56/male/dom seeks 21+/female/sub in US ((online))

OlderNewDom · 05-06-2024, 08:44 AM

56/male/dom seeks 21+/female/sub in US ((online))

I'm a 56 year old dominant male. I've dabbled in BDSM for the past 10 years. For the first number of years, I just took part in random activities now and then. More recently, I've been in a variety of longer-term arrangements. I've found I much prefer these longer-term relationships and I'm looking to find a sub who is also interested in something longer-term.

I've spent some time developing a set of rules (17 of them to be specific). They describe my expectations for my sub, but they also help a sub who is struggling with guidence by offereing her some discipline. Based on what you think you might need from a D/s relationship, I think you will find a number of them extremely useful in bringing to your life the submissive aspect that you desire along with growth in some ways that maybe you hadn't expected.

I've also created a long list of online rewards and punishments as well. Not only do they give my sub some idea of what to expect from me as a dom, they also help establish boundaries to push and hard limits not to cross.

As you may have picked up on, I am interested in building a long-term dom/sub relationship and I expect frequent interaction with my sub, though I am perfectly fine with working around life's schedules. I also place a high value on discretion, so I'm adaptible to most any family/roommate dynamics you may have going on.

Most importantly, I recognize that subs give Doms a very special gift -- their trust and themselves. And, as your Dom, I will always respect that.

If any of this interests you, if you have any questions, or if you want to learn more, please reach out on here.

05-06-2024, 08:44 AM	#1
OlderNewDom Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2023 Posts: 2	56/male/dom seeks 21+/female/sub in US ((online)) 56/male/dom seeks 21+/female/sub in US ((online)) I'm a 56 year old dominant male. I've dabbled in BDSM for the past 10 years. For the first number of years, I just took part in random activities now and then. More recently, I've been in a variety of longer-term arrangements. I've found I much prefer these longer-term relationships and I'm looking to find a sub who is also interested in something longer-term. I've spent some time developing a set of rules (17 of them to be specific). They describe my expectations for my sub, but they also help a sub who is struggling with guidence by offereing her some discipline. Based on what you think you might need from a D/s relationship, I think you will find a number of them extremely useful in bringing to your life the submissive aspect that you desire along with growth in some ways that maybe you hadn't expected. I've also created a long list of online rewards and punishments as well. Not only do they give my sub some idea of what to expect from me as a dom, they also help establish boundaries to push and hard limits not to cross. As you may have picked up on, I am interested in building a long-term dom/sub relationship and I expect frequent interaction with my sub, though I am perfectly fine with working around life's schedules. I also place a high value on discretion, so I'm adaptible to most any family/roommate dynamics you may have going on. Most importantly, I recognize that subs give Doms a very special gift -- their trust and themselves. And, as your Dom, I will always respect that. If any of this interests you, if you have any questions, or if you want to learn more, please reach out on here.