you'll never know. __________________ Spoiler: Yes, I still exist. Just quiet and guarded. Be careful when you talk to me...you never know which personality wants to play. You can message for whatever. I'm open to conversation. Anything else...well, you saw the little memo about the many personality...it also applies to moods.

05-28-2011, 01:34 AM	#10
florida87x Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 121	Four things I can think of to help. The things that helped me. Good food. Good music. Good friends to talk to. And most of all, time. Even if you can't feel it, it's still moving. And eventually it can wear away even this. Hell, the others were just to help pass the time.

05-28-2011, 05:42 AM	#11
Slut-laura Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 76	Girl or Boy(I don't know sorry) It gets better. I promise. I would know I've been suffering from depression for over five years. I've attempted suicide a few times but failled. Just at the behind of this year I told someone and am now getting help. It maybe scary but its worth it. By telling your friend here your plans of suicide means you really want help. You can do it. Here's a number for either one of you when you need help. 800-784-2433

05-28-2011, 05:46 AM	#12
Sasahara getDare Devil Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 1,404	Find a reason to stay alive each day. If you can't find one, talk to a friend and they can help you find one. But every day, think of at least one thing that is worth staying alive for. And find someone who will let you call them, 24/7, if you feel like you are going to follow through on your plan. Call that person when you think you can't go on. They will be there for you. Sasahara

05-28-2011, 06:15 AM	#13
Anjelen Account Banned Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Rotterdam Posts: 1,286 Blog Entries: 1	Don't give up hope. And if you have given up hope, don't stop fighting. Only when you stop trying to improve your life in little bits at a time does life become unbearable. Wanting to end your life is a want for change - which means that you wish for things to change, one way or another. Cliché as it may sound, ending your life is not the way - not only will you cease to improve your own life, but you will drag a great many people down with you - reflect for a moment upon how ending your life will affect those around you, those you care for and those that care for you. Do you wish to inflict this on them - or do you wish to make a positive change? There are any number of groups, institutions, or even individuals who can help you through this struggle you are going through. The only thing you need do is stuff your pride somewhere the sun doesn't shine and admit - to yourself, and others - that you may need some kind of help with your trials. Finding the people who can help you is as easy as asking around - your parents, your school councilor or even the internet - and explaining your situation and hurts. You may have to do this a few times. It's okay. People will ask you a lot of stupid questions. That's alright. They'll be doing so because they, to some degree or other, want to help you get back to your feet, get some footing from which you can fight without having that constant sense that you're drowning. Remember - when you've hit rock bottom, you can't go anywhere but up! Best regards, and may you find strength in unexpected places; Anjelen. __________________ Music by me: 'Suspense'(Reason v4.0) 'Keep your head up v0.1' (Fasttracker v2.09) * How to not be a Dumbinant * * Here's your chance to ask me anything! * "It's better to try and fail than to fail to try." [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] -- Nunc Intellego --

05-31-2011, 11:14 AM	#14
cbtslave4u2 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Texas Posts: 456	I'll be so freakin depressed if I fouund out she killed herself. You may feel like what happened in your past is taking away your future but that only happens when you let it. I was extremely depressed and had suicidal thoughts. I never acted on them but I didn't tell anyone. I have to live with what happened but it is her loss not mine. I just try to not think about it. You don't want to kill yourself, you told your friend you wanted to but that just means you don't want to. Good luck, don't kill yourself. Don't make your friend depressed too. __________________ I am MasterCalan now.. Maybe I will open a new account one day... lol [IMG=http://img.pokemondb.net/artwork/zekrom.jpg]

06-04-2011, 08:26 PM	#15
Invisible getDare Sweetheart Join Date: May 2011 Location: New Zealand Posts: 413 Blog Entries: 3	Invisible: Taking your own life may seem like the only way out but it is not the answer. As mentioned by others there are people who can help with the treatment and battle with depression. There is also very good material available on the internet - here is one website: www.depression.org.nz Look for the positives each and every day, for example, you clearly have people that love and care for you. Get plenty of exercise and eat well.