Finding a Dom or Sub. What to do and not to do.

[Night-1991]

After an experience with someone who turned out to be fake earlier. I've compiled a list.


_What to do for Doms_

1. Make sure you put GOOD DETAIL into your posts.
2. Have a Webcam to prove who you are.
3. If someone asks to see your webcam for proof. LET THEM.
4. Be polite
5. Respect your slaves limits, let them have a break if it gets too much.

_What NOT to do for Doms_

1. NEVER ask for money
2. DO NOT deny a sub a right to see your webcam
3. Don't make noobish posts
4. Don't be an asshole
5. Never push your slave too far
6. NEVER ask to see webcam straight away, talk to them first and get to know them.

And now for the subs....

_What to do for subs_

1. Introduce yourself properly to a Dom, no one liners or anything like that.
2. If they deny a request to see webcam, LEAVE.
3. Always show respect to the Dom
4. Talk before they ask for webcam, if they ask straight away. LEAVE. They arn't worth wasting time over.

_What NOT to do for subs_

1. DO NOT answer a thread noobishly like "i be your slave"
2. Don't be disrespectful
3. Don't continue to talk to the Dom if you feel uncomfortable about them.
4. Don't activate webcam for them straight away. Talk and get to trust them.

Does anyone have anything else to add?