Dominant Male 20 - AMA

[John M]

Hello Getdare

I thought I would make an ask me anything to see what kind of questions the getdare community might have. Look forward to hearing from everyone on here and feel free to ask me literally anything you want

[Winforce]

Hey,

1. Have you ever masturbated outside your home?

2. Have you tasted yourself ( juices) as part of masturbation?

3. What is your favorite time of day to masturbate?

4. Have you ever used any foods as part of a masturbation play? Which?

5. Have you ever masturbated in a car?

6. When did you give your first Blowjob?

7. Have you ever tried to use your phone as a vibrating device? Did it work?

8. What household items have you used for masturbation aid?

9. Have you ever looked in the drawers or cupboards at a friends house and found something that indicated their sexual preferences?

10. Have you ever caught/heard/seen someone masturbating?

11. Have your ever recorded (voice or movie) yourself masturbating?

12. Are masturbation orgasm stronger, when you have not cum for a longer time period?

13. How any times do you masturbate in a week?

14. Have someone ever told you anything about their masturbation habits?

15. What do you like to think about as you masturbate?

16. What sex toy would to love to have?

17. If you have a partner, does he/she tell your when he/she have masturbated?

18. Have you ever been very horny and wanting to masturbate without being able to do so, because you were in a public place?

19. What porn do you enjoy?

20. Are you going to masturbate today?

21. Have you ever used Panties to masturbate?

[John M]

Originally Posted by Winforce

Hey,

1. Have you ever masturbated outside your home?

2. Have you tasted yourself ( juices) as part of masturbation?

3. What is your favorite time of day to masturbate?

4. Have you ever used any foods as part of a masturbation play? Which?

5. Have you ever masturbated in a car?

6. When did you give your first Blowjob?

7. Have you ever tried to use your phone as a vibrating device? Did it work?

8. What household items have you used for masturbation aid?

9. Have you ever looked in the drawers or cupboards at a friends house and found something that indicated their sexual preferences?

10. Have you ever caught/heard/seen someone masturbating?

11. Have your ever recorded (voice or movie) yourself masturbating?

12. Are masturbation orgasm stronger, when you have not cum for a longer time period?

13. How any times do you masturbate in a week?

14. Have someone ever told you anything about their masturbation habits?

15. What do you like to think about as you masturbate?

16. What sex toy would to love to have?

17. If you have a partner, does he/she tell your when he/she have masturbated?

18. Have you ever been very horny and wanting to masturbate without being able to do so, because you were in a public place?

19. What porn do you enjoy?

20. Are you going to masturbate today?

21. Have you ever used Panties to masturbate?

1. Yes many times

2. No

3. Right before bed

4. Not on myself but I have made subs use food for masturbating

5. No

6. I have yet to give one

7. No, although I did try to figure out how to

8. Pens, pencils, anything that could be used as lube, etc.

9. Yes

10. No

11. Yes

12. Yes

13. Usually at least 7

14. Yes

15. BDSM stuff of various kinds

16. None that comes to mind

17. Yes

18. Yes, although it hasn't always stopped me

19. BDSM and electrosex mostly

20. Definitely

21. No

[Mousey123]

If you had a slave for 24 hours, who was open to most things, what would you do to her/ him?

[Alcd87]

What's the most humiliating thing you have done to a slave ?

[John M]

Originally Posted by Mousey123

If you had a slave for 24 hours, who was open to most things, what would you do to her/ him?

I'm going to assume this is a slave I met on Getdare and would be having control of via text rather than in person for this scenario.

I would start by getting to know my slave at first, their level of experience, how far they had been pushed before, and just get to know them a bit as a person. Then I would start by setting ground rules for the time they were my slave. I would make them address me as "sir" or "master" at all times. I would make them stay naked for as much of the time as possible (like when they are alone) and ban them from wearing certain articles of clothing for the entire time they were mine. For girls this would include bras and panties and for guys this would mean no underwear. I would also be choosing what clothing they are allowed to wear anytime they need clothing and make sure that is appropriate for a slave to be wearing even in public. I would also make the rule that they are to be plugged with the largest item they can have in their ass (likely a medium to large buttplug) and make it a rule that they are to wear it at all times unless they have my permission not to. I would also make it a rule that they are not to use the washroom at all without permission. They would also be banned from masturbation, watching porn and orgasms without my permission. I would also tell them that they must follow all orders within their limits and that this and all previously mentioned rules have stern punishments for disobeying.

Next I would start with tasks. While its impossible to say exactly what I would do as each slave is different I would do some of the following:

Edging torture: I would make the slave tie themself up in such a way that they can't close their legs and make them complete a certain number of edges within a certain period of time, with painful punishment for failing to finish in time or having an orgasms. This would continue until the slave is exhausted and cannot take any more at which time I would decide whether to allow any kind or orgasm as reward.

Nipple torture: I would make the slave wear either clamps or rubber bands around their nipples for a long period of time along with forcing them to spank their nipples to make them constantly hard and painful. This would likely be in combination with other things.

Public masturbation: I would make the slave masturbate in public blindfolded until they cum no matter who sees them.

Spankings: I would make the slave spank their ass and privates until they were red thanking me for each spanking. If they were good I may reward them with an orgasm.

Overnight bondage: I would make the slave sleep in an uncomfortable position tied up overnight with something large in their ass.

Shower play: I would make the slave take a cold shower only and force them to masturbate until they edged in the shower while freezing from the water.

There are likely more things I would come up with but that's a general idea. Of course throughout I would be degrading and strict to the slave but that kind of goes without saying. If you have any questions or want me to make a story for a specific scenario just let me know.

[John M]

Originally Posted by Alcd87

What's the most humiliating thing you have done to a slave ?

I can't pick one thing so here are a few things I've made slave do:

One time I had a slave go to work wearing no underwear and dark jeans, piss herself while working and then had to wear the jeans the rest of the day at work smelling like piss.

Another time I made a slave wander around naked in a shared room at college and keep himself hard and plugged the entire time. while calling him degrading names as well as forcing him to send nudes to a guy he knew.

Another time I made a slave post pictures of herself naked on her snapchat story under threat of (consensual) blackmail and did not allow her to delete them for the duration. She received messages then from people she knew in real life who had seen her naked.

[hererain]

• Do you like your slave/partners shaved? If so, completely or only down there?
• Are you shaved yourself?

[katt james]

At what age did you know you liked to be the dominant partner?

Also are you 100% dominant or just mostly?

[John M]

Originally Posted by hererain

• Do you like your slave/partners shaved? If so, completely or only down there?
• Are you shaved yourself?

I like to have my partners shaved completely if they are in a slave roll or a "little" role. Other submissive partners I am open to having some hair but I prefer the pubic area to be shaved for easier access.

I'm not shaved myself but I will trim my pubic hair quite short sometimes depending on my mood.

[John M]

Originally Posted by katt james

At what age did you know you liked to be the dominant partner?

Also are you 100% dominant or just mostly?

I've liked being dominant in general since before I was actually sexual with other people. So I guess sometime around 12 years old I realized I liked the idea of being dominant from porn. I never actually tried it until around the time I joined GetDare though.

I'm about 95% dominant although I have occasionally switched roles with a mostly submissive partner. I do have a bit of an exhibitionist side though which might be considered more submissive.

[Mousey123]

Thanks for your answer to my previous question.
some follow up questions.

Whats the most degrading think you have done to a slave?
What the most degrading thing you would like to do a slave?

Whats your thoughts on permanent denial?

[John M]

Originally Posted by Mousey123

Thanks for your answer to my previous question.
some follow up questions.

Whats the most degrading think you have done to a slave?
What the most degrading thing you would like to do a slave?

Whats your thoughts on permanent denial?

The answer to your first question is just higher up the page so feel free to check it out there.

For the most degrading thing I would do is probably to start by writing degrading words in visible places in permanent marker so whenever the slave is in public they are visible. Next I would make it a rule that they must wet and or mess themselves whenever I tell them to, no matter the situation. Then I would make them record a video of them pissing all over themselves and send it to all of their close friends so they are completely exposed to everyone they know. After that I would probably piss in their mouth, make them drink it all and then tie them up and fuck them in the ass then make them clean my dick off after. Then I would leave them tied up in their piss for as long as I felt like and live stream them somewhere on the internet so they would be visible covered in piss for the whole world to see. Of course the entire time I would make them call themselves names and thank me for everything I'm doing to them

I think permanent denial can be fun if used in the right way. I don't like the idea of making it 100% sure that someone will never have an orgasm again because they can just accept that but making it so its incredibly unlikely and giving nearly impossible tasks to complete so that they keep trying to earn an orgasm and failing would be a great way of adding to humiliation and psychological torture