I have been pretty open for the last 18 months or so about my struggles and recovery with anorexia and bulimia after years of hiding it from everyone who was even a little bit close to me.

The majority of the last 18 months have been very good in terms of recovery and sensible eating (except for enjoying junk food too much after years of denying myself any.) Of course there have been a few slips such as a few days of not eating or a binge and then throwing up or constant hours of exercise-...

There are two people in my life that I love in an incomparable way,
My sister and my girlfriend.
I’m thankful for both of them every single day.

My sister has been with me through every endeavor and hardship I’ve faced. The highs, the lows, the downs, the ups, the weakest and the darkest, and the happiest moments of my life. The relationship I share with her is one of the things that I value most in my life. She has helped me through experiences and her love and support have...

Thanks to this post about the difference between a submissive and a slave I've decided to get something off my mind by writing it down. Sine I joined getDare over half a year ago I have seen plenty of requests from potential slaves compared to very few from potential Masters and Mistresses. Partly it's the lack of effort that I cannot stand, I have written about that, but even more, I oppose the myth or thinking pattern which stands behind such attitude:

I want to be your slave, so you...

Note-this is solely my opinion.

I always identified as a submissive. I hated the word slave and was sure that would never be me. I originally viewed a slave who was someone who had no input, no limits and was forbidden from stating their thoughts feelings or concerns.

I am a brat. I have an opinion on everything. If I feel something is unsafe, beyond my capabilities or just stupid then you are going to know about it right away. So I couldn't be a slave...could I?
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It's been a while ago that I have been dared to "STRIP, PLUG and GAG. Get down on all fours like this and stay like that, not for 5 minutes, but until you complete at least 1 of your CHORES." and also "to SISSIFY." Before you get the idea to give me new PM dares but also as a background detail, I have been put my PM dares out of order. I have just gathered up so many of them, couldn't do them for a couple of weeks and then didn't complete any due to demanding real life foci.
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Ball vs o-ring gags
This is wunnolf's opinion and experiences. You might not agree and that is fine. This comes from an evening thinking and trying out the gags the previous day again. Really they are awesome.
Ball gag -
This has become one of my favourite toys to play with. It fills my mouth quite easily and it takes a while for my mount to really start hurting.
Drooling happens but not very quickly and 90% of the noise coming from my mouth is muffled.
With the...

My pet has been very open with the fact that he is not very good at edging. He will be edging along nicely and all of a sudden ... a ruin! It is something that he has become a little better at controlling since we started practicing, but it is still pretty frequent.

It has never really bothered me, because I know it is something that he can't really prevent from happening. I know he isn't deliberately breaking a rule or finding a loop hole around the rule. It just happens.
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