What a?re your limits? How far have you been

SissiCD · 04-14-2009, 12:09 AM

Heres a questionnaire which I hope you will all find interesting and answer honestly

Firstly say if you are male or female
Then make a list of all your limits and fetishes
After each one answer the following (in detail if possible).

Q? How close have you ever come to this limit?
Q? Have you ever gone beyond this limit and how was it?
Q? Would you be willing to explore this limit and possibly go beyond?

Add all you can and post again if you forgot something or wish to elaborate

My own answers will follow. Please put your answers in an order like I have done mine

lil'baby-jo · 04-14-2009, 12:20 AM

My hard limits r:

Deffo no family/friends - when I was doing bondage one time, my brother walked in! Luckily only my ankle was still tied so I could hide it = scary yet exciting.

no pics or webcam - never shared pics or webcam.

Limits:

nothing 2 disgusting - I haven't really broken this, apart from did a little anal which before hand would have seen as really disgusting = Ok I suppose.

loads of pain - Never had loads of pain because I daren't yet, but have used clothes pegs and toothpaste = kind of painful (lol) but also induced pleasure. Also found out I have quiet a high pain tolerence.

Overall reaching and breakng limits is scary but quiet fun, although some I won't break.

xXx JoJo xXx

Catalyst · 04-14-2009, 12:27 AM

Crossdressing - Not really that I wouldn't do it, just don't have the clothes for it. I would try some, but only in private

Scat - Nothing of the sort

Drinking Pee - Have tasted it, and thats why its on here. Might do it for a mistress or something, but never on my own again

Messy - Not much of anything, maybe peeing on myself. Might do it if i lived alone, or for someone.

Family and Friends - Nothing really, once played truth or dare, but doesnt really count. If my friends were never going to say anything, but cant rely on them.

SissiCD · 04-14-2009, 01:20 AM

Male

Fetishes and limits

Family
a: Never
a: Absolutely not
a: Absolutely not

Kids
a: Never
a: Absolutely not
a: Absolutely not

Animals
a: Never
a: Absolutely not
a: Absolutely not

Public Exhibitionism
a: Yes
a: ran around the block butt naked as a dare
a: I only do this for dares and it must be with minimum risk

Private Exhibitionism
a: Few limits
a: Lots
a: At a party or in a game no holds barred within reason.
On webcam I dont expose to others without good communication.

Cross dressing:
a: very few limits.
a: Lots and lots
a: I wont go in the street dressed but will at clubs or parties and on cam.

Pain
a: yes and no
a: My limits are extreme pain.
a: I have and will accept clothes pegs and nipple clamps on all parts. Also hot wax within reason.
I love spanking, both giving and receiving

Homosexuality
a: Have experienced
a: I have been close to full sex with other males but as a rule I'd say I am not really gay. Then I'm not closed to the idea I just havent met a guy tht I really fancy enough. I once sucked a guy for a dare at a part. Can't say I was wild about it.
a: willing to explore but will be very choosy as to who with

Bondage:
a: Have done
a: Willing for most both as sub or Dom (I'm a switch)
a: Only with someone I know and trust and who feels comfortable about it with me

Humiliation
a: have experienced this
a: not without respect or in public.
a: with the right person

Roleplay
a: have done
a: often. I'm adventurous
a: I think roleplay can be fun and a great way to live out fantasy

Anal
a: have given, never(really not) received. Have used a dildo on myself
a:have done with several girlfriends and once with a guy. Hav been fingered there during sex
a: Anally I am still a virgin. I often fantasize to be with a girl wearing a strap-on. I've been unlucky so far because whenever I've been with a girl that wanted to no strap-on was available

Masturbation
a: yes, of course
a: almost daily, with and without others. I have masturbated on cam with a girl who also masturbated. I think masturbation is good for you. Have done in front of others at dare partys
a: still will of course

Cyber sex
a: Not my favorite way
a: Have done
a: I wont go out of my way for it but will do if it feels right. It will never substitute the real thing

Golden showers
answer: a couple of times
answer: I have peed on someone and been peed on. It was in the shower and we were very clean and hygenic. I wouldnt go as far as drinking it. mine or someone else's and I wouldn't expect someone else to either.

Scat
a: Never
a: Absolutely not
a: Absolutely not

Blood
a: never
a: Absolutely not
a: Absolutely not

Cum
a: Have drunk it
a: have drunk my own but I'm not wild about it. I would only do it at the command of a special misstress if at all
a: possibly

I may be adding to this later when more comes to mind

Basically I feel that sex is a gift that we should cherish and explore and respect is very important andeven more so for sub/Dom relationships.
Humility doesnt mean disrespect.

hottomato · 04-15-2009, 08:33 AM

This is interesting.
I'm going to reply to this one
I'm working on it

jess_i_kka · 04-16-2009, 04:04 PM

I haven't really thought about limits. I kinda just say stop when it doesn't feel right. I'm done more than I would have thought and have discovered a higher pain tolerance than I would have expected. I'm only 19 so I'll let you know what my limits are when I'm older.

Oh I guess my ultimate limit would be anything my parents would find out about and I haven't breached that.

rhode64 · 04-20-2009, 07:07 AM

NO ,animal NO family NO disgusting or messy
will do some public exhibitionism within reason nudity etc
mainly nothing to perverted
have been seen before

04-14-2009, 12:09 AM	#1
SissiCD Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Still on planet earth Posts: 240	What a?re your limits? How far have you been Heres a questionnaire which I hope you will all find interesting and answer honestly Firstly say if you are male or female Then make a list of all your limits and fetishes After each one answer the following (in detail if possible). Q? How close have you ever come to this limit? Q? Have you ever gone beyond this limit and how was it? Q? Would you be willing to explore this limit and possibly go beyond? Add all you can and post again if you forgot something or wish to elaborate My own answers will follow. Please put your answers in an order like I have done mine __________________ Don't dream it........be it.... dislikes: golden showers, scat, blood, animals, kids are all a no, no. likes: lingerie, erotica, bdsm, sub/dom/switch, erotic adventures, spanking Ask to know more you may add me on MSN or yahoo but conversation with unimaginative questions such as "asl?"" What you wearing?" "go on cam" etc then expect to be put on ignore Most of my limits etc can be seen in my post at: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthrea...883#post132883 Last edited by SissiCD; 04-14-2009 at 01:24 AM.

04-14-2009, 12:20 AM	#2
lil'baby-jo Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Home, Sweet, Home Posts: 120 Blog Entries: 1	My hard limits r: Deffo no family/friends - when I was doing bondage one time, my brother walked in! Luckily only my ankle was still tied so I could hide it = scary yet exciting. no pics or webcam - never shared pics or webcam. Limits: nothing 2 disgusting - I haven't really broken this, apart from did a little anal which before hand would have seen as really disgusting = Ok I suppose. loads of pain - Never had loads of pain because I daren't yet, but have used clothes pegs and toothpaste = kind of painful (lol) but also induced pleasure. Also found out I have quiet a high pain tolerence. Overall reaching and breakng limits is scary but quiet fun, although some I won't break. xXx JoJo xXx __________________ xXx JoJo xXx Last edited by lil'baby-jo; 04-14-2009 at 12:23 AM.

04-14-2009, 12:27 AM	#3
Catalyst Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: United States Posts: 644 Blog Entries: 1	Crossdressing - Not really that I wouldn't do it, just don't have the clothes for it. I would try some, but only in private Scat - Nothing of the sort Drinking Pee - Have tasted it, and thats why its on here. Might do it for a mistress or something, but never on my own again Messy - Not much of anything, maybe peeing on myself. Might do it if i lived alone, or for someone. Family and Friends - Nothing really, once played truth or dare, but doesnt really count. If my friends were never going to say anything, but cant rely on them. __________________ 33 Male Sub-leaning Switch from the United States Limits: Scat, Messy, Involving Others, Face pictures, Extreme public, Extreme pain Likes: Anal, Humiliation, Pain, Edging, Cumming, Sounding, Pee Play Toys: multiple sizes of dildos and plugs, sounding rods, clamps, etc Last edited by Catalyst; 04-14-2009 at 02:19 PM. Reason: Forgot info

04-14-2009, 01:20 AM	#4
SissiCD Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Still on planet earth Posts: 240	My limits Male Fetishes and limits Family a: Never a: Absolutely not a: Absolutely not Kids a: Never a: Absolutely not a: Absolutely not Animals a: Never a: Absolutely not a: Absolutely not Public Exhibitionism a: Yes a: ran around the block butt naked as a dare a: I only do this for dares and it must be with minimum risk Private Exhibitionism a: Few limits a: Lots a: At a party or in a game no holds barred within reason. On webcam I dont expose to others without good communication. Cross dressing: a: very few limits. a: Lots and lots a: I wont go in the street dressed but will at clubs or parties and on cam. Pain a: yes and no a: My limits are extreme pain. a: I have and will accept clothes pegs and nipple clamps on all parts. Also hot wax within reason. I love spanking, both giving and receiving Homosexuality a: Have experienced a: I have been close to full sex with other males but as a rule I'd say I am not really gay. Then I'm not closed to the idea I just havent met a guy tht I really fancy enough. I once sucked a guy for a dare at a part. Can't say I was wild about it. a: willing to explore but will be very choosy as to who with Bondage: a: Have done a: Willing for most both as sub or Dom (I'm a switch) a: Only with someone I know and trust and who feels comfortable about it with me Humiliation a: have experienced this a: not without respect or in public. a: with the right person Roleplay a: have done a: often. I'm adventurous a: I think roleplay can be fun and a great way to live out fantasy Anal a: have given, never(really not) received. Have used a dildo on myself a:have done with several girlfriends and once with a guy. Hav been fingered there during sex a: Anally I am still a virgin. I often fantasize to be with a girl wearing a strap-on. I've been unlucky so far because whenever I've been with a girl that wanted to no strap-on was available Masturbation a: yes, of course a: almost daily, with and without others. I have masturbated on cam with a girl who also masturbated. I think masturbation is good for you. Have done in front of others at dare partys a: still will of course Cyber sex a: Not my favorite way a: Have done a: I wont go out of my way for it but will do if it feels right. It will never substitute the real thing Golden showers answer: a couple of times answer: I have peed on someone and been peed on. It was in the shower and we were very clean and hygenic. I wouldnt go as far as drinking it. mine or someone else's and I wouldn't expect someone else to either. Scat a: Never a: Absolutely not a: Absolutely not Blood a: never a: Absolutely not a: Absolutely not Cum a: Have drunk it a: have drunk my own but I'm not wild about it. I would only do it at the command of a special misstress if at all a: possibly I may be adding to this later when more comes to mind Basically I feel that sex is a gift that we should cherish and explore and respect is very important andeven more so for sub/Dom relationships. Humility doesnt mean disrespect. __________________ Don't dream it........be it.... dislikes: golden showers, scat, blood, animals, kids are all a no, no. likes: lingerie, erotica, bdsm, sub/dom/switch, erotic adventures, spanking Ask to know more you may add me on MSN or yahoo but conversation with unimaginative questions such as "asl?"" What you wearing?" "go on cam" etc then expect to be put on ignore Most of my limits etc can be seen in my post at: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthrea...883#post132883 Last edited by SissiCD; 04-15-2009 at 11:05 PM.

04-15-2009, 08:33 AM	#5
hottomato Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 44	interesting post This is interesting. I'm going to reply to this one I'm working on it __________________ Anal, Self torture, inventive dares, cum etc. public, poo, piss, , messy

04-16-2009, 04:04 PM	#6
jess_i_kka Account Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 494 Blog Entries: 2	I haven't really thought about limits. I kinda just say stop when it doesn't feel right. I'm done more than I would have thought and have discovered a higher pain tolerance than I would have expected. I'm only 19 so I'll let you know what my limits are when I'm older. Oh I guess my ultimate limit would be anything my parents would find out about and I haven't breached that.

04-20-2009, 07:07 AM	#7
rhode64 getDare Patriot Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: England south coast Posts: 3,043 Blog Entries: 3	limits NO ,animal NO family NO disgusting or messy will do some public exhibitionism within reason nudity etc mainly nothing to perverted have been seen before