Ultimate List of Kinks - We need your help!

[CSasha]

Just thinking about the endless list issue, how about using subcategories. If I wasn't interested in petplay at all, ponytails, hoofs, catsuits, being caged or whatever doesn't matter. This way, it could be accessable for beginners as well as detailed for veterans and more experienced users (or to be expanded by them later).

Also, I find it hard to add kinks I am not much into or haven't tried, especially in detail. Just encountered some that I proposed to Jaro in a first response, like wrap yourself in winter clothing, sports, sweating, adult baby etc.

With the categories, it's also hard to put every kink in exactly one category.

But don't let me forget you already did an amazing job with this list till here.

I'll think over it more in the next days.

[MarvHarvey]

Cass is right that a tree or category structure is a basic necessity. (Almost too obvious and important to mention.)

Everything should be under 10-15 (20 max) top line headings. Maybe some items get duplicated or can be reached in two directions, but there have to be a limited number at the top choice.


Domestic Discipline....

[enema slave]

Love the look of that list! Personally I would also put enemas in the toys section. So is this going to become part of the website that everyone can use for their signature?

[RubinPhoxx]

I think the list is great so far. I was looking for computer-related kinks and didn't see much (may have missed them) there.

I know Teamviewer/Anydesk control is a hot topic, but it is also not a SAFE thing to do without trust. So, I have been looking into ways to lock down my computer, lose admin rights, and restrict the desktop/windows in general, but my problem has always been that I am aware of the Admin Password, and therefore cannot stay "honest" with myself and remain locked down.

I may have found a reliable, and safe way to accomplish a real computer 'self-bondage' scene that would be safer than allowing strangers into your computer trusting them with your most private and personal information.

My latest blog post is about this idea. Hopefully, some people may this useful and show some interest.

[Jaro]

Originally Posted by enema slave

Love the look of that list! Personally I would also put enemas in the toys section. So is this going to become part of the website that everyone can use for their signature?

The idea is there will be a seperate website where you can rate everything and then generate a personalized report that you can then link to from here (or anywhere else for that matter).

It will be kind of like bdsmtest.org, but focused on all the specific kinks that you can like or dislike. It will also be answerable for both D-types and s-types alike, but it will be focused on BDSM in general, not so much on doing dares.

[Jaro]

Thank you for all the responses so far! There's definitely some good ideas here, like breaking it down into sub-categories and maybe letting the responder first choose which categories to answer.

Otherwise I think there is no way to keep this from becoming too overwhelming. We do want it to be a comprehensive list.

[wingman78]

Great idea, and a surprisingly complete list! I'm not missing anything, but two general remarks:

• Some items should be in multiple categories. Rimming, for example, should be in Anal, Sex and Humiliation.
• What would be extremely cool is expanding the list of toys a bit, then allow everyone to select what toys they have and link posts in the Dares section to that list (e.g. "only show posts that require toys that I have")

[enema slave]

How about separating toys into what people have and a wish list? That would help doms also see what subs might consider getting to have an interest in as well as what they already have

[Bloxo]

It’s a debatable one...but foodplay/sploshing I’d say could be humiliation or for some sensation...but then I think it’s one that crosses the genres...

[CSasha]

Sudden thought, possible brain fart, how about beards, body hair, penis, tits, vagina, muscles, smooth skin, female physical appearance, male physical appearance, androgyn physical appearance, intelligence, dark voice, soft voice of the partner? (for all of these) I know there are sexual preferences of all kinds, but this way you could put penis into limits, pussy on loves, etc.

Similar thought, what about monogamy (I heard it was a thing), affairs (engaging with partners despire an ongoing relationship with another person without them knowing)?

[minimarshmellow]

Hypnosis is really broad in itself. Some popular kinks I have seen in the hypnosis community are bimbofication, dronification, brainwashing, general I/Q play, gentle femme domme, vampire play, and amnesia.