I was looking through past blogs of mine and saw I had a post about kink peeves of mine and thought I should counter that with some advice I wish I'd gotten when I first came around gD. I think these virtues would help any kinkster online or in person really, and although they seem obvious I hope it'll help out someone who might be struggling and need some guidance. Please do let me know what you consider to be a kinky virtue!

Virtues of Kink

Patience - You need...

TL/DR: A vibrating wand massager with bluetooth capabilities and several power levels.

Pros: The major draw of this toy is that it can be controlled remotely. There are so many options with Lovense to play with long distance partners - one on one, being controlled by a group, syncing your toy with your partners so they move in tandem and even having it sync to music or a game. The app is very easy to use and I’ve had very few connection issues, it’s definitely...

TL/DR: A set of 4 pieces of jute rope for bondage with a low temperature candle and a storage bag.

Pros: This rope cones in a variety of colors, which drew me to it because I was looking for a very delicate lavender color that they had advertised (more on this later). It was very soft, especially compared to the jute I bought at a local event. The shipping was very quick and packaged securely and discreetly. The candle and storage bag were...

Forum Games

✓ writing 42 lines

✗ 1 day in denial
✓ 3/3 days in denial
✓ 200 strokes in one session before end of denial
✓ 200 strokes (distribution unspecified) before end of denial
✓ 5/5 edges before end of denial



PM Dares / Keyword Threads

✓ wax melt
✓ blindfold 7 on tiptoe
.. stretch 10
✓ peg twist
✓ blindfold 15 hands behind back
✓ corner time

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This is the list I said I will make based on the suggestions in my thread Make my first PM dare list and it's only temporary, it will be edited entirely in the future.

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Peg twist | placing a peg on each nipple and twisting each peg 180° for 1 mn


Wax melt | melting the equivalent of 1 teaspoon of wax on my nipples


Stretch x | inserting x pens/markers

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TL/DR: A high quality, original, fun impact toy with stunning colors.

I am a big fan of impact and wanted some variety on implements, so I’ve been trying to seek out some unique options through small businesses on Etsy.

Pros: This toy is stunning - the pale pink of the stands are totally my color and I love the copper detail on the handle. It is really great quality, the vinyl is really smooth and the handle is heavy in a...

During my first week or two here, I got totally carried away by this whole thing. I was receiving requests from all directions, trying everything with everyone - now this was inevitable cause I wouldn't have known what I wanted if I didn't try things, I wouldn't have found the right Dom for me if I hadn't played with a few, and I wouldn't even know how much I appreciated him if I didn't have other experiences to compare to.

So there is nothing I regret about how the first days went, they...