So, as I've begun to grow and mature, I realized that I was attracted to women, but I also liked boys. Guess who was trying to figure out their sexuality at fourteen! Me.

Some of you might be thinking, But techie! I thought you were a lesbian. In fact, it says so in your signature! and you would be right! I am a lesbian (or well, homoflexible) but when I was fourteen, I thought I was bisexual. It's only recently that I've realized there are so few men I'm attracted to that I classify more...

Safe words are phrases or a single word decided upon in a D/s relationship before a scene starts or any kinky activity is engaged in.

The most typical safe words you might here are Green, Yellow, Red. These are actually the safe words I use. Usually, the usage of these words are universal.
Green: Everything is fine. I'm okay. More.
Yellow: Slow down. Change what we're doing.
Red: Stop. I'm scared. I'm hurt. No more. End the scene. No.

Why not just say...

It really isn't that difficult and this will be a pretty obvious explanation, but whatever.

Some of you know that I enjoy playing with ice, specifically inserting ice into my ass. I've done it so many times it's amazing it even affects me.

A few things you should keep in mind

• Everyone is different
• Anal isn't for everyone, even if it's just ice
• Water will leak out of your ass
• It isn't really an enema, but it can sort of be used as one if you want
• It's cold. Like

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Just so you know, this won't actually teach you how to stop subdropping, why you drop, or how to get over a subdrop. The title is a lie.

For those of you who don't know, subdropping is something that happens to (you guessed it) submissives after a scene.

The most common subdrop I know of is caused by an endorphin rush after a scene finishes. The sub is usually filled with intense emotion either by climax, pleasing their dom, or anything else that can happen in subspace....

Recently, I have realized that I'm not just a bottom, but I am also a brat.

What's the difference? Well, the definition of different roles in a kinky relationship varies from person to person, but this is how I view it and you may not, your dom might not, and your sub might not, but this is how I view these things.

A bottom doesn't want to submit, they want to be dominated. They usually will not play outside of a scene, meaning once the scene is over so is their submission...

I have had a dare given to me recently, this is it:


your first orgasm is free.
second costs you one edge
third - 2 edges
fourth - 4 edges
fifth - 8 edges
etc.
the cost goes exponentially, so the edges series would go {0,1,2,4,8,16,32,64,128,256...}
as you can see, your 10th orgasm would be very expensive, but you could always ask for dares to get reduction on edges.

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I promise you, last thing tonight.

Haven't put a poem on here in a while. Wanted to share something I've been working on for a while. This probably isn't the finished thing, but it's something I'm happy enough with the post. Please enjoy:

The Party.

I walk through the door
and take greetings galore.
Kisses from the Mrs,
for the side of my jaw.
My coat is taken,
while my hand is shaken,
and I hear conversation makin’...