A random assortment of reports, thoughts, ramblings and information. Pretty much a view inside my wonderfully complicated, sometimes broken, and entertaining mind.
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Posted 03-24-2018 at 10:47 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 06-22-2018 at 07:29 PM by Butterfly
MAN!
Haven't you heard? I am a man.
It is news to me too. I have been so confused my whole life. I am so glad that I can finally know who I am. And it only took some random demanding pseudo dom to make it clear to me.
Now that I have that out of the way, let me explain what happened ...
I recently reposted an ad. Mr. Devious and I have been looking for a co-domme. You can see the ad here.
I am pretty clear that pictures and...
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Posted 03-19-2018 at 01:11 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 03-19-2018 at 01:16 PM by Butterfly
One of Jaroface's rules is to write a blog every Sunday. Typically this blog is supposed to be an update on how our dynamic is progressing, how his rules are going, what new tasks have we made him do, and he gets to share with you all the horrors that we put him through for your enjoyment. Jaro also writes private reports to Icey and I a few times a week, so none of the information that he provides in his blogs is very shocking to us. But I like that he has to share some of the details with everybody...
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Posted 03-18-2018 at 07:29 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Awhile ago I posted a blog about using safewords in online relationships. You can read that blog here if you wish.
As much as I acknowledge that safewords are important, I know that safewording can sometimes have a stigma attached to it. I know a lot of subs that will feel like a failure or as though they are disappointing their top by using their safeword. I think that this can be a very dangerous view point, but I won't get into that right now. What I want to write about today is the...
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Posted 03-16-2018 at 11:40 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
WARNING: This blog is about REAL life ... it has NOTHING to do with kink. It has EVERYTHING to do with heavy, depressing, sad feelings. Please do not read if you are expecting something fun. There is a genuine possibility of you feeling sad while reading. That is not my intention, I just needed somewhere to share my feelings.
For those of you who don't know, I recently lost my aunt. She had been sick for a few years. It started with her kidneys a few years ago, and because she didn't...
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Posted 02-20-2018 at 09:02 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 03-15-2018 at 07:29 PM by Butterfly
I am a negative Nelly. I can admit it. I am a worry wart. I always seem to think the worst will happen.
Mr. Devious frequently has to remind me to not be negative or down on myself. He pushes me to think about the positive outcomes of a situation rather than focus on the negative. Which actually pisses me off at times, but I do appreciate it.
When you have been through as much shit as I have in your life, it is hard to stay focused on the good things. Years of abuse, neglect,...
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Posted 02-16-2018 at 07:11 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 03-15-2018 at 07:30 PM by Butterfly
I talk about the importance of communication A LOT! You are probably rolling your eyes at me right now. I know you have heard the spiel ... communication is the more important blah blah ... You know I am right! But that is not what I am saying in this blog, I promise!
Yes, communication is the MOST important part of any relationship. It is a vital skill that I feel a lot of people are lacking. Good communication can solve so many issues. But ... it doesn't matter if you are the best communicator...
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Posted 02-14-2018 at 02:15 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 03-15-2018 at 07:37 PM by Butterfly
There are three types of people; those who love Valentines day, those who hate it, and those who ignore it. I am one of those people who LOVE it! Normally on Valentines Day I will buy small treats for my friends and family, and something bigger for my partner. Nothing huge, but something that has some meaning. I will usually cook something special, and I like to make myself chocolate covered strawberries. I...
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