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05-21-2010, 08:42 PM | #1 |
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How to get higher quality dares when you ask
Asking for dares and not receiving any replies?
Wishing the dares you got are more to your liking? Your wish is our command, but we can't read your mind. I tend to skip the dare requests by those who don't bother to give enough information. If you are in a hurry to do dares right away, ask for quick dares. I tend to spend some time coming up with something at least somewhat unique, though not always. I can't always do this on the fly and usually let my subconscious work on it for a bit. Subject Line: You are requesting dares, let your subject reflect that. Give your age, and your sex as well. The minimum information should be something like: Dares requested 21/f Even better would be: Pubic dares requested 21/f, or Humiliation dares 25m Post Message: The more information you give us, the better your dares will be. The Message:
Post Icon: Before you click submit new thread, select the Post Icon of your sex. You do know which is male and which is female right? After You Finish The Dare: Tell us what happened. Give details. How did you feel? Was it challenging? Your feedback is our reward for giving you the dare. Be generous with it, and you'll get even better dares in the future. If you have anything more to add to this post, please reply to it. I will keep it updated so all the info is in the first message. At least, I’ll do this for awhile and what I think you said is important. And the replier says "blah blah blah".... Last edited by curdares; 05-21-2010 at 09:50 PM. |
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05-22-2010, 02:43 AM | #2 |
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Brilliantly written post, nice one
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05-22-2010, 08:16 AM | #3 |
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Can a mod sticky this? Great info! =))
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06-02-2010, 01:15 PM | #4 |
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I do agree, lets hope we get less "DARE ME NOW ME WANT DARE" threads cropping up.
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06-02-2010, 01:38 PM | #5 |
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Woah.. I didn't expect to see one of my posts as a sticky!
Now I feel obligated to keep it updated like I said I would.... |
09-13-2010, 03:37 AM | #6 |
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I have one more thing to add to the list: don't make the dare write itself. If you already know pretty much exactly what you want to do, don't bother trying to get people to dare you to do it. Dare-givers like to have some creative liscence
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02-15-2012, 09:35 PM | #7 |
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Thanks, and a question
Thanks very much for this advice--from a newbie, it's well-taken.
A question, though: going through the various posts and dares, I seem to be noticing a lot of ageism on the site: basically the more one gets past 30 years old, it seems, the less chance a posting or request for a dare will get much in the way of responses. Though this is the case with women to a degree as well, it seems even more the case with men. It's strange, in our culture (and especially in a venue like this, that would seem to be about gaining greater sexual freedom and acceptance), that there should be that kind of ageism going around, especially since a 40-yea-old guy can be every bit as vigorous and fit as a 29-year-old, while it's also certainly possible that a 21 year old guy can still wind up being overweight and smarmy. So why, in this sort of venue, does it seem that dudes past their twenties are de facto excluded from the game?
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