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The 5 Love Languages

Posted 02-18-2019 at 09:33 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Through the process of trying to find a co-dom, as well as working through some things in counselling, I have been learning a lot about myself. Every time we learn something new about ourselves, I think it is beneficial and only allows us to implement actions that make us feel happier.

Knowledge is power!

I recently took the 5 Love Languages test. For those that have never heard of this before, the love languages help to describe the way we feel loved and appreciated by...

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The small print

Posted 02-18-2019 at 01:31 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

For those that don't know, I am in communication with a special Dom friend. Nothing is official yet, however, we are in trial mode and seeing how things go. On March 1 we will decide if we are going to continue.

As we have been learning about each other, my special Dom friend has learned that there were some secret parts that he neglected to read in our Contract. I decided to be nice and give him a second chance to read the fine print that he missed (you really can't blame him, he is...

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February Dare of the Month - Self Love

Posted 02-17-2019 at 07:17 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

One of the February Dare of the Month choices was titled: Self Love. The premise was that you would write positive, loving words on yourself and then treat yourself to some "loving".

I have a hard time saying positive things about myself, so what I did was think of 5 and then I created a thread where others would have the chance to leave me compliments.

I was overwhelmed with the number of responses and the amazing, loving, positive words people had to share...

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Pooh is my spirit animal

Posted 02-17-2019 at 12:22 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I have been watching Christopher Robin today. If you haven't watched it, you absolutely MUST! It really is great. As I was sitting here giggling through the movie, I realized that I can really relate to Winnie the Pooh. In fact, I think he is my spirit animal.

Here are some of the similarities:

Hungry
Pooh is always hungry, and has a rumbly in his tumbly. He also has a sweet tooth, which is why he chooses honey. I am the same! I love chocolate and sweets. Although...

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Why I need two Doms

Posted 02-17-2019 at 08:00 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I feel like recently I have been judged a little bit about my decision to search for a co-dom.

First of all, I want to say that yes, I have a husband. A wonderful, amazing husband who I love dearly. We met on getDare almost 5 years ago. We met when he responded to my ad looking for a Dom.

He absolutely blew me away. For the first time ever, I didn't get burnt out in my submission. Not only did he open a whole new world of kink for me, but he also captured my heart. ...

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Sloth Day!!!!

Posted 02-16-2019 at 08:43 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Today was one of the best days ever! I got to meet a sloth <3 I was so excited I was ready to burst. I almost cried when Chloe came on stage.

I am obsessed with sloths right now. I have FOUR sloth stuffies (Sunday, Bedhead, Sid and Flash). They are so adorable, but nothing compared to a real live sloth!

(If you don't believe me, watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XqzdHTpKJbw)

So when I found out that a real live sloth was coming to our City and...

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Compliments & Positivity

Posted 02-16-2019 at 08:02 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I have struggled a lot through the years with self image and loving myself. When all you hear is negative things about yourself, you have nothing else to believe. Those things you hear, they feel true, they become your reality.

Since I have met Mr. Devious, I have been on a journey to learn to love myself. It started with me believing that he truly felt like I was adorable, beautiful, sexy, caring, worthy, etc.

After awhile, I was able to start to see little glimpses of...

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