Scat/Poo and Messy: What's the difference?

LimitExplorer · 10-04-2011, 04:07 PM

Hello,

Call me gullible, but I am wondering something about the various limits people have displayed in their signature.
Since I have a background in the diaper fetishism community, I associate 'messy' (and 'messing') with filling a diaper with feces. In turn, I associate the messing of diapers with scat - perhaps wrongly.

But this leaves me with the question: what's the difference between scat and messy? My assumption was that messy was the word for pooping your pants or something similar. Chances are this is a wrong assumption because of my diaper background, but still: I figure it's best that I find out the matters stand, before I accidentally offend anyone with questions or dares that are not within their limits.

Maggy · 10-04-2011, 04:12 PM

Should probably point out that I'm not a fan of either... But Messy encompasses all aspects of... well... mess. You essentially make a "mess" using any item available. Beans, sauce, mud, and in the case of my good buddy Gay Gavin, home made gunge. For some people, scat is considered a little too far. That's why it's usually listed seperately.

WowwieGoesWoof · 10-04-2011, 04:33 PM

I'm not really into any of that, but I personally view "Messy" as things like, putting things in your pants/underwear, using whipped cream/food above the waist etc. Anything that involves a mess. Scat is really more oriented with PLAYING with feces, and is messy, but not classified as messy. (In MY opinion.)

Slightly Pathetic · 10-04-2011, 04:35 PM

While I've never really played with this kink at all, I can tell you Maggy has been right so far. "Messy" usually excludes the use of feces, but not always. "Poo" is obviously a different story, but is only a vague term meaning the person will involve feces in their activities. "Scat" is the most specific term meaning "I will do nearly anything with feces, including putting it in my mouth". I've seen people have "messy" as a like and "scat" as a limit.

silverdarknight · 10-05-2011, 01:54 AM

If you want more detail/info, I would suggest looking here as a good starting point for what 'messy' entails...

The UMD

yours_slave · 10-05-2011, 02:20 AM

Messy means 'Messy' and 'Scat' means what comes out when people shit. Simple as that.

peaceful_soul · 10-05-2011, 07:51 AM

I suppose the terms mIght be interchangable, but yes.... Scat does have to do fecesis, and I think messy is anything that can me messy, which might include fecesis. Pretty gross if you ask me, not to mention unhealthy.

LimitExplorer · 10-05-2011, 10:48 AM

So yes, I can attribute what little confusion there was (the answers given match my expectations) to my history in the diaper community.

Now for me to determine if messy is one of my limits or not.

peaceful_soul · 10-05-2011, 11:13 AM

Not to get off topic, but really think about the aspects of what you consider messy to be based on our answers. If you are still unsure, then you should experiment with the idea to find out for yourself the answer to your question, in regards to it being a limit or not. There's noting wrong with having an open mind.

Careful though, if you are considering the idea of using feces in your experiment, then I would caution you to understand that your body rids of it for a reason.

LimitExplorer · 10-05-2011, 11:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by peaceful_soul

Not to get off topic, but really think about the aspects of what you consider messy to be based on our answers. If you are still unsure, then you should experiment with the idea to find out for yourself the answer to your question, in regards to it being a limit or not. There's noting wrong with having an open mind.

Careful though, if you are considering the idea of using feces in your experiment, then I would caution you to understand that your body rids of it for a reason.

Yeah, I'm not into feces; it smells and is probably a bitch to clean. No current plans.

But filling a diaper with other materials that might give a similar experience is something that I would like to do sometime, and I suppose that might also fit the 'messy' label

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Thanks for your answers, everyone.

BettyBoop · 10-06-2011, 06:07 AM

To me Scat = human waste and messy can be anything messy like dares that involve pouring food on yourself like beans/whipped cream or muddy dares etc.
I'm not a fan of either but that's what I've gathered from reading through this site.

10-04-2011, 04:07 PM	#1
LimitExplorer Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 113 Blog Entries: 12	Scat/Poo and Messy: What's the difference? Hello, Call me gullible, but I am wondering something about the various limits people have displayed in their signature. Since I have a background in the diaper fetishism community, I associate 'messy' (and 'messing') with filling a diaper with feces. In turn, I associate the messing of diapers with scat - perhaps wrongly. But this leaves me with the question: what's the difference between scat and messy? My assumption was that messy was the word for pooping your pants or something similar. Chances are this is a wrong assumption because of my diaper background, but still: I figure it's best that I find out the matters stand, before I accidentally offend anyone with questions or dares that are not within their limits.

10-04-2011, 04:12 PM	#2
Maggy Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Kirkliston Posts: 193 Blog Entries: 19	Should probably point out that I'm not a fan of either... But Messy encompasses all aspects of... well... mess. You essentially make a "mess" using any item available. Beans, sauce, mud, and in the case of my good buddy Gay Gavin, home made gunge. For some people, scat is considered a little too far. That's why it's usually listed seperately. __________________ Maggy SO: Pansexual Likes: Funny, childlike dares. Limits: I guess it depends on my mood. ._. “In the beginning there was nothing, which exploded.” Sowisa~

10-04-2011, 04:35 PM	#4
Slightly Pathetic getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: I'm standing right behind you. Posts: 402	While I've never really played with this kink at all, I can tell you Maggy has been right so far. "Messy" usually excludes the use of feces, but not always. "Poo" is obviously a different story, but is only a vague term meaning the person will involve feces in their activities. "Scat" is the most specific term meaning "I will do nearly anything with feces, including putting it in my mouth". I've seen people have "messy" as a like and "scat" as a limit. __________________ ...but the rest of me is awesome! }}} How daring are you? {{{ }}} A Spanking Game {{{ }}} For daring couples only! {{{

10-05-2011, 07:51 AM	#7
peaceful_soul Account Banned Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: California. Posts: 362 Blog Entries: 11	I suppose the terms mIght be interchangable, but yes.... Scat does have to do fecesis, and I think messy is anything that can me messy, which might include fecesis. Pretty gross if you ask me, not to mention unhealthy. __________________ Got a question or looking for a friend? my inbox is alway open PM me Interesting individuals welcome. "Life to too short to be taken seriously." -Oscar Wilde

10-05-2011, 11:13 AM	#9
peaceful_soul Account Banned Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: California. Posts: 362 Blog Entries: 11	Not to get off topic, but really think about the aspects of what you consider messy to be based on our answers. If you are still unsure, then you should experiment with the idea to find out for yourself the answer to your question, in regards to it being a limit or not. There's noting wrong with having an open mind. Careful though, if you are considering the idea of using feces in your experiment, then I would caution you to understand that your body rids of it for a reason. __________________ Got a question or looking for a friend? my inbox is alway open PM me Interesting individuals welcome. "Life to too short to be taken seriously." -Oscar Wilde

10-04-2011, 04:33 PM	#3
WowwieGoesWoof getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 415	I'm not really into any of that, but I personally view "Messy" as things like, putting things in your pants/underwear, using whipped cream/food above the waist etc. Anything that involves a mess. Scat is really more oriented with PLAYING with feces, and is messy, but not classified as messy. (In MY opinion.)

10-05-2011, 01:54 AM	#5
silverdarknight getDare Devil Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,351 Blog Entries: 11	If you want more detail/info, I would suggest looking here as a good starting point for what 'messy' entails... The UMD

10-05-2011, 02:20 AM	#6
yours_slave Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: In your dreams Posts: 934	Messy means 'Messy' and 'Scat' means what comes out when people shit. Simple as that.

10-05-2011, 10:48 AM	#8
LimitExplorer Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 113 Blog Entries: 12	So yes, I can attribute what little confusion there was (the answers given match my expectations) to my history in the diaper community. Now for me to determine if messy is one of my limits or not.

10-06-2011, 06:07 AM	#11
BettyBoop Angel of Dare Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: England. Posts: 8,249 Blog Entries: 105	To me Scat = human waste and messy can be anything messy like dares that involve pouring food on yourself like beans/whipped cream or muddy dares etc. I'm not a fan of either but that's what I've gathered from reading through this site. __________________ ★Boop Boop de Boop.★ female, engurrland. Ask me anything, click. My tumblr. 18+ ▼