After Butterfly and I tied on the vs thread we did a little while ago, this was the blog topic she gave me. It's taken me a while to get to it but finally here it is!

As a Domme:

The pros:

~Shared responsibility.
If either of us has other things going on or need to be absent or are sick, busy etc we can let the other one know and plan accordingly. It means that Jaro isn't left to his own devices if one of us can't be around.

~One of us...

Around 12 years ago, I bought my first skirt, and a corsage-like bra. The skirt was ugly and too tight around the legs, the bra just hilariously disfunctional. Shortly before, I had fucked my ass with self-made dildos for the first time. I enjoy to be fucked. Partly I enjoy it physically, partly it hurts, plus it is exhausting. But most of my joy is being desired, teasing by my physical existence, and being a joy and relief. Though I am fortunately only average size and shape, I am not a man. I don't...

I am tired of dealing with people who feel they are entitled to something. Nobody owes you anything!

Other than the basics (food, water, etc.) you don't just automatically deserve anything. You have to work for the things that you want.

Nobody is entitled to my body, my attention, my respect, my love. You have to earn that!
...

I need a break.

getDare has always meant so much to me, but lately it has been a source of heartache.

I have been feeling hurt. I have been feeling attacked. I have been feeling so incredibly anxious.

Right now, getDare is not feeling like the happy, safe place it used to be. And so, I need a break.

I am walking away for the rest of the week. I will return on Sunday to help finish the King Election and to "crown" the King. I will...

A recent task Jaro recieved from the election promises, AM then modified and had me do the same task as he liked it quite a lot. And then decided I would blog the report to make me extra blushy.

The final modified task for me to complete became the following:

Quote:

Write slut and whore in massive block bold letters on each tit, insert ben wah balls and blindfold self. Pose in front of the window for two minutes naked while stroking clit.

After some discussion...

I meant to write this a while ago so I might have forgotten some parts but I'm sure AM will add them if I have. Anything in italics were my thoughts at the time.

Sooo a while ago I asked AM if we could do interrogation play again and he said yes. A few days after he told me to get my wand, gag and clamps, clingfilm, a towel and a pillow case and go upstairs and turn my laptop on. So I got everything and went to my bedroom, turned the laptop on and he called me and told me to strip naked....

AM wanted me to write an essay on what I thought the top five qualities any Dom should have were. I said it would be difficult to squash it into only five and so he said I didn't have to restrict it to only five. So...I didn't.

What are the five top qualities ANY Master should have? Patience, understanding, respect, love and trust.

What are the top gazillion MY Sir should have? In no particular order:

1: Intelligence: If I am not asking for examples, clarifications,...