A random assortment of reports, thoughts, ramblings and information. Pretty much a view inside my wonderfully complicated, sometimes broken, and entertaining mind.
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Posted 03-20-2018 at 08:00 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Eeeek!!! I am so excited!
For Valentines Day I got a new collar, and it finally arrived! I got to wear it for the first time today, and I love it so much!
Let me start at the beginning ...
When Mr. Devious and I first started our D/s relationship, he wanted me to wear something every day as a symbol of my submission. We discussed the fact that I was clausterphobic...
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Posted 03-19-2018 at 01:11 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 03-19-2018 at 01:16 PM by Butterfly
One of Jaroface's rules is to write a blog every Sunday. Typically this blog is supposed to be an update on how our dynamic is progressing, how his rules are going, what new tasks have we made him do, and he gets to share with you all the horrors that we put him through for your enjoyment. Jaro also writes private reports to Icey and I a few times a week, so none of the information that he provides in his blogs is very shocking to us. But I like that he has to share some of the details with everybody...
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Posted 03-18-2018 at 07:29 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Awhile ago I posted a blog about using safewords in online relationships. You can read that blog here if you wish.
As much as I acknowledge that safewords are important, I know that safewording can sometimes have a stigma attached to it. I know a lot of subs that will feel like a failure or as though they are disappointing their top by using their safeword. I think that this can be a very dangerous view point, but I won't get into that right now. What I want to write about today is the...
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Posted 03-18-2018 at 12:16 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
I am working through some of the items on my kinky bucket list. Mr. Devious and I asked for your help to decide what to do next, and you chose that you wanted me to be teased and denied actively for 5 hours!!
I want to preface this to say that this report may not be as detailed as my reports are normally. This is due to a few things: a) It was A LONG DAY! My brain was foggy from being teased and we did A LOT of things to get me sufficiently teased. I also completed at least 150 edges throughout...
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Posted 03-16-2018 at 11:40 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
WARNING: This blog is about REAL life ... it has NOTHING to do with kink. It has EVERYTHING to do with heavy, depressing, sad feelings. Please do not read if you are expecting something fun. There is a genuine possibility of you feeling sad while reading. That is not my intention, I just needed somewhere to share my feelings.
For those of you who don't know, I recently lost my aunt. She had been sick for a few years. It started with her kidneys a few years ago, and because she didn't...
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Posted 03-15-2018 at 03:40 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
I created a truth thread today that asks questions about the person who posted above you. Since I posted, naturally the first response was about me. Diapered_prince mentioned that he would like to know how I met my husband and how I came to own Jaroface. So I decided to put it in a blog for you all to read.
How I met my husband
Mr. Devious and I met right here on getDare.
In the spring of 2014 I was very unhappy. I was engaged to a man, we will call him W, who I...
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Posted 03-12-2018 at 09:16 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Recently Mr. Devious and I posted a poll to help us choose which of my bucket list items we were going to attempt next.
This past weekend, the opportunity arose to try the winning task: be spanked in front of others at a play party.
Here is how it happened ....
A few months ago, I was having a conversation with my (real life) best friends about kink and how Mr. Devious and I were starting to attend events and get involved in the local kink community. One...
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