On my PMS (premenstrual syndrome : set of symptoms that occur the few days before a period due to hormonal changes) I always get these cramps whenever I'm turned on, it's like I start thinking of something or reading something, the arousal goes up but instead of reaching a peak as usual, I get hit by this sudden pain similar to any regular period cramp, then the arousal goes down.

I never had the opportunity to ask other females about that (except one indirectly), not exactly the kinda thing...

Honestly I came to wonder how people manage to enjoy themselves from getting dares from random people on the forums.

I tried to experiment a bit with that lately, especially in the light of the situation where I was about to lose my Dom, and then having him back but in a more limited way, leading me to look at other possibilities of achieving fun.

A lot of things I tried were still fun, I didn't mind the light pussy stretching thread that I made.

But whenever...

I was looking through past blogs of mine and saw I had a post about kink peeves of mine and thought I should counter that with some advice I wish I'd gotten when I first came around gD. I think these virtues would help any kinkster online or in person really, and although they seem obvious I hope it'll help out someone who might be struggling and need some guidance. Please do let me know what you consider to be a kinky virtue!

Virtues of Kink

Patience - You need...

TL/DR: A vibrating wand massager with bluetooth capabilities and several power levels.

Pros: The major draw of this toy is that it can be controlled remotely. There are so many options with Lovense to play with long distance partners - one on one, being controlled by a group, syncing your toy with your partners so they move in tandem and even having it sync to music or a game. The app is very easy to use and I’ve had very few connection issues, it’s definitely...

TL/DR: A set of 4 pieces of jute rope for bondage with a low temperature candle and a storage bag.

Pros: This rope cones in a variety of colors, which drew me to it because I was looking for a very delicate lavender color that they had advertised (more on this later). It was very soft, especially compared to the jute I bought at a local event. The shipping was very quick and packaged securely and discreetly. The candle and storage bag were...

Forum Games

✓ writing 42 lines

✗ 1 day in denial
✓ 3/3 days in denial
✓ 200 strokes in one session before end of denial
✓ 200 strokes (distribution unspecified) before end of denial
✓ 5/5 edges before end of denial



PM Dares / Keyword Threads

✓ wax melt
✓ blindfold 7 on tiptoe
.. stretch 10
✓ peg twist
✓ blindfold 15 hands behind back
✓ corner time

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This is the list I said I will make based on the suggestions in my thread Make my first PM dare list and it's only temporary, it will be edited entirely in the future.

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Peg twist | placing a peg on each nipple and twisting each peg 180° for 1 mn


Wax melt | melting the equivalent of 1 teaspoon of wax on my nipples


Stretch x | inserting x pens/markers

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