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Old 09-17-2023, 10:17 PM   #1
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This thread is for all of us with depraved little secrets we need help with and those that love to listen and correct.

Post into the thread as either a Patient seeking therapy or a Doctor acting as Therapist.

Patients announce that they are seeking help. Feel free to be specific about your problem or save the details for your time on the couch with a Doctor. Post the amount of time you are hoping to receive therapy and any preferences you wish to be known. Patients must answer all questions posed to them by the Doctors, either in the thread or privately (your choice). Patients should also do their best to follow all therapeutic advice from their Doctors, reporting back whether they follow or not.

Doctors can post in that they are now accepting new Patients. If your participation is limited, post how long you are willing to take on patients. You may reply to the thread or privately to patients offering appointments to see you for questioning or with therapies for specific or all patients. You may ask the patients anything in order to try to explore their problems to help them best.

I'll begin. I am in for two weeks as a patient. My main problem is being a chronic masturbater who is deeply embarassed over the types of dirty thoughts it takes for her to get off. I'm also a little concerned about how enticing those thoughts are, and hope to avoid succumbing to temptation. Preferred therapies include spanking and hypnosis.
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Old 09-25-2023, 10:44 PM   #2
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i’m in for two weeks as a patient as well! my pain problems are masturbating way too much and fantasizing about being spanked and humiliated. i’m open to any therapies within my likes, and some dislikes. kik is naughtylittlelaur
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Old 09-26-2023, 12:14 AM   #3
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I am in as a doctor/therapist for female patients looking for advice, treatment and rules. Patients are supposed to answer the doctors questions truthfully so he can evaluate their problems and decide about the right treatment. They should follow his advice on a regular, daily basis and be ready to supply proof they did.

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Old 09-26-2023, 08:38 AM   #4
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Such a great game idea, GrrlSpanky!

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I'll begin. I am in for two weeks as a patient. My main problem is being a chronic masturbater who is deeply embarassed over the types of dirty thoughts it takes for her to get off. I'm also a little concerned about how enticing those thoughts are, and hope to avoid succumbing to temptation. Preferred therapies include spanking and hypnosis.
I realize that you contacted our clinic a while ago, but unfortunately no therapist was available then. In our clinic we have made good experience healing people from inveterate hypermasturbia turpibus cogitationibus (i.e. the condition you describe you have, where you suffer from filthy thoughts and over-masturbation) by using negative reinforcement learning.
In case you are still suffering from it and want to improve your condition I suggest the following therapy:

I encourage you to masturbate every single day to your filthiest fantasies or while watching your naughty porns, however, whenever you are on the brink of coming you will stop and spank yourself 10 times hard while thinking "I should be really ashamed for having these filthy fantasies" or "I'm such a dirty slut". Saying that out loud also helps, so I encourage you to do that. On the first day you will need to repeat this 10 times in a row (10 edges, 100 spanks). Each following day you'll increase the edges and spanks by one, i.e.:
2nd day: 11 edges, 11 spanks (121 spanks)
3rd day: 12 edges, 12 spanks (144 spanks)
...
14th day: 24 edges, 24 spanks (576 spanks)

Of course you are not allowed to come during this time!

By depriving yourself from orgasms while punishing yourself over and over for your filthy fantasies, your mind will start associating these naughty thoughts with a negative sensation of punishment and eventually you won't have these dirty thoughts anymore and will lose this need for constant masturbation.
This method has worked wonders on patient with similar conditions as yours.

I also recommend co-therapy - that is having several therapists at the same time to work on your serious condition - so if there are any other therapists with other methods you want to try, I do recommend you to do so.

I'm happy to assist you between your sessions in case you have further questions such as how and where to spank yourself, what other toys to use to enhance the therapeutic effect, where to do your sessions... However, you would have to tell me more about you in the process.
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Old 09-29-2023, 09:24 AM   #5
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I am in as a therapist

My problem is that I am always horny.
My biggest dream is to be in the middle of a group of women that are laughing about me

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Old 10-01-2023, 02:40 PM   #6
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Such a great game idea, GrrlSpanky!

I realize that you contacted our clinic a while ago, but unfortunately no therapist was available then . . .
Doctor, I totally understand the reason for the delay in hearing back from your clinic. I am just so glad you were able to fit me in. I am afraid my little problem just continues to grow worse.

Your suggested therapy is very intriguing. I cannot help but wonder if I will be able to resist the desire to reach fruition. Especially for fourteen days! Are you sure we cannot find some sort of compromise? Perhaps start smaller? I feel so overwhelmed knowing all I have to overcome.

Ahhh, but there I am asking questions when the good Doctor warned me that means I will have to provide more information if I do. As for the wheres and hows, I suppose my pussy is what gets me in trouble so that is what I should spank. Especially the clitoris I cannot stop stimulating. And I know just what I should think about. I am already trembling thinking about it! Where to do my sessions . . . oh my neighbors are far too close to do so in front of open windows. I should certainly have to hide myself away.

I am sorry to get a late start but I suppose those two weeks get over fastest if I start right away. Thank you, Doctor. I do hope this helps me.



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Old 10-02-2023, 02:07 AM   #7
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Your suggested therapy is very intriguing. I cannot help but wonder if I will be able to resist the desire to reach fruition. Especially for fourteen days! Are you sure we cannot find some sort of compromise? Perhaps start smaller? I feel so overwhelmed knowing all I have to overcome.

I am glad to read that you are taking your masturbation problem serious and have already started with your healing journey.
As for the suggested therapy, I am sure we can tailor it a little bit to your circumstances. If you don't think you can go for two weeks without orgasm we can shorten it down to a couple of days, but we will have to increase the effect of the negative reinforcement during that time. This means a lot more spanking - yes, especially on your clitoris, since it seems that your clitoris is the culprit of your problem.
I want you to slap your pussy also during masturbation with your bare hand. At least one strong slap every minute. Do you usually masturbate with your bare hand or with a toy? And how long does a masturbation session typically last for you?
As for the numerous spanks you'll give yourself for each edge, you should ideally use alternate between different tools with which you will perform these spanks. I recommend a spoon and a brush to begin with. Do you have proper spanking equipment at home?
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Old 10-07-2023, 02:15 PM   #8
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I am glad to read that you are taking your masturbation problem serious and have already started with your healing journey.
As for the suggested therapy, I am sure we can tailor it a little bit to your circumstances. If you don't think you can go for two weeks without orgasm we can shorten it down to a couple of days, but we will have to increase the effect of the negative reinforcement during that time. This means a lot more spanking - yes, especially on your clitoris, since it seems that your clitoris is the culprit of your problem.
Doctor, I am so very sorry I have been busier than I expected of late. I really thought I could be more attentive to your therapeutic advice. Hopefully you can forgive me and continue to patiently assist me with my problem. I do believe you have struck the nail on the head. My need to touch and circle and stimulate my clitorus is my deepest and most abused problem. Doctor, I can barely resist. I feel you may have to work extra hard to deter this frequent behaviour.


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I want you to slap your pussy also during masturbation with your bare hand. At least one strong slap every minute. Do you usually masturbate with your bare hand or with a toy? And how long does a masturbation session typically last for you?
I usually use a Hitachi style wand. Almost always. I masturbate every night before bed, which is usually a fast session of about ten minutes. But two to four times a week I spend the entire evening after work (or most of the day on a weekend) with the wand nuzzled up against my clit buzzing and teasing away. I don't normally cum more than once near the end if at all. I . . . I must admit I love the teasing of it, Doctor. And I find myself indulging more and more.


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As for the numerous spanks you'll give yourself for each edge, you should ideally use alternate between different tools with which you will perform these spanks. I recommend a spoon and a brush to begin with. Do you have proper spanking equipment at home?
I got rid of much of what I used to have but a few implements are still floating around. I have a couple good leather straps, a leather crop that is somewhat like a swatter, a rubber paddle that can be brutal on a shaved, spread cunt and rubber strap too. Bit of this and that. But please, Doctor, I am not sure how much more I can take. I have been trying to follow your advice but not allowing myself orgasm . . . it is just so hard. Perhaps I am being too gentle.
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Old 10-29-2023, 01:26 PM   #9
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My time as a patient is well over and I cannot say my first round of therapy was very effective. Again, I find myself wasting a day away while I stimulate and think about things I should not. I think it is time to rededicate myself to therapy. . .

I am in as a patient. My main problem is being a chronic masturbater who is deeply embarrassed over the types of dirty thoughts it takes for her to get off. I'm also a little concerned about how enticing those thoughts are, and hope to avoid succumbing to temptation. Preferred therapies include spanking and hypnosis.

I have a vacation towards the end of November. I can't help but feel if I do not get a handle on this I might just get out of control during that time. Oh Doctors, can't you help me?
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Old 10-29-2023, 08:33 PM   #10
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I'm in as a doctor.

PM appointments and prescriptions only. If you have need of my services, please include your problem to be addressed (or reference your relevant post here), and any toys, er, home medical devices already owned, and any relevant treatment already tried.

I work best with female patients, but will do at least an initial consultation with anyone.

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Feel free to get in touch if you require therapy. Until then, and without further diagnosis,

Reduce orgasms to once per day only between 20-21.00 h
Make sure you orgasm in this window, independent where you are

While masturbating to orgasm speak out loud: “i can control my orgasm” in repetition
After the orgasm spank your ass 25 times, with each hit say: “control yourself”

Write a diary and share it to the doctors here: include when you got aroused the day and why, was your vagina wet and how wet was it, … for the orgasms in the evening describe how you achieved them, how they felt…

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Old 11-04-2023, 05:03 PM   #12
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Doctor Matdoc,

Thank you for considering me for treatment. I am receiving some treatment now but it may be compatible with yours. I do know I could use all the help I can get. I will contact you for clarification, negotiation, and of course more treatment.
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Old 11-05-2023, 06:16 PM   #13
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I am afraid I might need more Therapy than I first thought. My treatments are meeting mixed results. I find it difficult to focus on improving with so little ongoing contact or therapy. I wonder if they have round the clock Masturbators Anonymous meetings? Compulsions can strike any time and slip so easily out of control when not actively discouraged.
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Old 11-11-2023, 05:48 AM   #14
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It sounds like you need to be able to reach out to multiple doctors in order to get the help that you require. You can always reach out to me when you’re struggling with troublesome thoughts or urges
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Old 11-11-2023, 09:01 AM   #15
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My problem is that sphincter is too tight and at that same time my balls are often swollen.
I think a controlled and supervised stretching and unloading with very specific instructions could help me. There are so many variables for me to control that I need professional advice and supervision.
How and how long can I stretch my sphincter? Can stretching be more effective with or without underwear?

If you have any helpful tipps...
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