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Old 06-15-2016, 09:12 AM   #1
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Default Unofficial getDare PM Dare Commission

I see a lot of people with PM Dares in their signature. Let's be honest, we all love seeing that notification that we have a PM in our inbox (along with some nerves about which PM Dare it may be depending on our list). But how many PM Dares do we get? I know the answer is 'Not enough,' if any at all.

I saw the thread PM Dare Directory and saw a lot of responses about wanting PM's, but not getting any. However, how many of the people that said they wanted more PM Dares actually gave any out?

I posted in that thread and decided to 'pay it forward.' I went and gave a PM Dare to everyone that had posted in that thread (just two pages at that time). Since then, I've made a concerted effort to give out PM Dares every time I'm on getDare. That amounts to about 5 PM Dares a day. It takes very little time and about one out of every three give me a PM Dare back - win-win in my book.

I also added the unofficial getDare PM Dare Commission to my signature to try and raise awareness of the real problem of lack of PM Dares on this site. I'm only one member and I'd like to see the PM Dares grow. So I propose we grow the Commission. I'd like to see more people giving out random PM dares. More people with part of the Commission with a small part of their signature dedicated to spreading awareness.

What does it take to be on the Commission?
1. Post in this thread about your desire to spread PM Dares.
2. Add something in your signature about the Commission plus a PM Dare list
3. And most important....get out there and give some PM Dares. You won't be disappointed.
4. Start by giving a PM Dare to the last 5 people that joined the Commission (posted in this thread)

I'll add you to the Commission list as well. Want a fancy title? PM me and we can come up with something.

Current Commission Members:
Founder: Deniedby_N
Honorary 1st Member: Jaroface
VP of Fun Spreading: WeirdlyTurnedOn
Male Slut: sissypatricia
Just a Giver: wingman78
Organic PM Manager: maxblank
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Commission Queen: sluttyspanker97
Commission Prophet: DanHenceworth
PM Darling:onemoretime83
Babygirl: elayne
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PM Slut: MakingMyWayDowntown
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Old 06-15-2016, 10:26 AM   #2
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I think it's a great Idea. I will start sending pm to anyone who wants it(as it states in their signature) and will want to be part of a comission who cares about the fun around here. Thanks for the word.
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Old 06-15-2016, 10:28 AM   #3
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Just want to say that this is a fantastic idea ;D
Likes: Chastity, being tied up, flirtation, check ins, cute undies. Femme Dom(me)'s,

Mean dares fully shaving down there, body writing, serving multiple tops, pee dares, online punishment records (Tumblr etc), craigslist, being "loaned out", cam(no face).

Limits: face unless we are very familliar

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Old 06-15-2016, 01:06 PM   #4
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I always like PM dares! Excited to give a few out also.
likes: humiliation, dares, edging, cum Play, anal, semi-public, crossdressing, cum eating
dislikes: pain, wedgies, cbt

limits: scat, public, Family

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Old 06-15-2016, 01:18 PM   #5
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Great idea starting this thread. I have to say, since I contacted you I have been giving out PM pretty regularly. I have gotten pretty good responses about that and quite a few PM dares myself which I'm pretty sure I otherwise would not have gotten.

So guys indeed, if your doubting: it's really worth to make the effort. For the community in general and for yourself as well.
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Old 06-15-2016, 01:29 PM   #6
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Even though I don't currently have any PM dares going, I'll try to give at least 3 people a PM dare every time I log on. Great idea!

Likes: Anal, Edging/Teasing, (Self-)bondage, Nipple play, E-stim
Okay: Hidden public, Bladder control, Enema's, Ice, Mild pain, Feminization/CD, Humilitation, Heavy anal, Body writing, Chastity
Dislikes: Extreme pain, Pee, Ass-to-mouth, Heavy Spanking, Toothpaste/Icy Hot/etc, Messy, Cum eating
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Old 06-15-2016, 02:03 PM   #7
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I'll join, this is a great idea.
Person below please don't send me a PM dare though, I prefer to get them organically.

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Old 06-15-2016, 02:22 PM   #8
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I absolutely love this idea. I don't have a list of PM dares anymore, since they are rare anyway. But I'd love to join this commission. I'll do a new List of PM dares for myself soon.

Toys: different sized plugs, big dildo, chains+locks+timeable safe, chastity device, enema kit, blindfold.

Loves: pee control, anything related to pee, anal, pain, semi public, humiliation, dice dares.
Likes: bondage, bodywriting, feet.
punishments:line writing, eating cum, crossdressing, poo.
Limits: illegal, permanent injurys.

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Old 06-15-2016, 03:22 PM   #9
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I love this idea! So in
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Old 06-15-2016, 03:31 PM   #10
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sounds awesome, i will be joining right now!
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Old 06-15-2016, 05:23 PM   #11
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I will be join the PM Dare Commission

Loves: Long Term Rules, Cute things, MLP, hypnosis, being girly, trash, embarrassing shopping/services
Likes: pet play, age play, feminization, full public humiliation, spanking, messy
Limits: Close friends/family, cam, bondage, Public Nudity, Permanent, Crossdressing (soft limit)

I love it when you send me PM Dares!

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Old 06-15-2016, 05:48 PM   #12
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Time to join here! I really want to increase the use of pm dares. If you send me some, send as many as you like
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Old 06-15-2016, 09:42 PM   #13
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Definitely interested in doing this!
Likes: Wedgies, pee holding, minor degradation, corner time, writing lines, anal, body writing, sleep dares, edging, and denial. Open to other, new things

Dislikes: extreme pain, sleep deprivation, fat shaming, really long corner time, rough anal, and extremely long pee and poop denial.

Limits: Pics (unless I trust you), blood, anything I say no to.

Every time I get a PM, I edge 20 times and spank my clit 20 times with a belt.
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Old 06-15-2016, 11:51 PM   #14
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Old 06-16-2016, 01:52 AM   #15
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I will join this too.
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