where can I find people near me with the same kinks

[Animal_pants]

I'm not sure if this is in the right place. please remove if it isn't.

I'm getting into chastity, and I don't like the idea of these online pay for a keyholder services. was wondering if there is a website or something where you can meet people with similar kinks as you, in your area. I live in a (uni) student town so I'm sure there are loads. but I cant just ask every tom dick and harry if they're in to chastity play.

TIA

Animal_pants

[RiskyFlame]

Originally Posted by Animal_pants

I don't like the idea of these online pay for a keyholder services.

What is it that you don't like aboutt hose online key holding services for which you have to pay (so you said). The online part or the payment part? Because if you just don't want to pay, then just search here on getDare for your chastity key holder. People are not allowed to ask for money in return for their services, so it's a good start to search here.

If you dislike the online part, then you can just search anonymously for your key holder in your town. Make a couple or dozen leaflets and hang them around public locations where lots of people can read it. Don't write your real name or address on it, of course. Just your phone number. If anyone contacts you, you could meet each other.

I would recommend both methods. Still, you need to watch out whom you establish a connection with. Make sure you are on the same terms as well as having a good feeling about each other. Don't start building something with a person you have your doubts with.

Originally Posted by Animal_pants

I'm not sure if this is in the right place. please remove if it isn't.

I would say that these kind of thread belong in the Advice Section. Like the title says, you can be adviced by experienced members of getDare on all kinds of (specialized) areas.

[Animal_pants]

its the fact that i don't know, and cant meet the person online. i would rather meet in person for the exact reason you mentioned.. not starting anything with someone i dont have good feeling about. thank you for the fast response, and amazing post : )