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Pooh is my spirit animal

Posted 02-17-2019 at 12:22 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I have been watching Christopher Robin today. If you haven't watched it, you absolutely MUST! It really is great. As I was sitting here giggling through the movie, I realized that I can really relate to Winnie the Pooh. In fact, I think he is my spirit animal.

Here are some of the similarities:

Hungry
Pooh is always hungry, and has a rumbly in his tumbly. He also has a sweet tooth, which is why he chooses honey. I am the same! I love chocolate and sweets. Although...

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A Butterfly Princess <3

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Why I need two Doms

Posted 02-17-2019 at 08:00 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I feel like recently I have been judged a little bit about my decision to search for a co-dom.

First of all, I want to say that yes, I have a husband. A wonderful, amazing husband who I love dearly. We met on getDare almost 5 years ago. We met when he responded to my ad looking for a Dom.

He absolutely blew me away. For the first time ever, I didn't get burnt out in my submission. Not only did he open a whole new world of kink for me, but he also captured my heart. ...

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Sloth Day!!!!

Posted 02-16-2019 at 08:43 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Today was one of the best days ever! I got to meet a sloth <3 I was so excited I was ready to burst. I almost cried when Chloe came on stage.

I am obsessed with sloths right now. I have FOUR sloth stuffies (Sunday, Bedhead, Sid and Flash). They are so adorable, but nothing compared to a real live sloth!

(If you don't believe me, watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XqzdHTpKJbw)

So when I found out that a real live sloth was coming to our City and...

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Compliments & Positivity

Posted 02-16-2019 at 08:02 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I have struggled a lot through the years with self image and loving myself. When all you hear is negative things about yourself, you have nothing else to believe. Those things you hear, they feel true, they become your reality.

Since I have met Mr. Devious, I have been on a journey to learn to love myself. It started with me believing that he truly felt like I was adorable, beautiful, sexy, caring, worthy, etc.

After awhile, I was able to start to see little glimpses of...

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My Edging Bitch is AWESOME

Posted 02-15-2019 at 10:10 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

This was a blog topic suggested for me in this thread.

For those that don't know, I have a few casual play partners who I can call upon when the mood to torture somebody strikes. This saves Jaro from my sadistic side at times, or sometimes it works out that it gives me even more inspiration to torture him.

Dman1212 is one of those play partners. He is my edging bitch. Many times I will feel sadistic and will send him a message that says something along the lines of "You...

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Ownership

Posted 02-15-2019 at 11:55 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I have always been fiercely independent. I needed to be. Growing up, I had adult responsibilities by the time I turned 10. I raised my newborn brother: bathed him, fed him, put him to sleep.

My mom and I moved out of my dads house when I was 16. I saw her struggle and conquer as we rebuilt a life together. We did things for ourselves. We both worked hard to provide for our family. I had to fight with her because she couldn't do it alone.

Because of this, even with my mom,...

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The Unknown

Posted 02-13-2019 at 10:34 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

The unknown is scary.

I have always struggled with the unknown.

Surprises make me antsy. Honestly I am terrified that somebody is going to try and throw me a surprise party one day! If I find out before hand, I am NOT showing up. Being truly surprised is one thing, but the anticipation and lead up to it is the worst.

I am a planner. I want to know. I want to prepare myself. But if I don't know then I can't prepare. I can't plan. I can't .... function!...

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