23/F - AMA - New-ish member to GetDare

[SilvertongueLyra]

Hey!
My name is Lyra and I am fairly new to GetDare. In an effort to get to know some of you, ask me almost anything and I will respond as soon as I can. I will answer anything except questions which can identify me; like credit cards, or social service numbers.

Lyra

Likes: Bondage, Impact Play, Edges, Nipple clamping
Dislikes: Pussy or Clit Clamping (I suppose we should all start calling it CLT and make Jaro's acronym become more popular), Chemical Play, semi-public
Limits: Public, Social, Family, Scat, Messy, Rape play, watersports, Illegal

[Devildom1994]

Hello Lyra. I'll start things off here.
1. What's your favourite genre of music ?
2. How do you spend your free time ?
3. Are you a dog or a cat person ?
4. What's the most kinkiest thing you have done ?
5. Name one thing that can turn you own instantly at any given time.

[batfinch]

Do you always sit on the toilet seat
1. At Home
2. At Work
3 At a friends house
4. In a public toilet

Does it depend what you need to do?

[SilvertongueLyra]

Originally Posted by Devildom1994

Hello Lyra. I'll start things off here.
1. What's your favourite genre of music ?
2. How do you spend your free time ?
3. Are you a dog or a cat person ?
4. What's the most kinkiest thing you have done ?
5. Name one thing that can turn you own instantly at any given time.

1. What's your favourite genre of music ?
Pop, Hip Hop
2. How do you spend your free time ?
Reading, writing, researching
3. Are you a dog or a cat person ?
Cat. The bigger they are the better.
4. What's the most kinkiest thing you have done ?
I had to strip down in a public washroom and edge twice on an airplane. The time limit before I became conspicuous was the hardest part.
5. Name one thing that can turn you own instantly at any given time
I have never thought of it but I do know a good conversation does turn me on quite easily.

[SilvertongueLyra]

Originally Posted by batfinch

Do you always sit on the toilet seat
1. At Home
2. At Work
3 At a friends house
4. In a public toilet

Does it depend what you need to do?

Nope, no for all. I prefer to squat, and we do have both the seat toilet and the squat toilet in most places so I have never had an issue.

[Devildom1994]

Well answered. Here's a few more.

1. How does submission help and/or excite you ?
2. I know you are new but what do you feel about Getdare ?
3. What do you expect from getdare ?
4. Let me get a lil dirty now. What's the most disgusting thing you have done when it comes to sex or kink ?
5. What's one embarassing sexual or kinky memory ?


Devil 😈

[SilvertongueLyra]

Originally Posted by Devildom1994

Well answered. Here's a few more.

1. How does submission help and/or excite you ?
2. I know you are new but what do you feel about Getdare ?
3. What do you expect from getdare ?
4. Let me get a lil dirty now. What's the most disgusting thing you have done when it comes to sex or kink ?
5. What's one embarassing sexual or kinky memory ?


Devil 😈

1. How does submission help and/or excite you ?
Hmm... I like being able to provide for my Master, it makes me feel useful and needed. Seeing him smile when I have done something right excites me quite a bit as well. Submission allows me to be me, to not have to worry about anyone's needs but Masters, and to just surrender.
2. I know you are new but what do you feel about Getdare ?
So far, I have found lots of wonderful people, some pretty good blogs and a very tight community. It's given me a sense of kinship which I didn't know I was craving
3. What do you expect from getdare ?
Honestly, nothing... I have learnt to keep my expectations minimal and consider any good thing a bonus.
4. Let me get a lil dirty now. What's the most disgusting thing you have done when it comes to sex or kink ?
I tend to shy away from the dirty... My last attempt at anal though would probably be considered dirty and messy since I failed abysmally. In all honesty, my heart wasn't into it.
5. What's one embarassing sexual or kinky memory ?
Walking around in a mall with no knickers and just a knee length skirt. I kept thinking the wind would blow from somewhere and I would be toast. The only thing that happened was me blushing like a freak. Point to anyone doing this - unless your skirt is really low, no one cares.

[Devildom1994]

Well answered. It makes me wanna ask more lol.
1. What's your deepest, darkest fantasy ?
2. What do you look in / expect from dominant ?
3. What's one thing that scares you when it comes to kink (if you have one) ?
4. If you were with your Master and he gives you one choice to select an implement to spank you with, which one would you choose (assume you have all the toys with you) ?
5. Where do you want to go with bdsm ? What's your goal with it ? ( If you have one )


Devil 😈

[SilvertongueLyra]

Originally Posted by Devildom1994

Well answered. It makes me wanna ask more lol.
1. What's your deepest, darkest fantasy ?
2. What do you look in / expect from dominant ?
3. What's one thing that scares you when it comes to kink (if you have one) ?
4. If you were with your Master and he gives you one choice to select an implement to spank you with, which one would you choose (assume you have all the toys with you) ?
5. Where do you want to go with bdsm ? What's your goal with it ? ( If you have one )


Devil 😈

1. What's your deepest, darkest fantasy ?
One of the things I have always dreamed off is kinbaku, I don't think I am ever going to get to live it out but the mere thought of being suspended, with the ropes directly over my most sensitive spots makes me really wet.
2. What do you look in / expect from dominant ?
As long as I can communicate well with them, with both of us listening and giving one another our best, I can submit easier to them; which was the case with Master. Someone who can command me by a simple look and have me quivering and waiting to please him whenever he is around.
3. What's one thing that scares you when it comes to kink (if you have one) ?
Oh a lottttt. But it's the scary stuff that excites me the most. The things I am still scared to try, but would like to try as well, are electro play and clit clamping. I wouldn't do it on my own though, and only when Master is around and knows what he is doing - which in the case of electro play would need a lot more practice since we both have none.
4. If you were with your Master and he gives you one choice to select an implement to spank you with, which one would you choose (assume you have all the toys with you) ?

I am not sure how you will take this answer, but anything he wishes to use. I do trust him to take care of me and manage to satisfy both our needs.
5. Where do you want to go with bdsm ? What's your goal with it ? ( If you have one )

I suppose my biggest goal in BDSM is education - BDSM really brings a spark into the relationship, a bonding based on trust from both sides that isn't something I have seen too often in Vanilla. There is a lot of misinformation in regards to it, and it can actually be a whole lot of fun when practiced right. Given, there are people out there who may use BDSM to abuse for the sheer psychotic joy they get from it, but it's really just a tool, depends on how you use it.

[ChasingClementine]

1. I read your favorite genre of music is pop and hip-hop, who is your favorite artist/band?
2. What's the sexiest thing a partner has done to you?
3. Celebrity crush?
4. Favorite part of your body?
5. Have you ever tried wax play?
6. If you could have sex anywhere in the world, where would it be?
7. What's your most memorable orgasm?
8. Favorite thing about BDSM?
9. Have you ever walked in on a couple having sex?

[Zeus]

1. What did you/will you have for breakfast, lunch and dinner today?
2. Which body parts do you shave?
3. What is your skin color?
4. Do you have any tattoos? If so where and about what?
5. What do you wear to bed?

[SilvertongueLyra]

Originally Posted by ChasingClementine

1. I read your favorite genre of music is pop and hip-hop, who is your favorite artist/band?
2. What's the sexiest thing a partner has done to you?
3. Celebrity crush?
4. Favorite part of your body?
5. Have you ever tried wax play?
6. If you could have sex anywhere in the world, where would it be?
7. What's your most memorable orgasm?
8. Favorite thing about BDSM?
9. Have you ever walked in on a couple having sex?

1. I read your favorite genre of music is pop and hip-hop, who is your favorite artist/band?

Ooh. I care more for the music and my favourites change a lot, but my current favourites are Why Don't We, Taylor Swift, Shawn Mendes and almost all covers by Kurt Hugo Schneider

2. What's the sexiest thing a partner has done to you?

Stripped me, had me tied up, and then littered my body with kisses everywhere. I was flushed but very aroused and the lack of control was the sexiest part.
3. Celebrity crush?

[COLOR="royalblue"]Asa Butterfield, Fredd[/COLORie Highmore and Neil Turok.

4. Favorite part of your body?

This one is easy - brain; the rest of it is below average, at least the brain is just average.

5. Have you ever tried wax play?

No, but I want to!

6. If you could have sex anywhere in the world, where would it be?

On a hot-air balloon

7. What's your most memorable orgasm?

When I was made to cum over and over again

8. Favorite thing about BDSM?

Everything, but mainly the respect that a Dom and sub have for each other.

9. Have you ever walked in on a couple having sex?

Nope, never ... Yet.

[SilvertongueLyra]

Originally Posted by Zeus

1. What did you/will you have for breakfast, lunch and dinner today?
2. Which body parts do you shave?
3. What is your skin color?
4. Do you have any tattoos? If so where and about what?
5. What do you wear to bed?

1. What did you/will you have for breakfast, lunch and dinner today?

Breakfast = Milk
Lunch= Rice with Sweet and Sour Chicken gravy
Dinner= milkshake, flatbread and shredded chicken salad

2. Which body parts do you shave?

All, any hair below my heaD is waxed off.

3. What is your skin color?

According to Wikipedia, my skin colour is called Dougla.

4. Do you have any tattoos? If so where and about what?

None.

5. What do you wear to bed?

Two piece full pyjamas, or nothing.

[Pychshark]

If you could do anything with no negative impact/consequence to yourself what would you do?

[SilvertongueLyra]

Originally Posted by Pychshark

If you could do anything with no negative impact/consequence to yourself what would you do?

I don't know, it's a complicated question. If it has no negative consequences for me, does it have any impact for the rest of the world? The one thing I would like to do if nothing were to happen to me would be to go to the sun, but any increase in mass to the sun would mean the destruction of Earth... So...probably not something I would do. But in the case of socially impacting - I would probably do nothing different.