"fuck it" list

[zephyrnem]

I am interested in what it feels like to be shocked and/or work with a tens unit. All the electric toys fascinate me. They are quite expensive it seems and so I don’t see myself getting to work with it. Had a salesman really talk up his equipment. I love different sensations…even into some pain.

Hope this answers your question.

[Phaedo]

We share a good number (or at least mine are on the receiving end as a sub )

* Have a threesome FFM
* Use a sybian and let somebody else be in control of the power
* Use a milking machine (and let somebody else be in control of the power)
* Experience a sensory deprivation session for at least 3 hours
* Be a "sex" slave for 48 hours
* Try a vacuum bed
* Try casting bondage
* Be on display as a "center piece" at an event where guests can tease, pleasure or hurt me in different ways (under guidance of somebody that I trust)
* Pet play scene
* Explore catheter play
* Medical roleplay (with a medical table)

The "center piece" concept is a huge fantasy of mine, especially with sensory deprivation so that the only input is tactile.

Some of my others include:

* Get intimate piercings (nipples and genitals)
* Be tied naked in complex shibari poses for a photo shoot
* Forced nudity while camping/hiking
* Being tied up naked and blindfolded outside where there is risk of being discovered
* Submit to a male/female couple
* Submit to two dommes
* Be given to another mistress for a weekend
* Be dominated with another sub
* Be tied and used on a webcam with strangers remotely controlling toys
* Use a fucking machine while tied up
* Being forced to take viagra, tied up, and used and abused for an extended period
* Be tied in predicament bondage
* Visit a bondage club
* Take a vacation at a BDSM resort

[20171020]

From OP's list:

• Tack bra in public - Yes please (not bra because I'm male but something else with tacks under clothing).
• Receive lasting bruises from impact play (on my ass) - Yes please (not on ass).
• Be forced to wet myself - Yes.
• Explore catheter play - Catheter, sounding, etc. but would really have to be with the right person.

My own:

• Find someone else who goes barefoot all the time or most of the time and do all the foot things with them - By far the biggest, I have quite a foot fetish but also I find the feet of people who wear shoes generally disgusting (even if they are not currently wearing them) so I can't do many of the things that I want to. I love well-developed, toughened, and slightly stained barefooter feet though.
• Go in public while wearing a safety pin pierced in some visible part of my body - Top of my foot because I am always barefoot and I like piercing the top of my foot. Or maybe my arm. Chest if I I'm going shirtless and I want to look really punk. Face if extremely daring.
• Go in public with my nipples clamped under my shirt - Would probably do this one rather than the tacks.
• Go for a swim while wearing a shirt and soak the shirt

[alex_af1996]

Now I’m in a relationship I have a few things I want to try
1. Real life submission
2. Bondage
3. I would love my partner to feminise me
4. Forced oral
5. Outdoor sex
6. Hidden public sex

Things I know she wouldn’t try and we probably won’t speak about is
1. Pegging
2. Urethral sounding

[silverdarknight]

Oooh, interesting idea.

Let's have a go at this...

From the OP:
* Have a threesome FFM
Sortof. The idea that keeps cropping up in my mind is some form of MMF scene with two male subs being made to compete for some reward from the lady. Ie whoever takes the most spanks/ballbusts/biggest dildo/etc/etc gets to undress and play with her, the loser just gets to have suffered for nothing.

* Receive lasting bruises from impact play (on my ass)
Bits of me aching for days after a session? Yes, i think i'd like to try and do that. Also availabe for such abuse would be my junk and my nipples.

* Use a milking machine on a sub
Almost. Having one on my dick and being pumped dry could be interesting, especially as part of a larger humiliaton scene.

* Be on display as a "center piece" at an event where guests can tease, pleasure or hurt me in different ways (under guidance of somebody that I trust)
Another one of my recurring fantasies is having a mistress introduce me to a group of her friends and them all having fun hurting/humiliating me etc.

And, related, a sub girl who would be up for a similar situation where a room full of 'guys night in' get to do whatever they want to/with her.


Other Posters:
* To be deeply humiliated to the point it doesnt excite me and it leaves me feeling completely disgusted with myself.
I rather suspect this is one of those fantasy/reality things where the fantasy is sexy and the reality is miserable.
But, well, this is kinda the appeal of humiliation play to me. That it IS repulsive and degrading and demeaning.
So yeah, i do kinda what to see where that goes.
And it would be nice to have someone prepared to give that much of themselves to me, and actually suffer and disgrace themselves for my amusement.

*To try blackmail with a female sub.
See above. Someone who actually HAS to do whatever the hell i want them to? Oh hell yes.
This is one i'm less interested in being on the receiving end of tho.

*Being pegged
Given it's been mentioned and i havn't yet done it.
Yes, i'm up for being bent over and fucked.


Off the top of my head:
*Use someone as a toilet
Because just gross and intimate and degrading and kinda all sorts of kinky at once.
Similarly, i'm up to be on the receving end.

*Whip someone's tits
Because i get to see the look on their face as i do so. This is often some of my favourite porn, and it would be interesting to try in real life.

*Whip someone's cunt
Similar to the above, but in this case it's more because it would be so incredibly painful - so someone letting me do that to them is incredibly hot.

*Be spanked/whipped/etc to tears
Another one where is suspect the fantasy is intense and challenging and intimate and kinky, and the reality is just miserable.
But it may be interesting to find out.

*Have a lady sit on my face and torture my junk
Another recurring fantasy. I get tied up spreadeagle to a bed, she grinds her crotch into my face whilst i squirm in pain as she abuses my bits.

*Tease the heck out of someone whilst curled up on the sofa
Just lay there for several hours letting my hands wander idlly all over their body and any time they wriggle or moan too much just tell them "shh, we are watching a movie."
Again, i'm up for being on the reciving end of this unsurprisngly.


...and, for that matter, i guess there are elements like 'get spanked over someones knee', 'have my asshole licked', etc but that is more due to the fact i've done a lot more online play and chatting than RL rather than it being some form of fantasy/wish fulfillment thing.

[Kisune Karnon]

I've never really thought of a bucket list. I'll have to think of some.