Real life s/M - Relationship?

HotBoy · 06-18-2011, 07:57 AM

Hello everybody

(I apologize if this is illegal, I am just curious)
I was just wondering.. Is there anybody who have got so far with their slave/master partner, that they desided to do some sessions in real life?
If you've got so far:
Are you a male or female?
Slave or Master/Mistress?
For how long did you know your partner before doing it?
How was the session?
Where you scared?
How is your partner? Mean or sweet?

If you havent got so far:
Are you a male or female?
Slave or Master/Mistress?
Do you want to try it?
How long do you want to know you partner before doing it?

Manbearpig · 06-19-2011, 08:48 AM

Moved to S/m lounge

Counterfeit_Fantasy · 06-19-2011, 12:31 PM

Female, sub.
About 3 weeks of online sessions, which for most would be a bad idea, I'm amazed I'm not dead in the Cafe parking lot. I would recommend a month-years before meeting them, public-like. Seriously, I mean it, months, years, keep the speed dial for the police on hand. However, mine was local and gave me permission to use the security precautions I needed, so it wasn't as difficult to meet, so we went a bit faster.
3 weeks for me is equal to 30 pages on Microsoft Word and 18k words +text messaging.

I feel that you're talking about "actual BDSM session" so I'll skip to there. I somehow lost at collaborative Portal 2, other than that, lovely.

Fairly, there was still the uncertainty with a new partner. There was also the fact he's over a foot taller than me...

In a D/s relationship you shouldn't expect rainbows, unicorns, and gentle loving. Even as a first session you have to remember that there will be some pain. As for me, it was that, he definitely took the precaution to be careful but he kept in mind that both of us accepted this would be a D/s thing. On the spectrum he was more nice than mean, understood I had absolutely no idea what he likes, how he expected me to act, so on. He also gave me a tiger toy, so that makes up for destroying me.

TensionRoom101 · 06-28-2011, 04:56 PM

I am a 45 year old Dom and only do real life stuff (other than talking the very occasional special friend to orgasm) and get very little from online domination.

Most of my sessions take place at the fetish club I co-run, or at my, my partner's or my sub's home. Some of the subs I play with are actually first time meets because I'm sort of 'house dom' or 'dungeon master' if you will, but it's a safe, controlled circumstance in a private members' club, so it's pretty safe.

06-18-2011, 07:57 AM	#1
HotBoy Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 71	Real life s/M - Relationship? Hello everybody (I apologize if this is illegal, I am just curious) I was just wondering.. Is there anybody who have got so far with their slave/master partner, that they desided to do some sessions in real life? If you've got so far: Are you a male or female? Slave or Master/Mistress? For how long did you know your partner before doing it? How was the session? Where you scared? How is your partner? Mean or sweet? If you havent got so far: Are you a male or female? Slave or Master/Mistress? Do you want to try it? How long do you want to know you partner before doing it? __________________ 21/m - Athletic guy, very open-minded and loves to meet new people. PM for anything. Looking for a Mistress or a female slave. Likes : As I said I am vey open-minden so im pretty much into anything outside my limit. Limits : Family, friends, permanent, scat, public.

06-19-2011, 08:48 AM	#2
Manbearpig getDare Expert Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: The internet Posts: 3,085 Blog Entries: 211	Moved to S/m lounge __________________ fromo: ‹@Manbearpig› >.> quite being an arse Likes: Crossdressing/Humiliation Dares/Spanking/Whipping Will not do: Anal, Messy, Public Kik:Mbpgetdare

06-19-2011, 12:31 PM	#3
Counterfeit_Fantasy Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Narnia Posts: 188 Blog Entries: 9	Female, sub. About 3 weeks of online sessions, which for most would be a bad idea, I'm amazed I'm not dead in the Cafe parking lot. I would recommend a month-years before meeting them, public-like. Seriously, I mean it, months, years, keep the speed dial for the police on hand. However, mine was local and gave me permission to use the security precautions I needed, so it wasn't as difficult to meet, so we went a bit faster. 3 weeks for me is equal to 30 pages on Microsoft Word and 18k words +text messaging. I feel that you're talking about "actual BDSM session" so I'll skip to there. I somehow lost at collaborative Portal 2, other than that, lovely. Fairly, there was still the uncertainty with a new partner. There was also the fact he's over a foot taller than me... In a D/s relationship you shouldn't expect rainbows, unicorns, and gentle loving. Even as a first session you have to remember that there will be some pain. As for me, it was that, he definitely took the precaution to be careful but he kept in mind that both of us accepted this would be a D/s thing. On the spectrum he was more nice than mean, understood I had absolutely no idea what he likes, how he expected me to act, so on. He also gave me a tiger toy, so that makes up for destroying me. __________________ Passive Aggressive, Sarcastic, and Squishy, oh so Squishy Message - Comment - FetLife

06-28-2011, 04:56 PM	#4
TensionRoom101 Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 223	I am a 45 year old Dom and only do real life stuff (other than talking the very occasional special friend to orgasm) and get very little from online domination. Most of my sessions take place at the fetish club I co-run, or at my, my partner's or my sub's home. Some of the subs I play with are actually first time meets because I'm sort of 'house dom' or 'dungeon master' if you will, but it's a safe, controlled circumstance in a private members' club, so it's pretty safe. __________________ When even the wisest of young people can't see the consequences of their actions, it's time I called it a day.