Butterfly's Matchmaking Service - Page 2

gnii · 02-06-2017, 07:36 AM

This is a very nice idea, and considering the amount of work it involves, I think you deserve some thanks from all the community!

Krakin · 02-06-2017, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Butterfly

For those applying, especially male subs, please consider putting time, effort and care into your responses. I have received over 70 applications for the service, and over 60% are male subs. Take some time to think about what sets your application apart. Please consider giving references (even if they are just friends) and take notice of spelling etc.

I am experiencing a bit of a delay with responding to everybody because of the number of applications I have received, so I do thank you for your patience.

The above statistic is facinating to me. I wonder if this would correlate to the general bdsm world or if this website has an abnormal level of males in it(compared to the bdsm world). I am willing to bet that it is the website and its users.

I would have thought there would be more dominent males; however, most signatures I see are that of a submissive individual.

Butterfly, I am wondering if there is an easy way to modify an application that has already been submitted?

I do not wish to add anymore work to your schedule, my application should be fine. This is not a priority

GentleChoke · 02-06-2017, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Krakin

The above statistic is facinating to me. I wonder if this would correlate to the general bdsm world or if this website has an abnormal level of males in it(compared to the bdsm world). I am willing to bet that it is the website and its users.

I would have thought there would be more dominent males; however, most signatures I see are that of a submissive individual.

I think that if you wonder a bit on FetLife you'll find it's pretty much the same there when it comes to adds. There are doms but they don't need adds. In 24 hours with my add here I received over 10 answers, and it's way above that percentage.

Incredible work indeed, Butterfly :-)

Butterfly · 02-08-2017, 07:52 PM

Going forward I will be deleting ALL messages and applications and response to this thread that DO NOT follow my instructions!

Questions are ok!

Compliments are ok (but not necessary)!

If you have technical diffuculties, message me!

If you make a mistake, message me!

But DO NOT send a message, or leave a comment about who you are looking for without submitting an application.
DO NOT message me 100 times asking me to change your application.
DO NOT message me asking if I have found you a match!

AND

If you are an applicant, DO NOT message to offer your help. I do really appreciate it, but it is a conflict of interest and I cannot accept your help.

littleraisin · 02-08-2017, 09:30 PM

This is the best post i've seen in a while, I've filled out the form. Wonder if anyone is willing to put up with me :P

LitDarkness · 02-09-2017, 06:29 AM

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Originally Posted by karl14

This is the best post i've seen in a while, I've filled out the form. Wonder if anyone is willing to put up with me :P

You seem nice so I'm sure someone will. Why wouldn't they?

littleraisin · 02-09-2017, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by TheKidWithSkills

You seem nice so I'm sure someone will. Why wouldn't they?

I've a lot of kinks so finding someone who is willing to do them might be hard, especially on webcam

hornyatwork · 02-10-2017, 07:13 AM

Fantastic idea, thank you for all your efforts with this.

Faust6 · 02-15-2017, 09:21 AM

Thank you for great service!

Can you please provide us some statistics, e.g how many male, TG and female applicants are there? Just interesting.

react · 02-15-2017, 01:00 PM

This is a great idea, it's really nice of you to be implicate like that in the getdare community

Butterfly · 03-04-2017, 05:30 PM

The matchmaking service is now closed.

Please read my blog with the reasons why: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=82016

Thank you to everybody who applied and I am sorry I was not able to find you a match. I really did do my best.

02-06-2017, 07:36 AM	#16
gnii Distinguished Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: Europe Posts: 741 Blog Entries: 2	Great idea! This is a very nice idea, and considering the amount of work it involves, I think you deserve some thanks from all the community! __________________ Straight male, 35, sub, in good shape, into bladder & orgasm control Likes: bladder control, hidden public, edging, orgasm control, humiliation, pet play, names Limits: scat, pee drinking, social suicide, pain, blood, showing face kik: Thegnii PM dares: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=94813 Currently collecting rules and schedules for my days alone in the house here: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=416645

02-08-2017, 07:52 PM	#19
Butterfly A Butterfly Princess <3 Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 4,677 Blog Entries: 515	Going forward I will be deleting ALL messages and applications and response to this thread that DO NOT follow my instructions! Questions are ok! Compliments are ok (but not necessary)! If you have technical diffuculties, message me! If you make a mistake, message me! But DO NOT send a message, or leave a comment about who you are looking for without submitting an application. DO NOT message me 100 times asking me to change your application. DO NOT message me asking if I have found you a match! AND If you are an applicant, DO NOT message to offer your help. I do really appreciate it, but it is a conflict of interest and I cannot accept your help. __________________ On Hiatus PMs will not be responded to My heart belongs to my Husband: Mr. Devious Being tortured frequently by my Dom SleepySloth Served by my loyal worm Jaro Caring for my little TheBrat Recordings ❤ FAQ ❤ AMA Likes/Limits ❤ Toys Discord: butterfly.cm ❤

02-08-2017, 09:30 PM	#20
littleraisin getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: European Union Posts: 278 Blog Entries: 3	This is the best post i've seen in a while, I've filled out the form. Wonder if anyone is willing to put up with me :P __________________ 27 Years old, EU. Likes: Bladder control, Nudity(hidden), CBT, Pet Play, Cum(as in eating/drinking), spanking, extreme pain Will do(don’t like nor dislike): Semi-Public, lines Dislikes: Anal, Messy Limits: Needles, Involving Family/Friends, Wetting, Permanent, food and blood. Don't be nice, treat it like an object. That's what it is.

02-10-2017, 07:13 AM	#23
hornyatwork Member Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: UK Posts: 39	Thank you Fantastic idea, thank you for all your efforts with this.

02-15-2017, 09:21 AM	#24
Faust6 Member Join Date: Apr 2015 Posts: 50	Thank you for great service! Can you please provide us some statistics, e.g how many male, TG and female applicants are there? Just interesting. __________________ Poll: Are you into anal stretching/fisting?

02-15-2017, 01:00 PM	#25
react Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: FR Posts: 139 Blog Entries: 4	This is a great idea, it's really nice of you to be implicate like that in the getdare community __________________ 28/m Likes:milovana, joi, pee holding, bdsm, armpit, clothepins, light blackmail, hidden-public, feet Dislikes: cum eating, cum play, messy, pain, anal Limits are: scat, family, permanent, blood, face PM Dare - Make me edge

03-04-2017, 05:30 PM	#26
Butterfly A Butterfly Princess <3 Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 4,677 Blog Entries: 515	The matchmaking service is now closed. Please read my blog with the reasons why: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=82016 Thank you to everybody who applied and I am sorry I was not able to find you a match. I really did do my best. __________________ On Hiatus PMs will not be responded to My heart belongs to my Husband: Mr. Devious Being tortured frequently by my Dom SleepySloth Served by my loyal worm Jaro Caring for my little TheBrat Recordings ❤ FAQ ❤ AMA Likes/Limits ❤ Toys Discord: butterfly.cm ❤