Jr. slaves/ Masters

Minimouse · 03-20-2008, 11:03 PM

I think that there should be a kind of softer easyer slave master kind of thing for people that are new (or wimps) and just want to try being a master or a slave with someone that won't be as hard on them as a real master. I just randomly thought of this so if it's a completly stupid idea just ignore it. thanks

lydiab6 · 03-21-2008, 01:12 AM

It's not a stupid idea. What you are suggesting is what all people should be doing, trying each other out, finding your own speed and rhythm. One thing that is just starting to be addressed is the difference between slave/master lifestyle, and playing. Additionally, the distinction between sub and slave, dom and master. Finding where you fit and what you use to categorize yourself will determine what level you are looking for.

Additionally, just a small point, being new and unsure and therefore unwilling to jump right in does not make one a wimp. One of the biggest aspects of these types of relationships is trust. Trust is built over time and one cannot/should not trust a person on first go. Everyone needs a different level to feel comfortable.

damned_virus · 03-21-2008, 03:10 AM

Sounds like a good idea to me.

dolphins_r _rubbish · 03-21-2008, 04:31 AM

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Originally Posted by damned_virus

Sounds like a good idea to me.

yes it does sound like a good idea.

Merlin · 03-21-2008, 06:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Minimouse

I think that there should be a kind of softer easyer slave master kind of thing for people that are new (or wimps) and just want to try being a master or a slave with someone that won't be as hard on them as a real master. I just randomly thought of this so if it's a completly stupid idea just ignore it. thanks

A few things i want to add here.
You seem to have the impression that a master has to be hard cruel and has no understanding of what his slave wants, needs and also what is to much. That is not right! A good Master will watch out for what you can do and will be trying to build you up slowly and still be able to keep his authority. A Master that doesn't do this is a bad Master and you should avoid him, especially as a beginner.
If you are asking how to see if he is or not... Simple,take your time to get to know him, and if he doesn't give you the time you need to find out he is not the best choice anyways.
If you are a beginner and your Master doesn't take that in account leave him. A good one will know that you wont know your limits (and also maybe what you like) as a beginner and be very slow with you. I know that there are a lot masters that are not able to or don't want to do that and there is nothing bad about it as long as they are honest to them self and to their slaves and avoid beginners. But as we don't live in a perfect world you will have to take more time to find a Master that matches you. People are often taking not enough time for this...

Another important thing you should always keep in mind!
Just because someone is saying he is a Master doesn't make him one!
And as long as you are not accepting someone as your Master he can't order you anything!

Davros · 03-21-2008, 08:31 AM

As it's already been said, Masters aren't just there to be cruel, nasty, mean and evil. Proper Masters take into account feelings and emotion, and even take time out and have nice chats with the slaves.

If you're referring to junior slaves as in under 16 years old, I don't think this is a good idea because it's illegal and could be classed as child porn or something if you're caught. (Need verification on this).

However, there's no harm in stripping or doing tasks on webcam if you're under 16; I'm sure a lot do it.

SubMissChievous · 03-21-2008, 05:35 PM

As lydia already said: No, it's not stupid at all. I think the feeling you're expressing is not only normal but it's not only beginners who do feel this way when searching for a Master. When I first started this online Master/slave stuff I did have some little experience offline already. And from the chats & trials I had with some I've noticed that there are people out there who wants too much too quickly or are mostly (if not only) interested in getting pics/webcam shows right away & not much else. Building up some trust & working up with their slaves is no concern for them. The good thing about them though is that they are easy to recognize by their impatience...

So not only it's normal to want to work up when starting with a new Master/slave relationship but it's the best way, in my opinion, no matter the degree of experience.

Bebe_Gurl · 03-21-2008, 10:26 PM

I'm just starting slavery, and all this is new and scary...I'm being extreemly carful, We are in a trial period right now.

purplepeopleatur · 03-29-2008, 02:11 AM

Never been a slave before looks like somthing id like to try out for a week or somthing? fun!
m/17 uhh dont really no limits yet? pm if interested =)

SubMissChievous · 03-29-2008, 05:38 AM

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Originally Posted by purplepeopleatur

Never been a slave before looks like somthing id like to try out for a week or somthing? fun!
m/17 uhh dont really no limits yet? pm if interested =)

Erm... This thread is meant to discuss issues concerning being new with Master/slave relationships & how to start, etc. If you want to post a request for a Master/Mistress do so in the main section of the s/m area. Thank you.

03-20-2008, 11:03 PM	#1
Minimouse Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Moon Posts: 21	Jr. slaves/ Masters I think that there should be a kind of softer easyer slave master kind of thing for people that are new (or wimps) and just want to try being a master or a slave with someone that won't be as hard on them as a real master. I just randomly thought of this so if it's a completly stupid idea just ignore it. thanks __________________ Limits: Other people (i'm not very good at maserbation but i try) (i do not use instant messagers and things like that because i don't like giving out personal info online if you want to talk to me a pm will be fine)

03-21-2008, 01:12 AM	#2
lydiab6 Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: New York Posts: 110 Blog Entries: 8	It's not a stupid idea. What you are suggesting is what all people should be doing, trying each other out, finding your own speed and rhythm. One thing that is just starting to be addressed is the difference between slave/master lifestyle, and playing. Additionally, the distinction between sub and slave, dom and master. Finding where you fit and what you use to categorize yourself will determine what level you are looking for. Additionally, just a small point, being new and unsure and therefore unwilling to jump right in does not make one a wimp. One of the biggest aspects of these types of relationships is trust. Trust is built over time and one cannot/should not trust a person on first go. Everyone needs a different level to feel comfortable. __________________ 26/F/NY

03-21-2008, 03:10 AM	#3
damned_virus Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 71	Sounds like a good idea to me. __________________ Its dangerous to be right when those in power are wrong

03-21-2008, 10:26 PM	#8
Bebe_Gurl Distinguished Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: On my knees Posts: 670 Blog Entries: 9	I'm just starting slavery, and all this is new and scary...I'm being extreemly carful, We are in a trial period right now. __________________ 23/ girll Likes: Make me feel like a slut. PUBLIC!! Speech/ Clothing control, humiliation, bimbofication, rules, Pee control, creative dares... surprise me Exploring: Diapers and food in diapers Limits: Family, Permenent, EXTREEME pain ( I can take a little) I have to b able 2 clean it up easly...oh and nothing illegal Have: Large butt plug, small butt plug, medium butt plug, diapers, twist ties for my sensitive lil nipples

03-21-2008, 08:31 AM	#6
Davros Account Banned Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 2,943	As it's already been said, Masters aren't just there to be cruel, nasty, mean and evil. Proper Masters take into account feelings and emotion, and even take time out and have nice chats with the slaves. If you're referring to junior slaves as in under 16 years old, I don't think this is a good idea because it's illegal and could be classed as child porn or something if you're caught. (Need verification on this). However, there's no harm in stripping or doing tasks on webcam if you're under 16; I'm sure a lot do it.

03-21-2008, 05:35 PM	#7
SubMissChievous Prodigy Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 4,466	As lydia already said: No, it's not stupid at all. I think the feeling you're expressing is not only normal but it's not only beginners who do feel this way when searching for a Master. When I first started this online Master/slave stuff I did have some little experience offline already. And from the chats & trials I had with some I've noticed that there are people out there who wants too much too quickly or are mostly (if not only) interested in getting pics/webcam shows right away & not much else. Building up some trust & working up with their slaves is no concern for them. The good thing about them though is that they are easy to recognize by their impatience... So not only it's normal to want to work up when starting with a new Master/slave relationship but it's the best way, in my opinion, no matter the degree of experience.

03-29-2008, 02:11 AM	#9
purplepeopleatur Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2	Never been a slave before looks like somthing id like to try out for a week or somthing? fun! m/17 uhh dont really no limits yet? pm if interested =)