Sleeping with a chastity cage

Jaro · 10-03-2019, 09:17 PM

Like I wrote in my recent blog -> https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=90838 I have lots of trouble sleeping with my chastity cage.

Not only do I have a problem with dealing with my major nightly erection but also just simply falling asleep. I can't because the cage lets me focus too much on my penis. All I can think about is my penis and the feeling of the cage, even when fully soft, makes me horny and so I can't sleep.

I am looking for any advice you can give me to make this easier. I really want to learn to sleep with it comfortably enough so that I can have my Miss lock me up for days on end.

Thank you!

Edgeking · 10-03-2019, 09:19 PM

Hmm try finding a position that allows the cage to not poke your leg or otherwise, I’m not really sure how else to help sorry

hood.0272 · 10-04-2019, 02:30 PM

i found having a bedtime ritual was helpful. Brushing teeth, a short period kneeling in thanks to my key holder, a glass of water.
Physical tiredness can help too. So a long walk or run or a hard trip to the gym. Or a load of digging in the garden or something.
No screens for at least 90 minutes before bedtime.
And try reading a book. Something not mentally taxing (Dan Browne?) but it needs to be a real book, not from a screen or Kindle.

nareth · 10-04-2019, 02:52 PM

It may sound counter intuitive, but for me helped using a smaller cage. The one where I slept best was the smallest possible one. My penis couldn't grow at all in there and this caused it to giving up even trying that

so that I didn't have any trouble in the morning.

BoundBoy69 · 10-05-2019, 02:50 AM

Wear the cage for the full day before hand so that your body gets used to it. Keep warm so that your balls remain looser. Wear tight underwear as you sleep to reduce movement and keep your ball warm.

Try counting backwards from 100.

Don't make it an option to let yourself out before an alarm goes off because then you will keep trying to decide if you should let yourself out.

AgentGreen · 10-05-2019, 02:22 PM

I have quite a bit of experience with this and immediately going to the bathroom when you are woken up helps. You erection will go away and you will be able to quickly go back to sleep. The first two weeks can be a bit of a hell but past that point things start getting a LOT easier. Your body WILL learn to sleep with your device, it just takes time. In the meantime the bathroom tricks should make your nights mostly restful.

Jaro · 10-05-2019, 08:33 PM

Thank you for the tips guys! I am only trying this once a week now in the weekends. I really need my sleep during the week. But I understand I should probably increase my attempts to get this to work.
In any case I won't give up yet!

10-03-2019, 09:17 PM	#1
Jaro The toe sucking anal slut Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,502 Blog Entries: 299	Sleeping with a chastity cage Like I wrote in my recent blog -> https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=90838 I have lots of trouble sleeping with my chastity cage. Not only do I have a problem with dealing with my major nightly erection but also just simply falling asleep. I can't because the cage lets me focus too much on my penis. All I can think about is my penis and the feeling of the cage, even when fully soft, makes me horny and so I can't sleep. I am looking for any advice you can give me to make this easier. I really want to learn to sleep with it comfortably enough so that I can have my Miss lock me up for days on end. Thank you! __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys Check out my truths and dares here

10-03-2019, 09:19 PM	#2
Edgeking Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2019 Posts: 194	Hmm try finding a position that allows the cage to not poke your leg or otherwise, I’m not really sure how else to help sorry __________________ Sissy femboy who loves to have his cock controlled!!! KIK: GalaxyPluto69 Likes: Edging, cumming, hidden Public, messy, forced continuous cumming, wedgies Limits: Family, social suicide, anal, pain, permenant damage, cross dressing, dangerous, illegal, blood/knife play, toothpaste, piss, scat Things I'm into: Latex, big breasts, big ass, tight clothes, wedgies, camel toes

10-04-2019, 02:52 PM	#4
nareth Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2016 Location: Under your huge cock Posts: 151 Blog Entries: 6	It may sound counter intuitive, but for me helped using a smaller cage. The one where I slept best was the smallest possible one. My penis couldn't grow at all in there and this caused it to giving up even trying that so that I didn't have any trouble in the morning. __________________ 40/sissy bimbo/heteroflexible/sub/174cm/80kg Love: body writing, shaving, pet play Like: anal, plug tails, furry, submission, sissy, pink clothes Maybe/Willing to try: hidden feminization, hidden public, hypnosis, keyheld chastity, body paint Punishment: nails, pain, edging, tan tattoos, chastity Limit: blood, family, face, cam,pee, scat, social suicide, permanent, pics (with exceptions at my discretion) PM Dares BDSM test Toys Toy pics Fav. dare

10-05-2019, 02:50 AM	#5
BoundBoy69 Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2019 Location: Canada Posts: 148	Wear the cage for the full day before hand so that your body gets used to it. Keep warm so that your balls remain looser. Wear tight underwear as you sleep to reduce movement and keep your ball warm. Try counting backwards from 100. Don't make it an option to let yourself out before an alarm goes off because then you will keep trying to decide if you should let yourself out. __________________ M/31 Skype: live:boundboy_3 kik: BoundBoy69 discord: boundboy69#8320 Chasity: unlocked Likes: Bondage, cam2cam, games, light CBT, anal, toys, masturbation, wedgies, ice, trying new things Limits: Full public, poop, face pics, permanent/visible marks Toys: Lovens Hush, Chasity cage, ropes with rafters for hanging in basement, dildos, estim bands, clothespins, rubber cock rings, auto stroker, diapers, undersized protective cup, old underwear, straight jacket, mask.

10-05-2019, 08:33 PM	#7
Jaro The toe sucking anal slut Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,502 Blog Entries: 299	Thank you for the tips guys! I am only trying this once a week now in the weekends. I really need my sleep during the week. But I understand I should probably increase my attempts to get this to work. In any case I won't give up yet! __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys Check out my truths and dares here

10-04-2019, 02:30 PM	#3
hood.0272 Senior Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 120 Blog Entries: 4	i found having a bedtime ritual was helpful. Brushing teeth, a short period kneeling in thanks to my key holder, a glass of water. Physical tiredness can help too. So a long walk or run or a hard trip to the gym. Or a load of digging in the garden or something. No screens for at least 90 minutes before bedtime. And try reading a book. Something not mentally taxing (Dan Browne?) but it needs to be a real book, not from a screen or Kindle.

10-05-2019, 02:22 PM	#6
AgentGreen Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 63 Blog Entries: 2	I have quite a bit of experience with this and immediately going to the bathroom when you are woken up helps. You erection will go away and you will be able to quickly go back to sleep. The first two weeks can be a bit of a hell but past that point things start getting a LOT easier. Your body WILL learn to sleep with your device, it just takes time. In the meantime the bathroom tricks should make your nights mostly restful.