Are you embarrassed about being a member of this site?

Bloxo · 08-25-2018, 02:47 PM

Hey all,
Okay...before this post is taken the wrong way! I love this site, I feel it provides an incredible community, helps a lot of people to grow and others to fulfil their needs...so I am not knocking this site!
Yes it's not perfect, but show me something better out there!

This thread is born out of curiosity, most users here post quite anomalously, using pretend images, perhaps even lying about certain details of themselves...let's be honest, a lot of the stuff discussed on here is rather taboo...and there are many people out there that would judge us for liking it...

But how do you really feel? How would you react if people you knew found out about your involvement in this site?
Have you ever stumbled upon someone you knew in real life here?

(Apologies if this thread has been done before...I'm sure it must have at some point, but haven't seen anything like this in recent months!)

amethyst353 · 08-25-2018, 02:58 PM

I am very open about my kinks with my friends, but I always refer to "an online kink forum." For some reason, I want to keep this a special place just for me. I may tell stories about what I do to certain friends, but I want it to remain told by me and not witnessed by them.

Truckernaut42 · 08-25-2018, 03:25 PM

I'm not personally embarrassed or ashamed, but I don't think the people in my life would look at me the same knowing I'm on here so I keep it secret.

poetrylover828 · 08-25-2018, 06:04 PM

I wouldn't want a family member to find me on here, but I don't mind friends knowing (actually a few do know).

Jaro · 08-25-2018, 08:47 PM

Nobody knows I'm here and I intend to keep it that way.
Most people are very judgemental and they would think I'm a perverted freak.
Because I actually think of myself as a perverted freak often. Maybe I shouldn't but I do.

suballyzon · 08-25-2018, 10:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaro

Nobody knows I'm here and I intend to keep it that way.
Most people are very judgemental and they would think I'm a perverted freak.
Because I actually think of myself as a perverted freak often. Maybe I shouldn't but I do.

Aww I sometimes feel the same too! Don't worry. Nobody's freak

Only one of my closest friends knows I'm here. She's quite understanding of my kinky side and the only one that doesn't see me as a freak.

elf_ears · 12-14-2018, 08:36 AM

I'm not ashamed or embarrassed about using this site but I enjoy the anonymity. I have friends that are open to kink that I would be happy to share with the fact that I am on here but I wouldn't want to interact with them here as I would not want it to alter their opinion of me.

Pet Ra · 12-14-2018, 04:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Truckernaut42

I'm not personally embarrassed or ashamed, but I don't think the people in my life would look at me the same knowing I'm on here so I keep it secret.

This.
Only two people know about my kinks and that I'm here.

Blue Fox · 12-16-2018, 04:08 PM

Several friends know of several of my kinks, but none know all. And none know I am on here.

EmmaLang · 12-17-2018, 06:31 AM

Many of my friends know I am a member of this site and other adult sites, I do not try and hide it all all.

View Poll Results: how do you feel about being a member here?
I don't care, in fact friends know I am on here!	4	5.71%
I don't care...but wouldn't advertise the fact!	31	44.29%
This is a secret only I will ever know!	31	44.29%
It would be a living nightmare if anyone found out I was here!	4	5.71%
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08-25-2018, 02:47 PM	#1
Bloxo getDare Devil Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: UK/Poland Posts: 1,465 Blog Entries: 69	Are you embarrassed about being a member of this site? Hey all, Okay...before this post is taken the wrong way! I love this site, I feel it provides an incredible community, helps a lot of people to grow and others to fulfil their needs...so I am not knocking this site! Yes it's not perfect, but show me something better out there! This thread is born out of curiosity, most users here post quite anomalously, using pretend images, perhaps even lying about certain details of themselves...let's be honest, a lot of the stuff discussed on here is rather taboo...and there are many people out there that would judge us for liking it... But how do you really feel? How would you react if people you knew found out about your involvement in this site? Have you ever stumbled upon someone you knew in real life here? (Apologies if this thread has been done before...I'm sure it must have at some point, but haven't seen anything like this in recent months!) __________________ 40/m/UK/PL/switch - more dominant Likes/Dislikes/Limits/Toys PM DARES! I'm straight and will only take Dares from Girls, please bear this in mind when writing to me. Please be genuine, be fun and have a good heart...with a sadistic streak hehe...6 inches Curious about me or Poland? check out my Youtube!

08-25-2018, 02:58 PM	#2
amethyst353 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2016 Posts: 498 Blog Entries: 16	I am very open about my kinks with my friends, but I always refer to "an online kink forum." For some reason, I want to keep this a special place just for me. I may tell stories about what I do to certain friends, but I want it to remain told by me and not witnessed by them. __________________ 32\|bi(prefers women)\|trans woman\|sub-leaning switch formerly known as marissa353 loves: humiliation, gags, bodywriting, bondage, games limits: pics with face, messing with sleep, public, heavy blackmail, videos, permanent, scat, extreme pain Note: I transitioned years ago - wearing women's clothes isn't a dare. If you give me a sissy-themed dare, I will ignore you. Full likes/limits \| Toys/Items I Own \| PM Dares (friends only for a bit) \| My current rules

08-25-2018, 03:25 PM	#3
Truckernaut42 getDare Devil Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 1,240 Blog Entries: 14	I'm not personally embarrassed or ashamed, but I don't think the people in my life would look at me the same knowing I'm on here so I keep it secret. __________________ Add my Facebook I love chatting about dirty fantasies, especially public nudity! https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100007149407768 For those under 5 inches, join the small dick club on FB https://www.facebook.com/groups/2901374083525592 Likes: nudity, sph, truths, public nudity, showing my penis As punishment for having a small penis I must show anyone who asks to see it a picture of it. Message me to see it anytime. I am no longer allowed to keep it private.

08-25-2018, 06:04 PM	#4
poetrylover828 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: US Posts: 470 Blog Entries: 4	I wouldn't want a family member to find me on here, but I don't mind friends knowing (actually a few do know). __________________ Likes: rope play, spanking and other forms of light impact play Limits: anal, piss, scat, video, pics, permanent damage Don’t send me messages asking to help with your dare or help you shop. If I want to take parts in dares I will. If you need someone to pick out the things you are buying then you don’t need to being doing dares. I'm not looking for a partner.

08-25-2018, 08:47 PM	#5
Jaro The toe sucking anal slut Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,501 Blog Entries: 299	Nobody knows I'm here and I intend to keep it that way. Most people are very judgemental and they would think I'm a perverted freak. Because I actually think of myself as a perverted freak often. Maybe I shouldn't but I do. __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys Check out my truths and dares here

12-14-2018, 08:36 AM	#7
elf_ears getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2014 Posts: 267 Blog Entries: 10	I'm not ashamed or embarrassed about using this site but I enjoy the anonymity. I have friends that are open to kink that I would be happy to share with the fact that I am on here but I wouldn't want to interact with them here as I would not want it to alter their opinion of me.

12-16-2018, 04:08 PM	#9
Blue Fox getDare Devil Join Date: May 2017 Location: United States Posts: 1,154 Blog Entries: 1	Several friends know of several of my kinks, but none know all. And none know I am on here.

12-17-2018, 06:31 AM	#10
EmmaLang Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Hall Green, Birmingham. UK Posts: 538	Many of my friends know I am a member of this site and other adult sites, I do not try and hide it all all. __________________ Limits - well none really I will try anything. Not looking for a Master, sorry. I am Sub not Dom so sorry but I am not looking for a Slave. Read my dares and let me have new dares please. http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=95735