New to chastity

Pyrkejeremy · 03-18-2020, 06:55 AM

Hey all, so just got my first chastity device and locked it on. Could not be more excited to be living my fantasy. Just want a general consensus, should I tell my girlfriend about it or keep it secret? If so how?

Gitano · 03-18-2020, 07:26 AM

Good for you :-)

Depends on your girlfriend if you should tell. Is she kinky minded that she could take the news ? If so then you sure should. Would be great if she takes the keys.

If not then it could be difficult and i won't reccomend it. Then very slowly perhaps get the idea in her mind and try to figure out what she would think about it.

Pyrkejeremy · 03-18-2020, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Gitano

Good for you :-)

Depends on your girlfriend if you should tell. Is she kinky minded that she could take the news ? If so then you sure should. Would be great if she takes the keys.

If not then it could be difficult and i won't reccomend it. Then very slowly perhaps get the idea in her mind and try to figure out what she would think about it.

I'm not sure. She has always said she likes to be in control sexually, but hasnt shown much more then that in terms of kinkiness.

Gitano · 03-18-2020, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Pyrkejeremy

I'm not sure. She has always said she likes to be in control sexually, but hasnt shown much more then that in terms of kinkiness.

Well it is an opening. Carefully bring it up a bit about being in control. Might she just have lot of ideas and not dared to act on them yet. Slowly give her the feeling she can be.

Key is talking i guess as people always say :-)

Narrowm1nd3d99 · 03-19-2020, 03:29 AM

I'd say make her part of the journey.

Let her be your keyholder. It will open up a whole different world for you. Beware though, she might like having that power over you and you might need to work extra hard to earn your chance of getting unlocked.
Mine went from being a very timid and mild person in real life, but when it comes to owning my key and orgasms, shes moved into a whole different league. Evil I tell you. The things i must do. And its brilliant. Suddenly she's more open about her fantasies etc as well.

03-18-2020, 06:55 AM	#1
Pyrkejeremy Member Join Date: Oct 2015 Posts: 98 Blog Entries: 1	New to chastity Hey all, so just got my first chastity device and locked it on. Could not be more excited to be living my fantasy. Just want a general consensus, should I tell my girlfriend about it or keep it secret? If so how? __________________ Likes: denial, cum eating, rules, humiliation, hidden public Limits: face, scat, blood, family, messy,

03-18-2020, 07:26 AM	#2
Gitano getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 359	Good for you :-) Depends on your girlfriend if you should tell. Is she kinky minded that she could take the news ? If so then you sure should. Would be great if she takes the keys. If not then it could be difficult and i won't reccomend it. Then very slowly perhaps get the idea in her mind and try to figure out what she would think about it. __________________ Likes (Will do if able) Spanking, Punishments, Humiliation, Writing (lines, reports etc.), Pictures (no face), chastity Dislikes (Will do as punishment for failing a dare) Body writing, Long term, Denial. Limits (Will not do) Public, mouthsoaping, Permanent, CBT, Sleeping dares, anything illegal, pee/poop.

03-19-2020, 03:29 AM	#5
Narrowm1nd3d99 Member Join Date: Aug 2019 Posts: 52	I'd say make her part of the journey. Let her be your keyholder. It will open up a whole different world for you. Beware though, she might like having that power over you and you might need to work extra hard to earn your chance of getting unlocked. Mine went from being a very timid and mild person in real life, but when it comes to owning my key and orgasms, shes moved into a whole different league. Evil I tell you. The things i must do. And its brilliant. Suddenly she's more open about her fantasies etc as well.