How to get higher quality dares when you ask

writhe · 02-15-2012, 09:35 PM

Thanks very much for this advice--from a newbie, it's well-taken.

A question, though: going through the various posts and dares, I seem to be noticing a lot of ageism on the site: basically the more one gets past 30 years old, it seems, the less chance a posting or request for a dare will get much in the way of responses. Though this is the case with women to a degree as well, it seems even more the case with men.

It's strange, in our culture (and especially in a venue like this, that would seem to be about gaining greater sexual freedom and acceptance), that there should be that kind of ageism going around, especially since a 40-yea-old guy can be every bit as vigorous and fit as a 29-year-old, while it's also certainly possible that a 21 year old guy can still wind up being overweight and smarmy. So why, in this sort of venue, does it seem that dudes past their twenties are de facto excluded from the game?

02-15-2012, 09:35 PM	#7
writhe Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 6	Thanks, and a question Thanks very much for this advice--from a newbie, it's well-taken. A question, though: going through the various posts and dares, I seem to be noticing a lot of ageism on the site: basically the more one gets past 30 years old, it seems, the less chance a posting or request for a dare will get much in the way of responses. Though this is the case with women to a degree as well, it seems even more the case with men. It's strange, in our culture (and especially in a venue like this, that would seem to be about gaining greater sexual freedom and acceptance), that there should be that kind of ageism going around, especially since a 40-yea-old guy can be every bit as vigorous and fit as a 29-year-old, while it's also certainly possible that a 21 year old guy can still wind up being overweight and smarmy. So why, in this sort of venue, does it seem that dudes past their twenties are de facto excluded from the game? __________________ writhe (my favorite thing to do, and make others do...) Likes: Edging, bondage, mild cbt, vivid imagery and imagination; somewhat bi-curious Dislikes: Anything illegal or involving family, extreme pain, or human waste. Toys and things: Not much right now save household items (belts, scarves, etc.), lube, and willing hands. Working on obtaining more. Lingerie: Male thongs, female thong (pink silk), tight items (like bicycle/spandex shorts)