What to do with him

CatherineS · 06-22-2010, 01:04 AM

Hi, I'm new here so please let me know if I'm doing something wrong.

Me and my bf are in pretty fun domination-submission relationship where he is submissive one. Nothing too extreme and we're both happy with it.
Among little games we play is one suggested by someone from /b/ long time ago. Basicly, every Saturday and Sunday he wakes me up by licking my pussy. If he fails because, for example, he wakes up too late, forgets or something or I'm not satisfied with quality (for example, he fails to make me cum within 30 minutes) I can punish him. Usually I don't have to but last Sunday didn't even try. When asked if he hadn't forgotten something, at first he pretended he doesn't know what I'm talking about but then admitted he 'forgot' deliberately to get punished. I told him he will regret it and now I'm looking for ideas for his punishment. I want it to be something he will remember, but without serious harm being done or too hardcore.
To give you general idea here are two of punishments he suffered so far:
1) he forgot about his duty. Three days later, near midnight I told him I want to go for a walk to park. This park is semi-public place at night - nobody is visiting it, but sometimes someone is walking through it as it's between two streets. I wore corset and mini-skirt so he surly expected something to happen. Of course, I made him perform cunnilingus he forgot about, fortunately nobody saw us.
2) he woke up too late. Later that day I tied him to bed and tortured his nipples (attaching and deattaching clamps, biting, pulling, crushing between fingers, pinching) until he begged me to stop. He was quite tough, so it took almost an hour. Then I handcuffed him with hands behind his back and attached pretty hardcore, regulated clamps (he actually screamed when I put them on :>) and made him cum on the floor. Then I refused to remove them until he licks all his cum from floor. It took him about a second to make a decision

I'm looking for something along those lines, maybe even a little harder but not extreme. Any ideas ?

rich_e · 06-22-2010, 10:33 PM

My wife and I had a good session a couple of weeks ago. Same sort of scenario, I was being punished. We don't play very often and don't have a big toy collection so we improvise with stuff around the house.

Here are few ideas from that session:

She rubbed ben gay/deep heat on my ass and then spanked me with a ping-pong paddle. The paddle alone I can handle, up to a point, but the ben gay really made each whack sting!

I was on my hands and knees on the bed and she was sitting behind me in the desk chair paddling me. She wrapped an electrical cord around my balls to hold me still during the paddling. So each time I tried to move away I got a strong tug back into position.

After the paddling she took a rubber band and flicked it on my balls a few times.

She shoved a large marker/sharpie up my butt. At first she threatened to shove a small flashlight up there, but she relented and grabbed the marker instead. After she inserted the marker the started spanking me again, this time with a slipper. The marker fell out during the spanking and she told me I had to be punished for not holding it. She let go of the cord around my balls and left the room so I rolled over on my back so I could rub them a bit (the cord was getting pretty tight). She came back in the room with a fleet (small, disposable) enema and administered it. She told me I had to hold the enema until she made me cum. That's not too bad, I thought to myself, she gives a great hand job. Wrong! She smeared more ben gay all over my dick and used that as lube for the hand job. She told me she wasn't going to do that at first, but it was an additional punishment for playing with myself while she was out of the room. It took a while but eventually I came. In the past, she's made me lick the cum from her hand but didn't this time because of the ben gay.

Anyway, I really love how the punishments build on each other. I mean first, I was just up for some playful spanking and in the end... Well, I ended up with something much more in my end. LOL. I guess the creativity and surprise are what I liked most about the session. None of it was too severe or painful

CatherineS · 06-23-2010, 01:50 AM

Thanks a lot !

We don't have much experience with spanking but this is probably good time to try it :> I like your idea of extended punishment, with multiple parts

Only thing I'm not sure about is enema, but punishment is still good without it

flyboy7218 · 07-05-2010, 09:58 PM

ice is a very powerful tool get him on the edge of cumming then make him stick his cock into a bucket/glass of ice water. after he goes soft make him get hard again and do the same untill he cant get hard anymore

_CBTslave_ · 07-06-2010, 07:52 AM

Well it all deppend on what kind of stuff your slave is to, also one thing you could do is make a Chastity belt and make him wear it during the weekend, and taking it of at some intervalls, making him hard but not letting him cum, then using icewater to make him limp again, and then putting the Chastity belt back on, I can guarante that he will think twice before forgetting again, also remember that servering you is his pleasure, if he forgets, make sure that he isn't allowed to please you, unless ofcourse you want it, but then again, you could always tie him up and please yourself just out of his reach.

But it all deppends on what he likes and doesn't like and what you got access to. (homemade chastity devices does work)

diapered slave · 07-06-2010, 09:49 AM

need:

latex gloves - surgical golves (chear approx)
hand towel
duct tape
flavoured lube

ok pour a little of the flavoured lube into a latex glove (if you cant get flavoured lube then use somthing else with a flavour to it) and wrap it as tight as you can into the hand towel and duct tape it tightly, now make him pleasure the simulated pussy for ten minuets and he has to tell you what the taste is, he gets three guesses and every guess he gets wrong is an added weight to his balls/nipples/cock ect. if he guesses wrong three times then he has to fuck his new pussy until thier is nothing left of his cum or lube, try to make it a hard taste to guess like pinacolada or somthing exotic, if your really cruel then you could put the lube at the end of one of the fingers of the glove and make it a non smell flavour, do this every morning for a week

slaveboy06 · 10-17-2010, 01:45 PM

i would love for you to be my GF and do that with me

i wanna GF like you.

oceanstar · 10-22-2010, 08:15 AM

If you are considering giving him a spanking slice up some ginger and insert it into his ass. It will burn and be very painful but do no damage.

Roni · 12-14-2010, 10:39 AM

Well its christmas time, so why dont you buy him a little christmas gift. The gift I have in mind is a chastity belt. Buy a cb6000 or some similar device, it should fit nearly 90% of the males and its also not that expensive. The next time he fails in his tasks you could lock him up in chastity and keep the keys. One thing for sure he will never fail again and if you are happy with how he serves you from now on you could reward him by allowing him some time out of chastity.

Trust me he will do what ever you say and he will never fail his tasks again!

Greatcornbow · 12-19-2010, 10:32 AM

I agree with Roni. Have him wear a chastity device - cb6000 will be a good starter.

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Originally Posted by CatherineS

Hi, I'm new here so please let me know if I'm doing something wrong.

Me and my bf are in pretty fun domination-submission relationship where he is submissive one. Nothing too extreme and we're both happy with it.
Among little games we play is one suggested by someone from /b/ long time ago. Basicly, every Saturday and Sunday he wakes me up by licking my pussy. If he fails because, for example, he wakes up too late, forgets or something or I'm not satisfied with quality (for example, he fails to make me cum within 30 minutes) I can punish him. Usually I don't have to but last Sunday didn't even try. When asked if he hadn't forgotten something, at first he pretended he doesn't know what I'm talking about but then admitted he 'forgot' deliberately to get punished. I told him he will regret it and now I'm looking for ideas for his punishment. I want it to be something he will remember, but without serious harm being done or too hardcore.
To give you general idea here are two of punishments he suffered so far:
1) he forgot about his duty. Three days later, near midnight I told him I want to go for a walk to park. This park is semi-public place at night - nobody is visiting it, but sometimes someone is walking through it as it's between two streets. I wore corset and mini-skirt so he surly expected something to happen. Of course, I made him perform cunnilingus he forgot about, fortunately nobody saw us.
2) he woke up too late. Later that day I tied him to bed and tortured his nipples (attaching and deattaching clamps, biting, pulling, crushing between fingers, pinching) until he begged me to stop. He was quite tough, so it took almost an hour. Then I handcuffed him with hands behind his back and attached pretty hardcore, regulated clamps (he actually screamed when I put them on :>) and made him cum on the floor. Then I refused to remove them until he licks all his cum from floor. It took him about a second to make a decision

I'm looking for something along those lines, maybe even a little harder but not extreme. Any ideas ?

06-22-2010, 01:04 AM	#1
CatherineS Account Banned Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 2	What to do with him Hi, I'm new here so please let me know if I'm doing something wrong. Me and my bf are in pretty fun domination-submission relationship where he is submissive one. Nothing too extreme and we're both happy with it. Among little games we play is one suggested by someone from /b/ long time ago. Basicly, every Saturday and Sunday he wakes me up by licking my pussy. If he fails because, for example, he wakes up too late, forgets or something or I'm not satisfied with quality (for example, he fails to make me cum within 30 minutes) I can punish him. Usually I don't have to but last Sunday didn't even try. When asked if he hadn't forgotten something, at first he pretended he doesn't know what I'm talking about but then admitted he 'forgot' deliberately to get punished. I told him he will regret it and now I'm looking for ideas for his punishment. I want it to be something he will remember, but without serious harm being done or too hardcore. To give you general idea here are two of punishments he suffered so far: 1) he forgot about his duty. Three days later, near midnight I told him I want to go for a walk to park. This park is semi-public place at night - nobody is visiting it, but sometimes someone is walking through it as it's between two streets. I wore corset and mini-skirt so he surly expected something to happen. Of course, I made him perform cunnilingus he forgot about, fortunately nobody saw us. 2) he woke up too late. Later that day I tied him to bed and tortured his nipples (attaching and deattaching clamps, biting, pulling, crushing between fingers, pinching) until he begged me to stop. He was quite tough, so it took almost an hour. Then I handcuffed him with hands behind his back and attached pretty hardcore, regulated clamps (he actually screamed when I put them on :>) and made him cum on the floor. Then I refused to remove them until he licks all his cum from floor. It took him about a second to make a decision I'm looking for something along those lines, maybe even a little harder but not extreme. Any ideas ?

07-05-2010, 09:58 PM	#4
flyboy7218 Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: USA Posts: 78	ice is a very powerful tool get him on the edge of cumming then make him stick his cock into a bucket/glass of ice water. after he goes soft make him get hard again and do the same untill he cant get hard anymore __________________ up up and away. Limits- scat, public photos, chatting with fake people, people who pretend to do dares. Likes- Panties, teasing and being teased, orgasm denial, forced orgasms, chatting online with real people who dont like and pretend I DO NOT PLAY WITH GUYS! SO STOP ASKING ME TO BE YOUR MASTER!!!

07-06-2010, 07:52 AM	#5
_CBTslave_ Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Sweden Posts: 222 Blog Entries: 18	Well it all deppend on what kind of stuff your slave is to, also one thing you could do is make a Chastity belt and make him wear it during the weekend, and taking it of at some intervalls, making him hard but not letting him cum, then using icewater to make him limp again, and then putting the Chastity belt back on, I can guarante that he will think twice before forgetting again, also remember that servering you is his pleasure, if he forgets, make sure that he isn't allowed to please you, unless ofcourse you want it, but then again, you could always tie him up and please yourself just out of his reach. But it all deppends on what he likes and doesn't like and what you got access to. (homemade chastity devices does work) __________________ A painslut that wants more and more. Likes and dislikes... PM Dares list... Toys...

07-06-2010, 09:49 AM	#6
diapered slave Distinguished Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: UK Posts: 515	need: latex gloves - surgical golves (chear approx) hand towel duct tape flavoured lube ok pour a little of the flavoured lube into a latex glove (if you cant get flavoured lube then use somthing else with a flavour to it) and wrap it as tight as you can into the hand towel and duct tape it tightly, now make him pleasure the simulated pussy for ten minuets and he has to tell you what the taste is, he gets three guesses and every guess he gets wrong is an added weight to his balls/nipples/cock ect. if he guesses wrong three times then he has to fuck his new pussy until thier is nothing left of his cum or lube, try to make it a hard taste to guess like pinacolada or somthing exotic, if your really cruel then you could put the lube at the end of one of the fingers of the glove and make it a non smell flavour, do this every morning for a week __________________ Sorry to get serious but I don't use this site anymore I only lurk occasionally thanks to people at work finding out I don't do a lot of anything anymore, I'm not a bad person, I'm way past kinky but I'm not a bad person and now thanxs to some nameless people I hate myself and I have a collection of scares, please don't p.m me or reply to my threads thank you

10-17-2010, 01:45 PM	#7
slaveboy06 Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: USA (eastern) Posts: 28	i would love for you to be my GF and do that with me i wanna GF like you. __________________ Likes: Masturbating, Cross Dressing, orgasm denial, Porn, Shemales. Limits: some cum eating, outdoors, anal, public, Poo/pee, family, messy.

06-22-2010, 10:33 PM	#2
rich_e Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: USA Posts: 23	My wife and I had a good session a couple of weeks ago. Same sort of scenario, I was being punished. We don't play very often and don't have a big toy collection so we improvise with stuff around the house. Here are few ideas from that session: She rubbed ben gay/deep heat on my ass and then spanked me with a ping-pong paddle. The paddle alone I can handle, up to a point, but the ben gay really made each whack sting! I was on my hands and knees on the bed and she was sitting behind me in the desk chair paddling me. She wrapped an electrical cord around my balls to hold me still during the paddling. So each time I tried to move away I got a strong tug back into position. After the paddling she took a rubber band and flicked it on my balls a few times. She shoved a large marker/sharpie up my butt. At first she threatened to shove a small flashlight up there, but she relented and grabbed the marker instead. After she inserted the marker the started spanking me again, this time with a slipper. The marker fell out during the spanking and she told me I had to be punished for not holding it. She let go of the cord around my balls and left the room so I rolled over on my back so I could rub them a bit (the cord was getting pretty tight). She came back in the room with a fleet (small, disposable) enema and administered it. She told me I had to hold the enema until she made me cum. That's not too bad, I thought to myself, she gives a great hand job. Wrong! She smeared more ben gay all over my dick and used that as lube for the hand job. She told me she wasn't going to do that at first, but it was an additional punishment for playing with myself while she was out of the room. It took a while but eventually I came. In the past, she's made me lick the cum from her hand but didn't this time because of the ben gay. Anyway, I really love how the punishments build on each other. I mean first, I was just up for some playful spanking and in the end... Well, I ended up with something much more in my end. LOL. I guess the creativity and surprise are what I liked most about the session. None of it was too severe or painful

06-23-2010, 01:50 AM	#3
CatherineS Account Banned Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 2	Thanks a lot ! We don't have much experience with spanking but this is probably good time to try it :> I like your idea of extended punishment, with multiple parts Only thing I'm not sure about is enema, but punishment is still good without it

10-22-2010, 08:15 AM	#8
oceanstar Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 19	punishment If you are considering giving him a spanking slice up some ginger and insert it into his ass. It will burn and be very painful but do no damage.

12-14-2010, 10:39 AM	#9
Roni getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Germany Posts: 307	Well its christmas time, so why dont you buy him a little christmas gift. The gift I have in mind is a chastity belt. Buy a cb6000 or some similar device, it should fit nearly 90% of the males and its also not that expensive. The next time he fails in his tasks you could lock him up in chastity and keep the keys. One thing for sure he will never fail again and if you are happy with how he serves you from now on you could reward him by allowing him some time out of chastity. Trust me he will do what ever you say and he will never fail his tasks again! __________________ ice, feet, anal, masturbation, webcam, humiliation, nudity, bondage pain, all day/night, chastity public, permanent, familiy, friends, poo, blood, illegal Toys: dildos, buttplug, chastity belt, rope, collar, nipple clamps, ballgag I am a cum eating whore. PM me 'Anal' and a number and I will ride my dildo for that many minutes.