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Hello folks, dear readers and friends,

Very recently I had a brief reminder about play and rules again. Last times it was more about overdoing it and taking care of yourself. This time it's not about sticking to rules not only as a paragraph to stick to the rules.

I put up a new add thread, free-for-all this time. So everyone can make a promise there about what to do controlled by others, in this case via posts. And of course, when we make such a promise, we want others...

You should welcome unexpected opportunities with open arms. And I happily did. What started as a casual hello quickly changed to the topic of financial control. It seems that I had forgotten about a thread I had posted two years ago on this topic. Who would've thought that such an old thread would bear fruits now; certainly not me. We stayed on the topic and it quickly became clear that both of us were interested in starting something with at its core; financial control. Honestly, the opportunity couldn't...

In the current situation, I am fortunate to be allowed to work from home, which means I am going to have all my toys and even comfortable to wear chastity during my work hours. Nothing nude or otherwise exposing due to video calls though.

Now I ask myself, what did you enjoy most of all I did so far? PM dares, add threads, or anything else, and which ones in detail?

I casually played blackmail with about three partners. Nothing big. Actually, I didn't need to chase people for that, quite the contrary. I get the potential thrill about being (playfully) blackmailed. On the other hand, so far, it had that huge issue.

Now inspired by this post by RiskyFlame I got some new thoughts.

If you are being blackmailed without your consent, contact the mods for help and your local authorities. Don't give in to any illegal blackmailers. You risk...

I have recently acquired a new sub. It honestly came out of the blue and while Jaro was supportive, he was naturally interested in what the differences were in our dynamics. So I decided to write this blog ...

Kink Life
Jaro is relatively new to BDSM. I was his first Domme but before me he wasn’t sure if being a sub was really for him. He has dabbled in giving out tasks here and there and even discussed with a few people a D/s arrangement where he was in the D role, but I think...

Ok, so I've always wanted to get one of those fucking machines? ya know, the kind that you get all tied up and they just plow you relentlessly for hours on hours on hours? ... right. yea, one of those. I've always wanted one for ... erm... studdies. xD

I've wondered how many forced orgasms could I achieve if i were strapped into a fucking machine for an hour? and so, with the use of my tax return, I went online and found one!

It was off Amazon, so I trust that ill get it....