female chastity belt should we explore

yorkrose · 11-11-2018, 03:38 PM

Hi please help me decide if my sub girl should buy a chastity belt. We have a contract with rules one of which states no unauthorised orgasms.
She was bad to start with but recently has been very good despite having to edge three times a day. She seems very afraid of getting a belt and have used that as a threat to control her. However would value ideas and thoughts on full female belts and practicalities of these devices.

MrCharcol · 11-11-2018, 04:08 PM

Voted with my head rather than my heart...tried to be pragmatic rather than fantasy. Otherwise Jane@ would be joining Slave_E in limited orgasms in 2019

Oh yes I forgot she already is..see if they will give you a discount if you don't bother to buy the key to unlock it

ChastisedBaby · 11-11-2018, 07:48 PM

You should start her slow then work up to 2-3 orgasms a year

bee9 · 11-11-2018, 09:24 PM

Are you in a long-distance relationship?

theswitchyside · 11-11-2018, 10:05 PM

If she is training to be locked and/or in chastity or denied, perhaps the second last option is best.

Slave_E · 11-13-2018, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkrose

Hi please help me decide if my sub girl should buy a chastity belt.

Since she is very afraid of getting a belt, and since I know that chastity belts are more than just uncomfortable if worn longer than a few hours, I think you should keep the threat of buying a belt as the Sword of Damocles hanging over her head – I'm sure it will keep her obedient and denied. Which, btw, is cool. I'm in denial since the beginning of this year, no orgasms at all, and it plays strange tricks with my feelings, emotions and sexual needs...

Love,
Slave_E

Greatcornbow · 11-13-2018, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkrose

Hi please help me decide if my sub girl should buy a chastity belt. We have a contract with rules one of which states no unauthorised orgasms.
She was bad to start with but recently has been very good despite having to edge three times a day. She seems very afraid of getting a belt and have used that as a threat to control her. However would value ideas and thoughts on full female belts and practicalities of these devices.

Youy definitely need her in one.

Important thing is to get good quality belt (e.g. Neosteel or MySteel) and accurate measurements. And secure locking system!

And once she's got accustomed to wear (takes a bit of time) , they can be worn 24/7/365 if needed.

girlsockboy · 11-13-2018, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Greatcornbow

Youy definitely need her in one.

Important thing is to get good quality belt (e.g. Neosteel or MySteel) and accurate measurements. And secure locking system!

And once she's got accustomed to wear (takes a bit of time) , they can be worn 24/7/365 if needed.

I agree get a quality belt and only give her a few chances a year to cum.... if that

jane@ · 11-14-2018, 03:18 AM

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Originally Posted by bee9

Are you in a long-distance relationship?

no we see each other most days

jane@ · 11-14-2018, 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Slave_E

Since she is very afraid of getting a belt, and since I know that chastity belts are more than just uncomfortable if worn longer than a few hours, I think you should keep the threat of buying a belt as the Sword of Damocles hanging over her head – I'm sure it will keep her obedient and denied. Which, btw, is cool. I'm in denial since the beginning of this year, no orgasms at all, and it plays strange tricks with my feelings, emotions and sexual needs...

Love,
Slave_E

excellent post! xxx

bee9 · 11-14-2018, 03:26 AM

Just a side note, your blog is very impressive.

MrCharcol · 11-19-2018, 01:24 AM

I am stuck on a train so using my time wisely.

Dear York Rose

I think that the threat of buying a Chastity belt is not enough. ttJane@ (small t for small tits) should be made to buy one.

And it should be her that pays for it, you should not have to buy it for her much more humiliating if she has to pay to lock herself up...and why should you spend money on her?

As I said the threat of being made to buy one is not as powerful as her knowing that you can have her locked up at any time... especially if you are the only one who has the key.

Her knowing that as she clicks the padlocks home that she is at your mercy.

Also I think she should be made to buy it immediately..there is a full moon on Friday... maybe she should buy a silver one.

jane@ · 11-19-2018, 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by MrCharcol

I am stuck on a train so using my time wisely.

Also I think she should be made to buy it immediately..there is a full moon on Friday... maybe she should buy a silver one.

Beware the full moon I change from a Terror to a raging beast then - rip your throat out -

Otherwise great idea for Yorkrose - love you both!

Skyrim-explorer · 11-19-2018, 01:15 PM

Threw in my vote!

yorkrose · 12-12-2018, 06:15 AM

Thank you all for your help
by coincidence a lovely chastity belt was delivered today to TT Jane
just how it worked out.

I will get her to post some details here and in her blog

View Poll Results: chastity belt
continue with rule no unpermitted orgasms no belt	7	10.77%
get a belt and use as threat to stay good	10	15.38%
use belt in play limited lock up	14	21.54%
force belt wear 24/7 for days at a time	21	32.31%
allow to be free to orgasm when wants - no chastity	0	0%
lock up release only for cleaning and maybe 2-3 orgasms year	23	35.38%
lock up release cleaning only no more orgasms ever	11	16.92%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 65. You may not vote on this poll

11-11-2018, 03:38 PM	#1
yorkrose Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2018 Location: UK Posts: 11	female chastity belt should we explore Hi please help me decide if my sub girl should buy a chastity belt. We have a contract with rules one of which states no unauthorised orgasms. She was bad to start with but recently has been very good despite having to edge three times a day. She seems very afraid of getting a belt and have used that as a threat to control her. However would value ideas and thoughts on full female belts and practicalities of these devices.

11-11-2018, 04:08 PM	#2
MrCharcol Distinguished Member Join Date: May 2013 Location: Europe Posts: 512 Blog Entries: 27	Voted with my head rather than my heart...tried to be pragmatic rather than fantasy. Otherwise Jane@ would be joining Slave_E in limited orgasms in 2019 Oh yes I forgot she already is..see if they will give you a discount if you don't bother to buy the key to unlock it __________________ Friend, and Confident of the Beautiful & Amazing Slave_E Emily giving me her submission was the best gift I have ever received, and subbing to her was fun, but now she knows her place. I want to thank my beautiful and devoted muse for her friendship , her erotic mind and for being my Danger Twin Read her amazing story: My Stupid Boyfriend http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=139366

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bee9 getDare Succubus Join Date: May 2010 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 1,797	Just a side note, your blog is very impressive.

11-19-2018, 01:24 AM	#12
MrCharcol Distinguished Member Join Date: May 2013 Location: Europe Posts: 512 Blog Entries: 27	I am stuck on a train so using my time wisely. Dear York Rose I think that the threat of buying a Chastity belt is not enough. ttJane@ (small t for small tits) should be made to buy one. And it should be her that pays for it, you should not have to buy it for her much more humiliating if she has to pay to lock herself up...and why should you spend money on her? As I said the threat of being made to buy one is not as powerful as her knowing that you can have her locked up at any time... especially if you are the only one who has the key. Her knowing that as she clicks the padlocks home that she is at your mercy. Also I think she should be made to buy it immediately..there is a full moon on Friday... maybe she should buy a silver one. __________________ Friend, and Confident of the Beautiful & Amazing Slave_E Emily giving me her submission was the best gift I have ever received, and subbing to her was fun, but now she knows her place. I want to thank my beautiful and devoted muse for her friendship , her erotic mind and for being my Danger Twin Read her amazing story: My Stupid Boyfriend http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=139366

11-19-2018, 01:15 PM	#14
Skyrim-explorer getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jun 2017 Posts: 303 Blog Entries: 1	Threw in my vote! __________________ Kik: TheLockedup

12-12-2018, 06:15 AM	#15
yorkrose Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2018 Location: UK Posts: 11	The poll has finished and-- Thank you all for your help by coincidence a lovely chastity belt was delivered today to TT Jane just how it worked out. I will get her to post some details here and in her blog