March 15 marks 6 years of me being on getDare (I had a previous account before this one). So much has changed in 6 years. This site has really changed my life.

Also, this is my 400th blog post. 400!!! I honestly can't believe it.

So I decided to use this post to compare then versus now.

THEN

When I first joined getDare, I was shy, blushy and inexperienced. I couldn't say words like butt plug or enema out loud, never mind cock! I had never watched...

Releasing my male sub from a long period of chastity. Giving him the chance of having an orgasm if he can get it done in 60 seconds. Before letting him fuck a fleshlight I get him nice and hard with my mouth and then put numbing lotion on his leaking cock followed by 3 condoms. I start the timer and watch him frantically fuck the fleshlight continuing to grow more and more frustrated as he realized he is running out of time.

When the timer beeps, I stop him, remove the condom and gently...

I am big believer that both a bottom and a top have a responsibility for their own safety while engaging in any type of kink activity or relationship. This not only includes their physical well being, but it extends to their mental wellbeing as well.

This is why it is important to do research about the activities that you are participating in, and use proper communication tactics like negotiating, setting limits and using safewords.

The edgier the play, the more important...

Today I turned 31 ... or actually probably more like 5 and a half. I feel absolutely overwhelmed with the love and attention given to me by those in my life. Family, friends and kinkster from around the world reached out to me in messages, letters, and phone calls all day.

I received gifts today that were just perfect for me. So much thought and love went into them.

Among the most mentionable was a package that arrived from the Netherlands with two special stuffies in...

I have been doing a lot more play lately since a certain somebody entered my life (*cough cough* Analyst).

Nipple Pendulum
This was awhile ago so the details are getting a little fuzzy. The gist of the play session was that I was tied to a stool using rope and then my new Domi2 (OMG you need this vibe!) was tucked nicely against my clit. I attached little pink metal buckets to the clover clamps and then attached them to my nipples. Analyst controlled the Domi2 bringing closer and...

Frosty just wrote up a report on our session over here but as she alluded to she is often prone to missing out one or two little juicy snippets that I'm sure you'd like to read about and well lucky I'm here to help with her "memory".

We were having a session this afternoon so I thought it would be a nice gesture to ask the delightful and wonderful asslvr's.butterfly if she had any suggestions for what Frosty should be made to do. Well being the angelic cheeky little bratterfly...

There were 5 parts to my sentence for being found Guilty in The Trial of Jane@
https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=89006
This is a report of the third part a positive punishment.

The Judges have sat and agreed the following:
1. 4 days locked 24/7 in chastity when HIM comes back home next time.
2. Allow the Judges to monitor internet use and access.
3. 40 punishment cane strokes To be administered by K under the supervision of Mistress D
4....