24/male/switch seeks any age/female/switch in (see post) (dommes & subs 2)

Sextreme · 01-05-2021, 10:54 AM

24/male/switch seeks any age/female/switch in (see post) (dommes & subs 2)

Intro

So here I am, trying again! This time I am going all in, I am trying every possible avenue until this lockdown ends and we can start going out again (and going to munches) lol. Hello there, my name is Adam. I am real! Like REAL! I'm looking for an actual relationship and bond with someone else who is REAL. BUT if you are interested in online only that is ok, if you're still willing to verify you are who you say. For that you wouldn't need a face pic, just something of you and your username. I have pictures and can happily verify who I am, I have a fetlife account too with a face pic on there (not under the same username as here), If I think you are serious and trustworthy I may give you my fet account name. But I am relatively new to that. Ideally I would like someone as local to Hampshire in the UK as possible. But genuinely I'm happy wherever you are. I love to travel so I would never rule out moving anywhere for someone special. Nearly moved to Canada for my ex so don't hesitate just because of the distance. Thanks to lockdowns we wouldn't be able to meet for a little while anyway.

About me

Firstly a little about me. I am 5ft 10in, dark hair and brown eyes with a dad bod, hairy and cuddly lol. I enjoy travelling, though I doubt we'll get the chance to do that again anytime soon. I love history, I'm absolutely obsessed with music. I write lyrics everyday, ever want to challenge me to the dirtiest rhyme I can write that day feel free to challenge me lol. I also have an obsession with professional wrestling lol, I know... I'm the 90's equivalent to anime kids. I love comedy, I usually try and make stupid jokes to make people laugh. Don't worry, not in the bedroom lol. Overall I would say my best quality would be how I genuinely care. Like I know lots say they care, but if there is ever anything I can do to improve your life I will. I do NOT care what you look like in the slightest. I'm a Sapiosexual, I find your mind sexier than anything. If I'm attracted to you by your words, you've already won. I am understanding, don't feel ashamed to open up to me about anything. Also don't worry if I mention a kink that panics you or puts you off of me. No kink is more important than your limits, I will always respect that.

I have a genuine love for seeing people happy. It is an honour to be able to bring a smile to anyones face. But to your face it would be my duty! I have a respect for the simple things that show affection. In a relationship, I like to show my appreciation through small everyday signs. I enjoy leaving notes for you to read, making you a playlist of music I think you will like. Hell, I'm happy to try and get into that show you love just so we can share that together. I'd say I'm a big romantic, I love the sensuality as well as the sexuality. I find a slow build really increases the emotions and intensity of everything.

What I Am Looking For In Any Partner

Ideally I would love a female switch, someone who we can explore our kinks together. Maybe get back at eachother for particularly hard tasks we've given eachother in the past. I can be very creative with my tasks and if a switch I would like someone who also has some level of creativity and originality. If you are a sub, expect tasks and rules with the same creativity I have just mentioned.

I would like to get to the point where we are 100% comfortable and trusting of one another. Trust is an incredibly big thing for me and I will never share anything that you entrusted with me so I expect the same respect shown in return. It would be nice to have regular video calls, not just sexually. But just as two people who care for eachother. Openness is a huge thing for me, as I find it quite hard to get aroused when I don't know anything about you. As I have said, I am a sapiosexual and your looks don't matter to me. But the openness does, the better and closer a bond we have surely the better chances our D/s relationship will work. Or that's what I like to think anyway.

For My Potential Domme

With me as your submissive you will always have my undivided attention. From the moment you wake up until the moment you go to bed, you will feel cared for. I listen to instructions well, I would also say my literary skills are good. Which I would think is important for both of us while this lockdown continues.
My needs as a sub I would say are quite simple, I absolutely adore feeling owned. That may ultimately be why I love BDSM and D/s relationships in general. There is no better feeling, you are so wanted that someone wants to own you completely. I love degradation and humiliation but not at first, I may be being overly sensitive but I need to subconsciously know you care before that. I sometimes struggle with chastity, so if that's a big kink of yours I will need training. I would say my best quality as a sub is my attention to detail and drive to succeed in any task you give me. I would say usually the only time I fail a task is when there was genuinely nothing I could do about it. Involuntary things like don't cum...
I could write about my love for submitting to a beautiful powerful woman all day happily. But I am trying to not turn this ad into a pain to read for you.

For My Potential subs

With me as your Dom, you are gaining someone who will genuinely care about you and your life goals. I like to know what motivates you and drives you, so I know how best to push you in a loving way. With me you will have rules and how many tasks will depend on my mood and your availability obviously. Though with us in lockdown now, what's your excuse? Picture proof will be expected for completed tasks but I wouldn't expect anything sexual with your face in until you're comfortable. As a Dom I mainly get my pleasure from the control aspect, which I find incredibly sexy. Being asked whether they are allowed the toilet or to change their panties the next day gives me butterflies. You will be expected to at the very least have some interest in TPE.

My Main Kinks Are..

Humiliation, pain, pussy (for you)/anal stretching, recently achieved my first anal only orgasm. Gross stuff (Piss, light scat, sweat, dirty feet) ((I don't expect many to have this kink too but it would be a big bonus if you did.)) Cum play (If you're my sub, obviously this would be if we ever met up in the future.) Feet (love them). Everything anal. Facesitting/Rimming (huge fetish for me). Spit, figging and much, much more we can discuss later. As a Dom TPE could include (depending on you), choosing your clothes. Deciding on when you can change underwear and socks. Deciding on when you can use the toilet and possibly removing bathroom privleges if you need punishing! But everything is negotiable!

How To Contact Me

Firstly send me a pm on here, title your message with either Domme, sub or switch depending on you. So I know you bothered to read this. The kik from my old post is no longer active, my kik has my actual face picture so you will have to earn kik. Show me you are serious, and be creative in the reply. Make yourself stand out from the fakes.

Toys I own

9 inch dildo, two dildos with a shared base together for dp, Y shaped plug that opens inside of you, hollow plug, small, medium and large round buttplugs (large doesn't fit, poorly designed), small jeweled butt plug, my pornstar replica fist, a huge syringe for enemas, have an actual enema kit but syringe is easier, small anal beads (too small really), huge bumpy dildo (hard to explain, 3 bumps with increasing girth), huge cream buttplug (I love putting that in with no warmup)

Disclaimer

I don't know if I should have used the word disclaimer lol, sounds like I'm about to say I meant none of that now. I just wanted to add I mentioned in my last post I had a rough year in 2020, had more than one traumatic event happen. But overall I am coping pretty well all things considered, but there may be a day when I seem not myself and I just wanted to put this here that I will try and make sure that doesn't happen.

If anyone has any questions 100% feel free to comment or shoot me a pm. Thank you everyone who payed attention to my ad and showed interest in me! I promise to reply to every single question, message or inquiry about me.

May we all have a safe and amazing new year everyone! X

01-05-2021, 10:54 AM	#1
Sextreme Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2020 Location: UK Posts: 14 Blog Entries: 5	24/male/switch seeks any age/female/switch in (see post) (dommes & subs 2) 24/male/switch seeks any age/female/switch in (see post) (dommes & subs 2) Intro So here I am, trying again! This time I am going all in, I am trying every possible avenue until this lockdown ends and we can start going out again (and going to munches) lol. Hello there, my name is Adam. I am real! Like REAL! I'm looking for an actual relationship and bond with someone else who is REAL. BUT if you are interested in online only that is ok, if you're still willing to verify you are who you say. For that you wouldn't need a face pic, just something of you and your username. I have pictures and can happily verify who I am, I have a fetlife account too with a face pic on there (not under the same username as here), If I think you are serious and trustworthy I may give you my fet account name. But I am relatively new to that. Ideally I would like someone as local to Hampshire in the UK as possible. But genuinely I'm happy wherever you are. I love to travel so I would never rule out moving anywhere for someone special. Nearly moved to Canada for my ex so don't hesitate just because of the distance. Thanks to lockdowns we wouldn't be able to meet for a little while anyway. About me Firstly a little about me. I am 5ft 10in, dark hair and brown eyes with a dad bod, hairy and cuddly lol. I enjoy travelling, though I doubt we'll get the chance to do that again anytime soon. I love history, I'm absolutely obsessed with music. I write lyrics everyday, ever want to challenge me to the dirtiest rhyme I can write that day feel free to challenge me lol. I also have an obsession with professional wrestling lol, I know... I'm the 90's equivalent to anime kids. I love comedy, I usually try and make stupid jokes to make people laugh. Don't worry, not in the bedroom lol. Overall I would say my best quality would be how I genuinely care. Like I know lots say they care, but if there is ever anything I can do to improve your life I will. I do NOT care what you look like in the slightest. I'm a Sapiosexual, I find your mind sexier than anything. If I'm attracted to you by your words, you've already won. I am understanding, don't feel ashamed to open up to me about anything. Also don't worry if I mention a kink that panics you or puts you off of me. No kink is more important than your limits, I will always respect that. I have a genuine love for seeing people happy. It is an honour to be able to bring a smile to anyones face. But to your face it would be my duty! I have a respect for the simple things that show affection. In a relationship, I like to show my appreciation through small everyday signs. I enjoy leaving notes for you to read, making you a playlist of music I think you will like. Hell, I'm happy to try and get into that show you love just so we can share that together. I'd say I'm a big romantic, I love the sensuality as well as the sexuality. I find a slow build really increases the emotions and intensity of everything. What I Am Looking For In Any Partner Ideally I would love a female switch, someone who we can explore our kinks together. Maybe get back at eachother for particularly hard tasks we've given eachother in the past. I can be very creative with my tasks and if a switch I would like someone who also has some level of creativity and originality. If you are a sub, expect tasks and rules with the same creativity I have just mentioned. I would like to get to the point where we are 100% comfortable and trusting of one another. Trust is an incredibly big thing for me and I will never share anything that you entrusted with me so I expect the same respect shown in return. It would be nice to have regular video calls, not just sexually. But just as two people who care for eachother. Openness is a huge thing for me, as I find it quite hard to get aroused when I don't know anything about you. As I have said, I am a sapiosexual and your looks don't matter to me. But the openness does, the better and closer a bond we have surely the better chances our D/s relationship will work. Or that's what I like to think anyway. For My Potential Domme With me as your submissive you will always have my undivided attention. From the moment you wake up until the moment you go to bed, you will feel cared for. I listen to instructions well, I would also say my literary skills are good. Which I would think is important for both of us while this lockdown continues. My needs as a sub I would say are quite simple, I absolutely adore feeling owned. That may ultimately be why I love BDSM and D/s relationships in general. There is no better feeling, you are so wanted that someone wants to own you completely. I love degradation and humiliation but not at first, I may be being overly sensitive but I need to subconsciously know you care before that. I sometimes struggle with chastity, so if that's a big kink of yours I will need training. I would say my best quality as a sub is my attention to detail and drive to succeed in any task you give me. I would say usually the only time I fail a task is when there was genuinely nothing I could do about it. Involuntary things like don't cum... I could write about my love for submitting to a beautiful powerful woman all day happily. But I am trying to not turn this ad into a pain to read for you. For My Potential subs With me as your Dom, you are gaining someone who will genuinely care about you and your life goals. I like to know what motivates you and drives you, so I know how best to push you in a loving way. With me you will have rules and how many tasks will depend on my mood and your availability obviously. Though with us in lockdown now, what's your excuse? Picture proof will be expected for completed tasks but I wouldn't expect anything sexual with your face in until you're comfortable. As a Dom I mainly get my pleasure from the control aspect, which I find incredibly sexy. Being asked whether they are allowed the toilet or to change their panties the next day gives me butterflies. You will be expected to at the very least have some interest in TPE. My Main Kinks Are.. Humiliation, pain, pussy (for you)/anal stretching, recently achieved my first anal only orgasm. Gross stuff (Piss, light scat, sweat, dirty feet) ((I don't expect many to have this kink too but it would be a big bonus if you did.)) Cum play (If you're my sub, obviously this would be if we ever met up in the future.) Feet (love them). Everything anal. Facesitting/Rimming (huge fetish for me). Spit, figging and much, much more we can discuss later. As a Dom TPE could include (depending on you), choosing your clothes. Deciding on when you can change underwear and socks. Deciding on when you can use the toilet and possibly removing bathroom privleges if you need punishing! But everything is negotiable! How To Contact Me Firstly send me a pm on here, title your message with either Domme, sub or switch depending on you. So I know you bothered to read this. The kik from my old post is no longer active, my kik has my actual face picture so you will have to earn kik. Show me you are serious, and be creative in the reply. Make yourself stand out from the fakes. Toys I own 9 inch dildo, two dildos with a shared base together for dp, Y shaped plug that opens inside of you, hollow plug, small, medium and large round buttplugs (large doesn't fit, poorly designed), small jeweled butt plug, my pornstar replica fist, a huge syringe for enemas, have an actual enema kit but syringe is easier, small anal beads (too small really), huge bumpy dildo (hard to explain, 3 bumps with increasing girth), huge cream buttplug (I love putting that in with no warmup) Disclaimer I don't know if I should have used the word disclaimer lol, sounds like I'm about to say I meant none of that now. I just wanted to add I mentioned in my last post I had a rough year in 2020, had more than one traumatic event happen. But overall I am coping pretty well all things considered, but there may be a day when I seem not myself and I just wanted to put this here that I will try and make sure that doesn't happen. If anyone has any questions 100% feel free to comment or shoot me a pm. Thank you everyone who payed attention to my ad and showed interest in me! I promise to reply to every single question, message or inquiry about me. May we all have a safe and amazing new year everyone! X Last edited by Sextreme; 01-06-2021 at 10:13 PM.